well i cant get to detailed but my gf has been having it hard i love her sooooooo much she invites me over we had a great time we laughed had an awsome time but in school she doesnt even talk to me its been this way for quite some time she tells me that she loves me i beleive her shes sooo nice but it just bothers me that she dont show she cares about me in school it drives me crazy how she loves me at home but at school she dont really care any advice on how i can tell her how i feel or is it rude to say something? 2.also any 1 got any advice for a gift for her im trying to keep it under 100$ i alrdy got her a cell phone for xmas now im ganna get her a 2nd gift just because i can thank u guys for any adviceu give speaccialy for the 1st one its been bothering me ALOT
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Volleyball2150 answered Friday January 4 2008, 6:48 pm: what the other person said before me could actually be right. But have you given some thought if maybe its because she want's to focus on school? Try this- hang out with her other than home and school. Like the mall... and then see how she is. If she is acting like she would at home, then i'm pretty sure she could just be focused on school during the school day. But if she's like that other than school and in public, she could very well be embarressed of something. (just like the other person said)
When you are with her and you see that she is not talking to you, take her and say "hey is something wrong?" if she asks why just speak from your heart. tell her exactly what you told us.
As for your second question- I would think about some jewlery (if she doesn't have that much). Diamonds are a great romantic gift. My friend got his girlfriend a diamond necklace that was in the shape of a circle (for the circle of love or something like that...) Or maybe a promise ring?? Girls also like perfumes so you can try getting her a perfume (but nothing like you could buy at target. Something from like a special boutique or purchased online.) Ooh and my brother got his girlfriend a really nice fancy dress by a great designer. All of those gifts should be under 100 dollars but still worth it.
varistygirl12 answered Friday January 4 2008, 6:23 pm: ok, [ you ] may not see it , but anyone who will give you advice will simply tell you she's embarised by you S0ME way . If you love someone you would show them how you feel [ any time , any where ] right ? Just like you would like to [ im pretty sure by the way you said it ] . You love her thats why you dont care to show your affection no matter where it is . Its really not rude to confront her about your feelings because if you and her have a good relationship then she should be wide open to hear what you have to say. Dont get me wrong , thats [ personaly ] what i think is the reason because i really cant say she doesnt want to get in trouble for PDA [ public display of affection because you said she barley talks to you in school . Seems like she is embarised , You should talk to her
- think about what i said . Hope i really helped and tell me how things go [ varistygirl12's advice column | Ask varistygirl12 A Question ]
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