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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!
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well guys i know like cologne...candy...get him a certificate for the movies....his favorite clothing store...blockbusters and etc.
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I loathe myself, every tiny detail about myself. I hate my appearance...My
hair, my face, my teeth, my hands, my eyebrows, chest, stomach, back, arms, etc...I
hate every characteristic of my personality, every last one. I think of my self
as stupid, incompetent and worthless. Everything that goes wrong is my fault. I
suck at every thing I do. Seeking professional help is not an option for me, and
neither is getting help from a trusted adult. Even if either were an option, I’m
much, much, much to timid to ask for help...I don't think I even deserve to have
people waste there time on me to help me anyway. (link)
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don't worry you sound just like me too independant and a pessimest i think you need to gain some self- essteem i know tht sounds horrible but even if YOU can't think of anything good about yourself i bet others do....if you hate everything so much and you just don't think you matter anymore you can talk to me and trust me no one is a waste of time....not you not anyone....i may not be professional help but you getting your feelings out will be a start of the new you a better more confident person....
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ok well im bulimic..im trying to deal with my problem but i haven't been doing it for that long but like everytime i stick my fingers down my throat it like feels like i scratch something in the same spot everytime and then it starts bleeding..is that the reason its bleeding?
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no it's not because you're doing it in the same spot...it's cause your stickin your hand down your throat....it's not smart for you to do that i hope you know the consequences tht you will face very soon and the stuff you hurl back up has acid which burns your vocal chords and is a very bad thing for singers so i encourage you not to do that anymore!!!!!!!!!!
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ok well me and my boyfriend are 13..and i heard from like a bunch of people that hes getting me a necklace and flowers but i have no clue what to get him..like i was at the mall yesterday and i went into like every store and i couldn't find anything..i dont want to get him something to expensive cause i really dont have that much money..but like can anyone give me any ideas and like the price they might be? thanks (link)
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get him some cologne, free movie tickets, gift certificate, create a basket of his favorite stuff like movies...candy....and anything else he likes...hope u find sumpthing!!!!
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I'm a breakfast, lunch, dinner type of girl. I try not snack inbetween, but I find that many times, after lunch, a few hours before dinner, I am SO hungry...does anyone have some really nutritious snacking ideas? (link)
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you can eat granola bars, carrot sticks, dried fruits like bannanas, cranberries, and you can eat anything that is a fruit and vegetable and you can occasionally have some cereal like the stuff that doesn't have that much sugar in it
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i am totally clueless right now i really like this guy let's name him kyle and my bff let's call her amanda used to have a crush on him too, and kyle knew we both liked him...and now amanda has a bf and i think kyle is totally crushed i mean he barely even talks to me anymore...it gets wosre because i asked him out the other day and he said he had to go to work, and ever since he's been ignorin me....what do i do i mean i still really like him alot and i don't know what to say to him..... (link)
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try to become more of his friend he would probably like that
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Nearly two weeks ago, my boyfriend broke up with me for the second time. He said that he didn't feel anything for me anymore and that he didn't want to be with someone who he didn't feel for. He did it by text message and I was really upset and angry with him. Now, I keep thinking I'm over him but yesterday I found he has a crush on one of my friends who is a year older than us. I thought I was over him but yesterday when he told me how he felt about my friend I was really upset. I keep trying to ignore it and hoping I'll get over him but it isn't working. How do I get over him? (link)
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well at least you have a good friend who undersatnds how you feel try finding someone else that you like and sooner or later you'll forget about him don't worry the right guy will come soon
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how do u shrink a shirt...please help! (link)
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you either buy a shirt that made up of 100% cotton or put your shirt into the washing machine and then the dryer it usually works
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hey, does anybody know of some acoustic songs for guitar that sound really good with just one guitar? (i already have "Time of Your Life" by Greenday and "Wish You Were Here" by Pink Floyd) thanks so much!! -*jeanine (link)
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ryan cabrera and john mayer are good acoustic artists
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ok i like this gurl and i want to tell her and this is my plan but i want to kno if its corny or not. ok i was gonna ask her to take a walk with me and then take her hands and b like "i really like u and i was wondering if u could see me as a b/f?" abd then also if she says yes wat am i sapposed to do and wat do i do if she says no?
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ask her to go to a movie or anything else you both have in common or go and have a cup of coffee with her....etc...and no thats not corny i think it's really sweet..if she says no then try to get over it or give her some space and tell her if you can't be b/f g/f then can you at least start out as friends??? and slowly you two will get closer and then try asking her out again and theres a good chance she'll say yes...good luck!!!
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hey I'm 15 and I went with my dad to his commercial shoot and I talked to the make-up ladies alot. At the end of the trip they told my dad that I would make a good model and I should really look into it. I'm about 5'7, long dark brown hair (about 2in past my bra) green eyes, about 110-115pounds. I was wondering how you got into modeling and who the right people to talk to and call would be? Also, what are they looking for in a person to be a model, like body type, looks, height, weight, all of those sorts of things? I would really appreciate the help. Thanks :o)
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your body type should be about right and what you do is you get you picture taken with a photographer and choose your best ones send them to a modeling agency and wait for a call back good luck!
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I dont know what the category of this is but.. Ok, heres the story this may be long but i'm not sure so if it is i'm sorry but I need all the help i can get with this question. Ok I recently spent the night with a friend of mine and while I was there her dad tried hitting on me asked me if I would have sex with him and asked me if he could kiss me and I said no, and I dont know what to do, her dad even pulled out his thing in front of me which is nasty and after all this happened I didnt go to sleep that night, I stayed up all night watching movies confused on what I should do, I mean should I get a lawer and get him sent to jail or what I am so confused and I dont know what to do, please if anyone can answer this for me I will rate high, and please who ever reads this and gives me an answer dont make jokes about it because this is very serious, thanks to everyone who answers, by the way I will rate high...Thanks advicenators! (link)
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you have to tell your parents and his wife most importantly because it is against the law if you're under the age of 17 and he want to have sex with you and if you want you can press charges on him, but i have to remind you that you may not be friends with his daughter/son anymore....but if you really want to do this then i support you to because that guy is just plain wrong, sick and nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok I go out with this boy-----hes in 8th grade and i'm in 7th. He's really nice and sweet and fine and everything like that, but when we talk on the phone, it seems like we have nothing to talk about, because we have no classes together. What might strike up a really good conversation??I need help real bad!!!!!!!!!!!I really want to keep him and we just kissed today and hes so good......plz help---I rate!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you can talk about music, clothes, how school is going, parents, new movies, old movies, and etc are just some ideas talk about something both of you are interested in...like sports...anything else like that
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myself and my 2 cousins(i'm 25) had charges put on a man for sexual assult it happened to me when i was 13 and happened to the other girls 5 years ago the other girls still want to go though with it, but i want to drop my charges as i have 3 children to look after and dont want to turn there lives upside down.he has been arrested and relised on bail now we have a carmital hearing coming up in 4 weeks! can i legal get my charges dropped! (link)
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yes u can drop your charges just tell your legal representation.....i know it might not be my place, but i think you should go through with the case because what would happen if your children were put in the same situation....would you as their mother rather have them move on or would you rather as a mother have justice be served??
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Im 13 years old. A lot of the other girls have boy friends and all but ofcourse i dont. ive never even had a first kiss or went on a date with a boy. Its not like im ugly because im not really. i just dont know...it just feels like that time is never going to come??.. (link)
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ok your still little i haven't had a first kiss, a bf and i'm still fine i'm in 8th grsde and 14 and no ones asked me out so don't worry about it when time comes you'll know it and don't rush into things like having a bf because your friends have one ;you different and you should meet someone special to share that first kiss with....good luck!!!!!
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Alright, this is sort of a random question, but I'm cleaning out my closet today, because I have WAY too many clothes. It's hard to find anything to wear because I have so much STUFF that I simply never wear...does anyone have a solution to this problem? Like, can you list out what a good amount of clothing to have is? For example, how many jeans you should have, how many tee-shirts, how many skirts, etc. Also, what's the remedy to this? I have so much clothing-but nothing to wear! Should I limit where I shop to like...2 or 3 certain clothing stores? HELP! (link)
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ok first of all a girl can never have enough clothes but if you won't wear them or they don't fit you donate them to a charity like the homless shelters because they probably have people your age who would appreciate anything
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Lately my hair has been extremely dry. I don't know wether its that I straighten it everyday or that I wash my hair everyday. Are there any products that your suggest to make my hair not dry? (link)
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don't wash your hair everyday and only straighten it about 1 a week because your hair can't take the heat of the iron well
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I just bought an incense stick holder and a bunch of incense sticks, but I don't know how to burn them right. It cost 11.00 all together for the holder and the 14 sticks, and I am only 13 so that's a lot of wasted money for me. Does anyone know how to burn them, because when I did, it just smelled like smoke/charcoal instead of lavendar like it was supposed to be. I know you have to smolder them, not burn them, and I did. My mom is being really negative about it and its really annoying, so can someone please tell me how to do it?
P.S. Otherwise I just wasted a little over 2 weeks allowance, and I have to buy other stuff, too! (link)
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ok wht you do is if you have a candle that is lit you hold the incense in your hands and put the top the flame wait until you see that the flame is going down and then your incense should work
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hey, i don't exactly want to go into "modeling"...i'm definitley not tall enough, skinny enough, whatever. but i mean...i want to do something with acting i guess. any agencys you know of near washington dc...like how do i get started? (link)
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go get a photographer and have him take pictures of you and then pick your best ones and give them to talent agenies and if they like you you'll audition for parts in playa and work your way up....no one becomes a star overnite everyone hae to start somewhere
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OKay my crush has been in a bad mood so far this week! i am trying to tlak to him but he doesn't talk to me as much as he use to! he is depressed all the time and not as engeric as he use to be! can someone tell me what i can do to cheer him up?! any ideas?! (link)
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if you know him really well and you know his favorite comedy (movie) rent it and ask him if he wants to see it with you....it might cheer him up...or if you want to see a movie that's out in theatres thats fine too...if you don't know him too well then just compliment him make him feel better about himself
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