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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.
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I don't really like my boyfriend anymore, i know that is TERRIBLE to say, but im 13/f and im not allowed to date till im 16. The other day on aim he said the sweetest thing.. that he would wait for me until i was 16 so we could go on dates. That freaked me out, because i dont want that kind of commitment, i dont like the fact that he is going to be with me for 3 years scares the crap outta me.
How do i break up with him because i can't see him in person, because schools out and i cant go anywhere with him period.Also i am not allowed not to call him!!!!!! Do i messaged him over myspace? I know thats a terrible way to break up. :(
pLEASE hELP mE!
Are you parents home 24-7, that you can't sneak a phone call in? If so you shouldn't even be in a relationship it's not fair for him, considering you can never talk to him other then myspace.
I think you should have a talk with your parents too that's a tad bit too strict. If you wanna be able to see him possibly, talk to you parents and see if like you a couple girls can hang out with guys at the pool or something? I don't know. Just sneak a call in I guess.
here are these to really great girls im trying to find out which one i should date, i cant choose!
i need help sooo bad
okayy #1 is Jessica
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5zm2kgl
#2 this is Haley
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=5xhrxuw
which one? i dont know, im having a SUPER hard time
ALSO PLEASE TELL ME WHO IS PRETTIER I CANT TELL THAT STUFF IDK WHY BUT IM HAVING A HARD TIME pleasee help
thanks!!
Well first of all that's really ignorant since your judging them by looks. Pick which one in your opinon has the best personality, cause I'm not giving my opinon about the looks.
If you can't choose don't date either one, because obvisioly you only like them for there looks, which isn't fair. I'm not trying to be rude, but it's not right. You need to take time and think out which one you honestly like, and don't lead them on. If it's just for looks, then just be single and be friens w/ benifits with both?
Im 16 and my dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do?
Well in my opinion is talk to your mom first. Explain to her that she's gotten really bossy and you can't take it anymore. Explain to her that this guy ISN'T your real dad, and you shouldn't have to deal with him treating you like shit. Tell her you'll except the marrage if things change, such as letting you have a little bit of freedom.
Write me in my inbox again, if you need anymore help. Sorry if it wasn't much.
Good luck.
okay im kind of overweight
so i was wondering what are some bathing suits i could buy that would hide my stomach
like those tankinis or w/e? and where could i find some reasonably priced ones? nothing to expensivee
xoxo
Let's see. Here are some resonable prices that sell tankinis.
-Kohls.
-Target.
-Walmart.
-Boscov's.
-Kaufman's.
That's pretty much all I can think of. Everything else is kinda expensive.
this must be really stupid,but.... what is a handjob? and what do you do?
A handjob is when a girl/or a guy whatever I guess they perfer rubs their hand up and down on a guys penis, and what you do is rub up and down, hard + fast. Sometimes you might need some lotion, cause it gets dry. Mhm.
whats a really good shampoo && conditioner 4 hair??(btw im blonde if it helps)
Panteen + Dove is good. (:
+ they smell great.
which is the best way to have sex? i am only asking because me and my bf are planing on doing it and we are so confused. and i was wondering if you could give directions as well. none of the sites i checked out don't really get to the point. and most wont let a 15 year old in. or you could give me some sites. i would really appreciate it. and my bf does too.
No affence or anything, but if you don't know how you probably shouldn't be doing it.
I mean there are TONS of ways to do it. If it's your first time I would do it the basic (on top of eachtother way.) so it doesn't hurt as bad, I guess. Make sure your ready & use protection!
Me and my bf have been going out for a year and like seven months anyway, i was just wandering can you start doin a blow job and finish with a hand job? i dont want any cum in my mouth so yea thats the problem. and can guys give me some advice or tricks to hand jobs...things girls do to you during a hand job that just drives you wild and you love it!!
Well with my boyfriend when I'm giving my boyfriend a blow job, and I get a little tired I switch on/off to a hand job, and he let's me know when he's kinda close and I start sucking again. You can tell him you don't want him to cum in your mouth, that's fine! He can just pull it out.
Good luck.
so heres my story. i had sex unprotected about a week and a day ago. it was the pull out method. soo i took the plan b pills. usually when i take them ill get my period exactly 7 days after. yeah that didnt happen this time. so about 2 days after i was suppose to get it from the pills i took a pregnancy test and it came up neg. last time i got my period was at the end of last month. so im due for it coming up. does anyone have any advice or relationship to this situation?
Well with my story it was a little bit different. I had unprotected sex just about a day after my period ended, and then I took the pill. Then a week later I got my period. It was really strange.
-But if you took the pill the next day, everything should be fine with you. If the test said negative, it's negative. (:
which one smells better? the "8" or "classic" perfume?
classic in my opinion.
im intrested in reading alot of sarah dessens books this summer. but which one is the best, or can you tell me which is the best from greatest to least? thank you so much
Well are her books are ;
The Truth about Forever
This Lullaby
Dreamland
Keeping the Moon
Someone Like You
That Summer
Personally my fav was, "The truth about Forever." But like someone else said "This Lullaby" was very very very good. (: They're all great though!
everybody says the first time you ahve sex it is painful..do you get any plesure out of it or is it all pain?
The first time it hurts pretty badly, because the cherry pops. Afterwords, such as the next time or maybe even later on into the first it'll start feeling very good.
for all the girls that got fingered for the first time- did it hurt? or was it just uncomfortable? thanks.
It kind of hurt for the first time. It was probably because the person had no clue what he was doing, and was absoloutly terrible at it. It was also uncomfortable too, because I didn't really want it too happen. Now when my boyfriend does it, it feels amazing, cause he's excellent at it. It feels just right.
can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]
my first time was when i was fourteen. i don't actually regret it, because i love the kid, it's just i wish i was older. my thoughts/feelings are alright, cause we have sex often. yeah, i'm still in a relationship. (: thank god.
Tonight i had sex for the second time.
We used a condom and i saw the sperm in the condom after we finished and there were no holes, then we did it again with a new condom but he didn't finish off because we didnt have enough time.My cherry popped this time but it barely bled at all and im just wondering , the chances of me being pregnant are really low right?
Thank you !
yes, because you used a condom. they're extremly low.
what does stfu stand for?
shut the fuck up.
what is giving head im so clueless how do you give it??? and what does you cherry pop mean is it just some weird way of saying having sex for the first time just wondering
giving head - also named as blow job. sucking a mans penis. (stick it in your mouth and use a lot of tonge.) i guess easiest way to describe it.
cherry pop - first time having sex is when this happens. its something in the vagina that when something enters it or bumps it, it pops, and bleeds.
alright. ha. so im 13 (14 in a few days) and my 8th grade dance is on the 15th or something like that. its formal too. and i have to get a dress for it. im thinking like a black or blue one. any good dresses that arent like SO much money. or any like.. other dress ideas?
and shoes too. ah. (i sorta have big feet tho? :[
and i need to figure out how to do my hair. ill tell you what i look like first.
i have blonde wavy hair to my shoulders.
im 5'3 and have blue eyes.
i have long legs? and um theres nothing really else.
so yeah. any ideas on my hair. i think i might just straigthen it.
and the theme for the dance is like bon boi ash (thats spelt wrong) but pretty much like a cruize line thing.
ANY IDEAS for ANYTHING? :] thanks.
well my 8th grade dance was tonight. i didn't go though. ): BUT if i did i would've consider these :
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=2&CatID=120&CENID=2443
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=1&CatID=120&CENID=2424
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=1&CatID=120&CENID=2433
http://www.debshops.com/Fashion/ViewDetail.asp?page=2&CatID=120&CENID=2445
personally i think they're adorable, but sorry if you don't. + for shoes, you don't want to spend super much so something simple and classy.
http://www.charlotte-russe.com/browse/accessories/0102/
+ hair, curls or straight?
good luck + have fun!
hey i was wondering if guys prefered a girl who shaves down there when fingering instead of a girl who does not shave
guys deffinitly prefer shaved, because bushy is like gross on their fingers.
14/f
Hey. Basically Im depressed. About my whole life. I have different issues like school work and guys and i really do not want to go to an adult about this. I dont know if im really depressed or am i just bored. Like i havent had a boyfriend since october. I really dont know, i should be very happy right now because i won this contest, but im not. I cry everyday, and nothing big happened that i should be depressed about. I mean there are little things but seriously im so confused right now and i realy need help. I do talk to my friend but she has no adivce cuz shes going through the same thing. Please help
what you need to do hun is a get a decent size group of friends, (girls/or boys) and all hang out. believe me being with friends and stuff and being able to laugh takes a lot of stress out. you don't wanna stop hanging with your friends now, and be alone all summer, because you can get even more depressed and that's not good.
go to the movies, or pool, or something & make sure you don't get upset! keep yourself talking, and going, and continue doing this. you don't need a boyfriend it's summer! (:
this has happend to me before - it sucked. i constantly cried because of everything. get excited about winning that contest! obvisioly you did something good, BE PROUD. and your friend - make her feel comforted too.
good luck!