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Hey my names ali i'm 17 from new jersey. i'm usually really fast with advice so ask whatever you want and i'll answer as soon as possible!! Please rate me too `=D
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This may sound disgusting, but my pee is hardly yellow at all and its really freaking me out. Please!!! help!!
It's just from drinking water or liquids. It will pass, theres nothing wrong.
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ali
i need to find a new bedspread. my mom told me to look online but i cant find any i really like. i already looked at www.pbteen.com and all the department stores i can think of. does any one know where i can find a cute bed spread? 15/f
Urban Outfitters and Delia's online. They have awesome bed stuff, some of the time.
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ali
is proactive really good for acne? i mean.. i dont get REAL bad acne but when i get pimples they get real red ..so do you think proactive is right for me and how much is it? where can i get it
Ok, I used proactive. I would proactive like nobodys buisness. Here is what i learned from it.
DO NOT USE IF YOU DONT HAVE BAD ACNE. Why? Keep Reading..
1) My face became addicted to proactive! I never had pimples, just the occasional breakout, now my skin is rough bumpy and has more pimples.
2) It bleaches your skin, it takes the color out.
That's why I wouldn't recomend it for you.
But, if you still want it, its like 60 dollars, you can get it online. Beware though, make sure you really want to use it.
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ali
ok im 16 and i got pregnant..i kno it sucks and i made a bad choice but see the thing is my bf doesnt know yet and hes the one who got me pregnant too...Im afraid to tell him and stuff because i know he will like just freak out and leave me...but idk what ot do...can you help??
thanks
Sweetie, you cant hide this from him forever. Unless you plan on not keeping the baby. You should just sit him down and tell him. It was both of your decisions not to use birth control, now you both have to deal with the consequences. He helped make that baby, you couldn't have done it on your own. If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.
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ali
what's pop a cherry mean?
Sometimes, when a girl has sex for the first time, her hymen hasnt broken. A girl's hymen can break many ways: horseback riding, bike riding, using tampons-but it doesnt always break. When the hymen breaks, it bleeds. So basically, when a guy takes a girls virginity and she bleeds, its popping her cherry.
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ali
awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks.
Well, most likely, no. Ok, he's had to have gotten head from another girl or had sex with another girl. If he's lying to you, its the only way you could have an STD. As long as he has not had sex or not been given head by anyone else but you, you're safe. By the way, even if he doesnt cum, you could still get an STD like HPV (genital warts or in your case, genita warts in your mouth) or Herpes. If you have any more questions, drop me on in my inbox.
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ali
i have very small eyes..what make-up tricks can i use to make them look bigger? i rate=D
I have really small eyes too, and what I do is apply a thin line of liquid eyeliner on the top, and then pencil liner on the bottom and in my lash line.
♥ali
at my school we have to wear collared shirt, with only 2 buttons unbuttoned. we can wear jeans or skirts, but the skirts have to be longer than 2 inches above our knees. i like to dress originally, and cant stand the thought of going to school looking exactly like everyone else. also i live on an island, so whenever you buy a shirt someone else in your school probably bought it too... and with this collared shirt rule, like 9 or 10 people end up with the exact same shirt. does anyone have any suggestions for interesting ways to make my outfits less boring?
Buy different color collared shirts. Dress them up with maybe patches? Tye dye a white one? Try shopping at a store no one goes to, of one where its hard to find 2 of the same thing (ex: forever 21). Also, try cutting the sleves. Also, you can wear a very colorful high cut shirt on the underneath. Decorate your jeans! Use markers, glitter, and such from your arts and crafts store. Buy original skirts from places like forever 21.
Ok, I hope this helps. Be creative and it will work out.
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ali
alright so my boyfriend and i started having sex; we've been together awhile and i completely trust him. We're 17.. still too young for children. I know, we should be using protection but we aren't and i was wondering if there is anyway for me to get birth control without having to tell me mother? She's overprotective and thinks that sex before college is a huge "no no." Do you think i should try talking to her about it? Should i tell her that yes, i have been having sex? It would be the more responsible thing but i know she would never let me and my boyfriend be alone or go anywhere together anymore. Help, Please..
Planned Parenthood. It's there to help. You dont need your parents. Go there or to a clinic, and you can get the help you need. Your mother is living under a rock if she thinks that you arent going to have sex before college. It's your life not hers. Dont tell her unless you want to. But, Planned Parenthood will help with the birth control.
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ali
is henna permanent or does it eventually wash out?
No. It lasts about a month, so they say. But basically, it lasts a month MAXIMUM. Henna actually only lasts like 1 - 2 weeks with like showering and swimming during the summer. If you swim in the pool or go in the ocean with henna, it will fade faster.
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ali
Well my boyfriend and i plan on having sex pretty soon and he wants to use 2 condoms for extra protection just incase... you know but do you think that's dumb and is there any kinds of condoms that are like extremely durable and are like guarenteed not to break or anything... please answer... thanx
-just asking...
NO NO NO NO! Never ever use 2 condoms. It totally defeats the purpose of using a condom at all. The laytex rubs together and causes leakage and what not. Just use 1 condom. I'd go with Trojans because they are all over TV and called "americas most trusted condom", dont go with any weird cheapo brand. Use a regular condom and nothing like all ribbed and whatever for your first time. JUST DONT USE 2 CONDOMS!!
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ali
Ok well my period is really uneven so I don't know when to expect it...well this month, it skipped and now there's like little spots of dark blood or w/e in my panties...it's been happening for three days now. It's not like heavy or anything..jus like a big spot of watery blood..??! idk it's not my period bc it's usually wayy heavier..anyone know what it is? thanks
Periods are different for every girl. Sometimes they are heavy and sometimes they are light. Some come every month, some come every one in a while. If your period is seriously irregular, see a doctor. They can perscribe birth control to regulate it's flow and when it comes. Don't worry about it, just treat this spotting by using a tampon or a pad whatever.
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ali
I noticed that people are asking questions about the day after pill. Can you get the day after pill at planned parenthood without your parents knowing? especially if youre under 18. I'm 16 and a virgin, but im just wondering if it DOES ever happen, could i just drive up to planned parenthood and get the pill and no one would find out? cause my parents would kill me. thanks
This is the whole purpose of Planned Parenthood. It is there to help teenagers and young adults who are in difficult situations. It provides birth control pills, morning after pills, condoms, and even abortions. Go there if you ever need anything. You parents do not have to know.
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ali
sometimes i can not tell the difference between capital and lowercase letters,and sometime i look at words and they are backwards or flipped,also i get confused with the letters "d" and "b" or "y" and "g" or "m" and "w"
Why does this happen?
You could be dyslexic. Sometimes, people see whole readings backwards. Its a learning disability that you can get help for and you will eventualy learn to overcome it. You may always sometimes see a d as a b because dyslexica never goes away, theres no magic medicine to cure it. Having special assistance when reading will help make it easier.
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ali
When you have a tampon in can you still pee I mean go to the bathroom?
please anawer
Yes. Peeing doesn't have anything to do with the hole that the blood comes out. There are 2 seperate holes, one for peeing and one where your period comes out. I hope this makes sense.
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ali
Is it wrong to masturbate yourself?Will anyone find out without telling them?
No, it's not wrong at all. It's healthy. Everyone does it and its perfectly normal. No one will find out unless they walk in on you or you tell them you do. Don't be ashamed, there's nothing wrong with it.
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ali
were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie
Personally, I think one of the best places to get great clothes is Marshalls. You can find guess, abercrombie, also AE jeans at a decent price. Regularly, guess jeans can cost like 95 dollars. At Marshalls, they are like 19.95. Now thats a good deal! Here are some other stores also carry cheap clothes.
-Forever 21 .. you have to hunt around here, but you do find great stuff.
-Charlotte Russe .. doesnt always have great things, but u can find amazing stuff.
-T.J. Maxx .. same as Marshalls, just isnt as great on deals.
-579 .. cheap jeans!!
-Mandee .. great store, clothes are not high quality though.
ok, i hope that helps!
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ali
ok...does anybody know how you can make your hair big...like in the 80s? like, REALLY really big....mostly blondes did this to their hair, but ive been wanting to do it, but i dont know what its called or how to make it stick up and stay up...so if u can, PLEASE reply a.s.a.p!!! thanx
Ok, TEASE IT! to tease, grab a comb. hold the hair you want big up straight and comb downward. it will look like a big knot, but yah it works. it may hurt a little took. again, hairspray. repeat as nessicary. hairspray. flip your head over, blast with a blow dry, and oh HAIRSPRAY. aqua net is amazing for amazing uplifting, huge hair.
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ali
I have always wondered that if you have sex a few days after your period how much of a chance is there that you will get pregnant?
There's no sure fire way to have unprotected sex and not get pregnant. You can have it on your period, right after, or whatever, and you still can get pregnant. There probably is about a 35% chance less of you getting pregnant if you have sex while on your period or right after, but just use a condom! Seriously, it's not worth it to be pregnant when you aren't ready. Good luck.
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ali
wut is a condom... like ive herd ppl say he put it on the rong way r sumthin. so just wut is it?
Wow, um, a condom is basically a little laytex sorta thing that you place over a guys penis when having sex. It is for protection against STDs and pregnancy. It's putting a barier between you and your partner so theres no room for transmission of bodily fluids. They are anywhere from like 3 - 9 inches long (all different sizes for all different penises) and you can get them in the grocery store, drug store, and walmart. I think the best way you can get an idea about them is to buy one and check it out. Or, look at some images on google for a better mental picture.
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ali