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hey guys!

my names alex, i'm 13, i know about anything from relationships to sports(x-specially soccer)...i love helping people out so leave some questions and ill do my best to answer them! if you dont like my advice- tell me and i have some other awesome ppl you can ask...muchh lovve...

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ok tomorrow me and my friend want to do something really random...we already thought of spending the day at walmart...and going bowling...and things like that but i need someting really mental and weird

got any ideas

i kno this sounds weird but its a fun list that my friend had as her away once- its called things to do at wal-mart...

Things To Do At Wal-Mart While You Wait For Your Family To Shop
* 1. Get boxes of condoms & put them in peoples' carts when they aren't looking. *
* 2. Make a trail of orange juice on the floor to the restrooms. *
* 3. Walk up to an employee and announce in an official tone, "I think we have a code 3 in housewares," and see what happens. *
* 4. Look right into the security camera and use it as a mirror while you pick your nose. *
* 5. Dart around suspiciously while humming the theme from 'Mission Impossible. *
* 6. While handling guns in the hunting department ask the clerk if he knows where the anti-depressants are. *
* 7. Hide in the clothing rack and when people browse through whisper 'PICK ME! PICK ME!' *


i dont know if i would have the guts to do some of that stuff...but knock yourself out....


hope i helped..

muchh lovve

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Hey I was just wondering what some good ways to find families to babysit for are. I want to babysit within my town though. I'll rate high!
Kelli

if you have a young neighbor- just offer to babysit- most likely the 1st couple of times you babysit the parent(s) will be home just in case...but if that dosnt work just put flyers in peoples mail boxes....it sound corney- but they will reply and you will have a babysitting job...

hope i helped...

muchh lovve

ps- 4 me it was just kinda like hey can you come over and hang with {{Lily}} while i run to the store and eventually then start trusting you for longer and longer periods of time....

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i need to get in shape. im always tired and unhappy and moody and im not in shape. i want to be in shape. i can never motivate myself enough no matter what i do. what can i do?

drink gatorade to get your adrenniline(sp??) pumping! if you go out on a run it relaxes you and gets you more energized to do more exercises...do crunches or situps while your watching tv- its easier when you have something to watch...

for more tips- im or comment me

muchh lovve

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Well me and my friend our boered. WE usually tan outside but its cloudy today. Anybody have any ideas on what we could doo?

watch a movie...do somethin other than tan outside...um...call people...w/e floats your boat

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i just cleaned out my whole closet basically and now i only have like 40 shirts! i usually shop at abercrombie // hollister // american eagle, and its pretty pricy. i was wondering if there was any other stores that have websites with cute clothes for school this year. and if you could name some. thank youu!

um sometimes you can be suprised by what you find in target, marshalls, tj maxx...ect...try any of those stores and their sites...but dont look in the childrens- make sure your in the juniors...misses tend to have older looking clothes....


hope i helped


muchh lovve

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Ok here's the deal. This is kind of embarrasing but I wanted to get a new computer, a laptop for school. And I wanted to get rid of my old computer. The thing is, my parents want to buy it, they don't want me to throw it out. Uh, I kinda may have gone on sites that they wouldn't approve of...but they won't take no for an answer of buying it. I'm perfectly ok with throwing it in the dump, but they're not. I'm so afraid somehow they'll find out what sites I went on if they buy it. What do I do!

right click on the internet icon and go to properties and youll see this thing that says clear history- select the # of days you want and click clear history- when your done click apply...hope i helped


muchh lovve

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I was wondering if anyone knew the name of the song that plays on the movie: "The Girl Next Door" when they kiss for the first time....

www.azlyrics.com
www.letssingit.com
www.lyrics.com


google- lyrics for "....

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!!

1st off- you are not ugly, fat, or anything of the sort! its probably just b/c you are shy or not very open to guys- try flirting more and being very outgoing..this usually attracts guys. if there is a certin guy you like and you know him- try setting up a hang out with just the 2 of you so he can get to know the real you- if it turns out that he likes you he will ask you out and u know the rest- but yeah just basicly just try to make your self more open and out there just not in a bad or discusting way

sometimes the more unnatractive girls get guys because they are so desperate that they will do anything- they might even stoop so low that its considered slutty...

dont worry the right guy will come :)

if more advice is needed- IM or comment me back

muchh lovve ♥

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what are the risks of getting your belly pierced? does it hurt a lot?

um- i would think it hurts- i mean just shoving a sharp object through your stomache...

here are some of the risks
- it can get caught on things are rip off (very unlikey, but it did happen to my friends babysitter....ouchhh)
- i has a chance of getting infected
- if you decide to take it out it looks like you have a second bellybutton..hehe but idk why you would want to take it out after the whole process of getting it pierced...
- if you dont clean it it can become painful or infected

so um yeah those are some of the risks...

but after reading some other things on the subject- its looks awesome after the procedure so yeah
if you need more info- google it or ask your docter or the person who does the actual piercing

muchh lovve

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Hey advicenators!! I need help on motivation:
well over the summer we need to read two books and do a book report on one of them. My school starts the 29 of aug. and i still havnt started either of my books. Im usually really good with this stuff and get it done before the first month of summer. But this year i just cant find motivation cuz the books suck and are boring. I dont want to have a bad fist impression on my teachers and not have it all done by the first week of school!! What do you suggest?? what can i do to motivate myself?

take one night and just read read read!!! b/c u wanna ve able to enjoy what little bit of summer you have left!! thats your motivation...or you can set a limit like- i cant go to the pool unless i read 50 pages or something...and a tip- read the book that has the report due with it b/c you can always read the other book like last minute...

hope i helped....


muchh lovve

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ok well i really wanna lose 17 pounds by august 29th. any sugestions?... I WILL RATE VERY HIGH!!

drink lots and lots of water and eat lots of veggies and try and run 3-5 miles a day 4 times a week(eventually work up to like 6 miles...) weigt training and the EFX machine and also try to make portions smaller and hold off on snacking!


my mom= health freak...

if more advice is needed IM or comment me

muchh lovve

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Okay, I know that you have a ton of these questions, but oh well.
I'm 14/f, and I live in pennsylvania. In pennsylvania you can start working when you're 14, but few places will hire. Does anyone know where they hire at 14. I heard about McDonalds, and there's a McDonalds where I live, but I don't think they hire at 14. Wendy's doesn't hire until 16, neither does Rita's. So does anyone know any places?

Btw, I can't babysit. Not allowed to, and there's no one to babysit and it's almost fall so I can't do landscaping.

Thanks in advance!!

um if you know anyone that might need their dog walked- you can make big bucks on that((i did anyhow)) if you live near wayne, PA then there are lots of little boutiques and places like that that need younger kids to work there....also in narberth there are TONS of places looking for younger workers...i also live in Pennsylvania...IM me cuz i know some awesome places....


muchh lovve


just adding on to my answer- COLOR ME MINE- they offered me a job there and im not even 14- well they didnt know that but they said come back and apply when your 14....lol....its an awesome place to work- u just have to paint all day and occasionally tell a customer where the paints are..haha....

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So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half on August 23rd. We decided that we would just get each other something small and $25 or less.. but I have no idea what I should do and I'm stumped.. If you have any ideas, please let me know.. thanks a bunch!

um u could make him a mix of like nice and romantic songs- if hes into that kind of thing..or you could make him something...sometimes like baskets full of lots of little things are cool- but not like bath stuff or anything girly...it all really depends on what he likes and things like that

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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers

um well i dont think you should totally ditch him cuz it soundz like he was there for you a lot..he might be sensing that you are trying to get rid of him and he might be a little mad about that....or just sometimes people loose it every once and a while- it soundz like you two were pretty close...but if you dont want to see as much of him just make lots of plans with other people- or if you have to hang with him- make it with a group or at a dance so theres other people around..

IM or comment me if you need more advice

muchh lovve

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i wrote this poem for my boyfriend and i need some help and advice on how to make it better...



Ever since I meet you
You have been all I think about
You have been all I talk about
Your all I want in my life
You stole my heart like no other
Nobody will ever have my heart like you do

Sometimes you think I don’t like you as much as u do
You will never know how strong my feelings are for you
I don’t know if I will ever be able to explain to you how I feel about you
Day by day my love for you grows
I know I cant see you all the time
But just because I cant see your gorgeous brown eyes doesn’t mean I am not with you.
You will always have my heart with you to cheer you up

I would do anything for you
I just want to be in your arms now and forever
And I just want you to know that
No matter what happens between us weather I am your girl or not
That I will always love you


can someone help me out.. thanks

aw thats sooo cute!

but i think that this poem should come from you b/c i would feel weird with someone elses words in my love poem....but i think its perfect just the way it is..it comes from the heart...btw- you are amazing at writing! :)


muchh lovve

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hey i have a question. does anyone know of any programs to download music that would work for windows XP without having to have administrator's privileges? i cant seem to find any and my dad put a password on his windows account so i cant get on there and download one. anyone know of any?

i think windows media and real player should be downloadable...they should already be on there actually...

comment back if more advice is needed...

muchh lovve

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what do you do wen your goin out wif a guy.. and your best guy friend who you really like and have always wanted to go out with him asks you out... i mean i rilly like the guy im going out with and i really like my best friend?? me and my b/f lets call him jon have been goin out for a couple weeks now and my best frind lets call him bob juz asked me out today?! i have always wanted to go out with bob but he never asked and now that im going out with jon , bob decides to ask me out! i dont want answers tht say well its up to you..i need advice..thnx!! i rate high!!!!!


well i think if you are sure that the stuff with you guy friend will work out and you have deep feelings for him you need to talk with your bf and tell him that you have feelings for another guy- you should do this even if you arnt going to go out wit "bob"..its only fair that he knows..

if you need more advice- IM or comment me

muchh lovve

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... I'm 14, and my boobs aren't that big.. they are 36 B's... which is Alright i guess, but the problem is, I've seen other girls boobs, and my nipples are really big... their's arent!...
I feel so weird, and recently at the beach, they wanted to go skinny dipping and I didnt too, but I didnt want people to see my breasts and laugh... they're weird :( is this normal?

its fine- you cant really compare boobs until youve stopped growing...but um...dont be self concious...people grow differently and if you are really concerned- like if you think somethings rong(which i do not believe there iS) i would suggest asking you mom first and if she thinks theres something rong then contact a docter...

hope i helped

muchh lovve

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can anyone give me a full explanation of "riding the bus with my sister" i have to read it for school and i TOTALLY dont understand it.. i finished it but it was boring cuz i didnt understand it.. could someone either, in detail, explain the book, or give me a site that does?

i honestly do not know- but i have some websites that might help

clifnotes.com (im not sure if its one "f" or too- try both)

pinkmonkey.com


try those...


comment back or IM me for more advice if needed

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i am 5'3" and weigh 104 lbs( i am a girl)
i just got back form camp and now my mom is telling me that i look too skinny, but i think i need to loose 5 pounds. how can i make her see things my way so she doesnt get mad at me when i diet.

trust me- you dont need to diet in the first place- and most of the time when kids go to camp their diet changes and their more active so you probably lost some weight at camp anyway...and sometimes its not that you need ot lose weight- but try running and weight lifting cuz it tones up your body! but if you are gonna diet just tell your mom that you just feel that you should do this- and its not really dieting- its really just eating differently, more in proportion, and healthier...my moms a health nut- ask any of my friends...

comment back or IM me if you need more advice

muchh lovve

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