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cheating whore
long story short.
my boyfriend cheated on my and slept with another girl. and might i mention one of the ugliest girls. but thats besides the point, i see this girl frequently but ive never really been forced to be in a small area with her since i found out.
now one of my good friends is having a birthday party and this slut is going to be there. i dont know how to act or if i should say anything. so my question is, what do i say to my boyfriend before the party and how do i act around this girl?
all of our friends know and everyone acts awkward because of what the two of them decided to do. oh and i hate this girl. but i dont want to cause a scene, its my good friends 21 birthday.
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She's a cheating whore? What does that make your boyfriend exactly?
Seriously babe, you are hating on the wrong person here... but fine, moving past that.
You tell your boyfriend he will keep his mouth shut if he knows what is good for him and do everything in his power to make sure the birthday party is a positive experience for the birthday girl and you.
If you can't be at least civil this girl and, I dinno, talk about the weather or the new episode of Heroes, then don't speak to her at all.
This probably isn't going to be the problem you think it could be: If everyone there knows the history, they will be doing thier best to keep things from getting messy. Just take a deep breath and go to the party expecting to enjoy yourself despite her, not expecting a cat fight, and you'll get what you expect.
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honestly, just ignore her, and let the whole day be about your friend. Dont let her get in the way of that, and if she says anything, just tell her (even if everyone is listening,) "look, we all know what you did, and im not here to talk about it with you, im here to celebrate my friends (name) birthday." then everyone will know the drama she tried to bring on with you, and how maturely you handled the situation. As for telling your boyfriend, i dont know if you prefer to do that or not, if it were me, i wouldnt, because i would not want to bring up bad memories. one of my friends had the same thing happen to them, and their bf just got mad because he always felt like she was never going to forget that or let it go, and keep it against him. Its already happened, let it be his second chance, and just forget it. If soemething happens (drama) between her and you, then i would let him know. But its really your decision, and all guys act differently to different situations.
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
if you start to get really mad and disgusted just looking at her face, just think of how akward it must be for her, and how everyone knows what she did! :-]
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Ok , This is going to be hard either way . True though, you dont want to cause a scene . After all your there for your friend and not worring about that girl. Just stay calm , Let her know your better than her & she is nothing but trash. Although , people do make mistakes but thats not the point . Just keep it calm and keep the conflict down untill after the party .
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