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I have my period during a big dance! So like where do i put everything? I'm not wearing boots so i can't put it in there. I can't bring a purse because that would be tacky. SO WHERE DO I PUT IT?! (link)
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Get a little hand bag that matches your purse =).
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i have a crush on this guy in my class
we sit next to each other but never talk, so one day i wanted to ask him to this dance that our school will be held, but i don't have the guts too so my friend did it for me, she passed him a note asking if he wanted to go to the dance with me, he rejected it by saying he doesn't like to go to dances, i was sad and didn't know what to do, but den i still acted like nothing happened and told him its okay even though i got rejected, but deep inside i'm so sad and don't know how to face him in the future knowing that he knows i have a crush on him. what can i do?? (link)
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Everyone goes through this at some point. Of course your a little on the embarrised side but its no reason to try and avoid him. Im pretty sure he doesnt think your wierd or anything , all you did was ask him on a date . Atleast he didnt rejected [Y0U] . He just said no thanks to the dance. Try and get to know him a little better, just make up a silly little conversation , wether its asking for paper or a pencil =). Once you face him one time , the next time will be a breeze.
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whats the best way to do eye make up for a 16/f with brown eyes, almond eye shape... im hispanic and irish if that helps? lol thank you! (link)
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Purple , like a light shade of purple . To make your eyes look bigger you can put a little eye liner on top of your eyes .
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Ok I was thinking about taking me and my boyfriend's relationship to another level we talked about it and he said he don't want to rush me into it and he wants to do it when I do it so like I'm thinking about it but I want to know like how does it feel does it really hurt and if it does what are some things you can do to make it less painful? (link)
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This is somthing you cant really relie on other's answers. Every girl's body is differnt , sometimes it hurts , sometimes it doesnt at all. It all depends on the body. You can try and stretch your self out a little before trying to do it , Like maybe get him to finger you before .
Hope i helped.
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So my boyfriend and i started have sex a few months ago, and we have only done it 4 times. The first time, it hurt bad enough that we had to stop. The second and third didnt hurt as bad, but it didnt feel GREAT. Then the last time, it hurt REAllY bad again... there was about a 2-4 week period in between all these encounters. So im guessing he got bigger..but when will it feel good? (link)
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Its probley just that your skin stretched to far before getting use to it. Before having your sexual intercourse , Try to have forplay with him and letting him finger you so that you can get atleast a little stretched out. if you do it more often , which im not incouaging you to it will feel better and you will get use to it . Hope i helped .
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My girlfriend and I broke up today. We are both 15 and have been going out for over 11 months. To me that is a long time to have a relationship with someone then just break up. The break-up itself happened with her dumping me, but later on she wanted to try to make things work, and make things better again. The problem is i kindof rejected it. I love her still, and i would be happy with going back out with her. But i look into the future and say to myself,"once the begining of this break up is over and the hard times are done, i know i wont have to deal with any girl problems, i can do whatever i want, etc. NO problems period". Right now i am deciding to take my own advice and keep broken up. Its hard. So, advicenator viewers, PLEASE HELP ME ON HOW TO GET OVER HER, PLEASE GIVE ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO GET THROUGH THE HARD TIMES. AND ALSO REMIND ME OF THE BENIFITS OF FINALLY BEING OVER HER. Please just tell me the things i want to hear, but that are true at the same time. Also, she is hurt that i rejected her trying to get back together, which also makes it hard on me. I dont like the fact that i basically broke her heart......Thanks to all that help me out:-) (link)
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Honestly , We cant give you advice because getting over someone will most definatly take time. Maybe its not time to move on . Personaly i think you should give it another time. Maybe she just had an off day , atleast she tryed to make things better. Yes , you wont have GIRL problems but you'll find your self missing her and wishing you had a girl [ i bet you ] . Its just something that you have to make the choice on your own.
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16/f. 15/m. my first boyfriend's getting to be REALLY kinky...and it's okay, to some extent. but i've just had enough.
i have a kind of ..a fear of male genitalia..its not a fear..more like a disgust [because of events that have happened previously..to me ..when i was young] and..my bf (lets call him A)
well, A showed me his penis. and i wasn't exactly turned on or anything. we're much too young. and whenever i reject looking at it, or touching it or anything, he gets PISSED at me. and he goes...so you have peniphobia now? WTF?
he ALWAYS finds something wrong with the way i act-how i'm disgusted by certain crude..sexual acts - IN PUBLIC.. WHO touches themselves in public? Please tell me..? Am I insane or -what..?
He takes pictures of his penis and gets upset when I refuse to see it. He doesn't respect my irrational fear...no matter how stupid it is.
Worst of all, he forces some acts on me...he grabs me by the crotch and forcefully grabs my boobs. I liked the making out stage...But it's just getting too retarded now. He's way too horny. And I tell him I love him..because I do. But I can't be with him anymore. I feel like he only uses me for my body. That's all he wants.
Can somebody PLEASE tell me ..whether or not this relationship could be worth saving? Or..?
There's also no intellectual attraction - We have nothing to talk about. It's all physical. And I don't feel like I can tell him anything.
I have no experience with boyfriends prior to this one. So I don't know what to do. Any help would be GREATLYYY appreciated. (link)
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Breaking it off with someone can be hard if you love them . If its in your heart that [ you ] know its right to end it , then do. Only you know how you feel or how upset you get. Because i use to be like you and just think that a boy's personal stuff was the most gross thing ever. Eventually I got over it , and learned to not get weirded out by it. If you dont feel comfortable , then you shouldnt let ANY0NE force it apon you , if he really loved you like you do him then he would understand where your coming from and respect that. Anyone could see that he is misusing your body. Maybe a good talk will be good , I use to think my boyfriend used me some what but it turned out he really didnt want me to think so he lets me givee the signs now , just follow your heart ,
i hope i really help ; let me know =)
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Okkay, my boyfriend always says he's going to kiss his girlfriend, & not referring to me, (referring to my other friend) & he goes in to kiss her & I pull him back, I know he is just playing but I would really like him to stop, what should I tell him? (link)
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You need to make it clear that even if its just a friend or he's just playing that its not the thing to do. To me it doenst really seem that he is committed and its only hurting you not him oviously. Just talk to him about it first , tell him it doesnt make you feel to sure about [ yalls]
relationship and it makes you mad . Thats the only way ... [ communication ]
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within the past few weeks
me and this guy have done basically everything but sex.
i love him, i really do
i've loved him since i was 12.
he loves me back.
is this still going way to fast? (link)
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Well its only as fast as you make it. And it depends on how old you are , because you didnt tell us your age but besides that , only you know if your ready to move on or stop where you are. But rreally make sure you love someone , so there isint really a " fast " but it shouldnt be just right after another .
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Does anyone have any advise on how to deal with an ex, when there is a child involved? (link)
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All you can really do is just be open with the situation and love them
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long story short.
my boyfriend cheated on my and slept with another girl. and might i mention one of the ugliest girls. but thats besides the point, i see this girl frequently but ive never really been forced to be in a small area with her since i found out.
now one of my good friends is having a birthday party and this slut is going to be there. i dont know how to act or if i should say anything. so my question is, what do i say to my boyfriend before the party and how do i act around this girl?
all of our friends know and everyone acts awkward because of what the two of them decided to do. oh and i hate this girl. but i dont want to cause a scene, its my good friends 21 birthday. (link)
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Ok , This is going to be hard either way . True though, you dont want to cause a scene . After all your there for your friend and not worring about that girl. Just stay calm , Let her know your better than her & she is nothing but trash. Although , people do make mistakes but thats not the point . Just keep it calm and keep the conflict down untill after the party .
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I'm seventeen years old.
So I don't consider myself too young to be having sex,the thing is I just am apprehensive to go all the way. Two reasons.
1. My mom who is very domineering would absolutely flip out, she'd go crazy.
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2. I don't want to tell my doctor, because I don't want a pap test (she said after I was sexualy active I had to.) I just don't want her to think I'm skanky, even though she can't tell my mom it makes me nervous that she'll have to let it slip.
Physicaly though, I'm ready, I could easily get my head around the idea of sex.
I've been fingered and such.
Like today my boyfriend and I were 'fooling around', and he was like "i don't want to presure you but when you're ready I have condoms."
I just laughed. I'd actualy like to have sex with him, he means a lot to me. (link)
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I was scared to go to the doctor to about personal stuff but what made me feel totally comfortable was that the first thing he said to me was anything me and you talk about is between us , were not here to rat you out , so thats how we bond is by trusting each other .
But anyways . Only do it if your ready to let somthing go that means alot to you , if you truley do love him , there isint any reason why you shouldnt but dont rush just make sure your totally ready to deal with what ever consequenses come your way . Who know's your mother doenst have to find out
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My boyfriend and I don't want to have a physical connection for undisclosed reasons. Basically I want to have phone sex to spice up our relationship but I honestly have no clue how to? What do I do?
I will be thankful for any advice! (link)
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Just talk about stuff that turns you or both on.
Talk about sex and hot and good stuff .
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alright, so today me & my boyfriend colored my hair. Before it was like really blonde, and my roots were coming in(medium brown) so I went and got some color. Well it came out dark brown, and red in it. I didn't read this tip thing, that said this color will give you a red look. My hair makes me sick to my stomach, really. I want it either my old color, or a dirty blonde. My mom said we're going to a hair place tomorrow, and see what they say to get. Any tips?
p.s I know I was dumb for not reading the tips. (link)
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just get a dark color.
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me and my boyfriend has safe sex all the time, we also check the condom in the middle of our sex. and i'm just curious, what are the signs of being pregnant? does a wet vagina count as one? because mine is like.. really wet. and sometimes i wake up wanting to throw up but i don't, because it's either i'm hungry or something, but i just know that when it's really cold, i just kind of tighten up and feel like throwing up, so i'm not sure. and i asked my boyfriend if anything happened during sex, he told me that he promised nothing happened and if something did happen, he would've told me and to stop worrying. so i'm just wondering am i pregnant and what are the signs? he said the condom didn't break nor leak, or am i just being paranoid cause my period is coming soon. (link)
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Your not pregnate , the only way you could be pregnate is for sperm to get up in your vagina.
So calm down , your not .
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So i absolutley LOVE to dance but i've never actualy done like good choreographed dancing and i think i could be really good if i start dancing more and stuff cause i want to be a dancer but i dont relaly want to take ballet or anything right now so yeah any suggestions on like how to start like dancing and stuff if you want to be a dancer (link)
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im just like you . i love to dance . it really depends on what time of dancing you want to do . Im pretty sure you can order some dance videos [ to which type you want ] or if you have ondemand you can go on there & look at some moves
also ask someone to check out dances places around your area
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So originally I had like an essay question
but it was too much.
So I'm gonna be short and to the point.
How do I forgive somebody
who ruined my family,
tried to kill me and my mom,
and made all of our lives HELL
for over 16 years
and doesn't even realize
there was a problem?
~Topaz (link)
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Honestly its going to take more than advise from us to really find out . No matter what we tell you , YOU are the only person who can find it in your heart to forgive .
heres somthing you can go by , its hard but its true
Forgivness - its not forgetting what happend its letting go of the pain .
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well i cant get to detailed but my gf has been having it hard i love her sooooooo much she invites me over we had a great time we laughed had an awsome time but in school she doesnt even talk to me its been this way for quite some time she tells me that she loves me i beleive her shes sooo nice but it just bothers me that she dont show she cares about me in school it drives me crazy how she loves me at home but at school she dont really care any advice on how i can tell her how i feel or is it rude to say something? 2.also any 1 got any advice for a gift for her im trying to keep it under 100$ i alrdy got her a cell phone for xmas now im ganna get her a 2nd gift just because i can thank u guys for any adviceu give speaccialy for the 1st one its been bothering me ALOT (link)
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ok, [ you ] may not see it , but anyone who will give you advice will simply tell you she's embarised by you S0ME way . If you love someone you would show them how you feel [ any time , any where ] right ? Just like you would like to [ im pretty sure by the way you said it ] . You love her thats why you dont care to show your affection no matter where it is . Its really not rude to confront her about your feelings because if you and her have a good relationship then she should be wide open to hear what you have to say. Dont get me wrong , thats [ personaly ] what i think is the reason because i really cant say she doesnt want to get in trouble for PDA [ public display of affection because you said she barley talks to you in school . Seems like she is embarised , You should talk to her
- think about what i said . Hope i really helped and tell me how things go
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I want to get my belly done for my birthday which is in april.But the thing is i do circus 4 days a week and i don't want to damage the piecing by doing something at circus.Wat could i do to stop it getting hurt or damaged?
Thanx (link)
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you should ask the person who pierced it what they would recommend. The only thing you could really do is but a big bandaid over it to keep it coverd up . But i would suggest you wait atleast 4 weeks before doing that curcus thing do to the fact its fresh . If you must keep doing it , just use a bandaid
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15/f
I can barely sleep at night! I go to bed at 8:00 PM hoping to wake up at 5:30 or 6:30 AM so I can get a head start on things but I can't seem to go to bed. I twist and turn like crazy but my bed is really comfortable [its not new and I've slept well in it until 3 months ago] and I think that there is nothing that is subconsciously bothering me. This has has such a pivotal effect on me. I ended up sleeping in class. Before vacation I received 3 detentions for this problem. My mom has resorted to having me go to bed at 7:30. Even then I still don't sleep until about 11:00. I am not aloud to get up and turn on lights or relaxing music because my parents need to go to bed. [they wake up really early]I don't understand what I can do!
How can I sleep earlier and better? (link)
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i use to have the same problem . couldnt sleep and sleeping through classes. also everyone said i might have something on my mind but i know i didnt. I eventually grew out of it but maybe its difficult for you . Try to listen to maybe music with head phones so you dont disturb everyone else. Try having a little snack to make you feel more relaxed
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