ahh lets see..
whats there to say?
helping people is pretty awesome.
you feel like your actually someone
so leave it if you need nething else from me.
i wouldnt wanna leave ne1 sittin there confused.
youu see?
i love running track, hangin out with my friends, i got brown hair, browin eyes, and im five foot..if you were interested..haha
email me if yah wanna.
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Yeah so I like this guy and ya I don't know him and I really want to get to know him. I am good friends with his best friend but his best friend wont help me at all bc I think he likes me. I really want the guy I like to like me....not his best friend. I really want to freakin meet him! But nooooo his best friend won't introduce us...and its buggin me. I dont want to tell his best friend "oh you wont introduce me or set me up beacause you like me"...that'd be kind of odd. HELP! What do I do to get introduced to him? His best friend is the only one of this guy's friends that I know!
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well first of all i dont think you shud really lyke a guy you dont really kno..nd you guys can only keep in touch through another guy. but if your really shure about this..ask your guy freind tht you wanna meet him only to talk and cuz you think hes cool..tell him theres nothin between you guys and tht wud b away you can get him to introduce you guys..but try not leaving him out of things if you two like go sumwhere..after all he will rpob feel like shyt..lettin you meet him..and all bcuz of him..you like the other guy..which isnt wut he wants.
or mayb he aint introducin you cuz the guy you lyke..mayb he doesnt have feelings for you and he doesnt want to hurt you by act lettin you guys meet each other..talk to him and see how he feels about you..tell him tht if he likes you..you'll stop botherin him about the other guy cuz you kno how he feels..cuz everytyme you ask him to let you guys meet..he prob feels hurt cuz you dont like him.
raTe mE!
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Okay well i recently went out with this guy that i really liked and he dumped me and we have been fighting for a while so yeah we have saying these horrible things to eachother. So yeah today i went back toschool and everyone was saying that he wants to go back out with me so one of my friends asked him if it was true and he said he wanted to talk to me and so I did and he said that he still liked me. So yeah lil did i know he has been going out with a psycho gurl ever since he dumped me. I kinda knew he was but he said that he broke up with her and that he wanted to go out with me and so yeah he has been asking me and so even though i want to its like i dont know and so his girlfriend came up to me today and said why was i tryin to take her man and i said that he told me that he broke up with her and she didnt believe me and so yeah she wanted to fight me and then i said no i wasnt gonna fight because it would have been 3 against 1 and my friends werent even there for me and so i got jumped and now they are very mad and i dont know what to do!!!!!PLZ help!!!! (link)
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are the guys lyke in your grade..do you kno them? you guys both(you and his gf) both need to talk to him about it. you gotta get all the facts straight so she can stop tellin shyt to you tht isnt true. you wanna go out w/ him still..after all tht he has been puttin you through..id think again. about the grl..tell her to cool off so you guys can talk about it..tell hher tht he really did say tht and tht you dont wanna take him away from her...tell her tht yooud never go out w/ him if he was goin out w/ her..she shud realize tht w/e's goin on..is his fault..not yours:-)
since your like afraid of them cuz there like psycho..try like always walkin w/ one of your friends so your not alone..they wont bother you.
raTe mE!
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there is a guy that i have known for almost 6 years. I love him to death. Litterally. I cant stand it when I'm not around him. But the thing is. He thinks I cheated on him the last time we went out by sitting on my ex bfs lap. and he thinks that I kissed him because thats what he was told by my evil brother and parents. He doesn't trust me now and I can't get his trust back. I seriously can't stand it anymore. I'm like, about ready to cry just writing this. I love everything about him, the way he laughs, the way he smiles, his sense of humor...just..everything. And I want him back so bad. I can't stand waiting anymore. I have been waiting for a couple of months, waiting and trying my best to get his trust back. It isnt working and I cant stand it! I went out with this other guy to get over him and it didn't work. I can't just forget him because its hard with how long i've known him. and his sister is my best friend. He has me wrapped around his finger. I will do anything and everything he asks for. (not sex tho but he doesnt want that anyway) He doesn't tell me to do stuff and he doesnt know how wrapped up he has me. I'm in love with him but it doesnt matter to him. or anyone else. I'm the only one who cares how bad I have it for him. I have everything he has ever given me, all the notes, all the presents, the pictures, the memories. Its been a couple of months and I still remember what his kiss feels like, I remember how he used to rub my side when he held me. just, everything. how can i get him to trust me again and get him back............fast. or at least kinda fast. (link)
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ohh im so sorry i knoo how you feel..well not exactly..moving on...you have to rpove it to him..keep trying..and talk to him and tell him how you feel about him, i mean the guys gotta have a heart, rite? do you think hes over you? cuz mayb tht y he dont wanna like confront you about it..but lyke i said you have to talk to him and telll him tht your sorry for w/e you did..and tht you love him so much you wud never do nething to hurt him.. and if he dont listen..then prove it in actions..let him kno tht your not intrested in ne other guy but him. and you have to tell him tht if you guys are gunna b together..you can still have guy friends..but you wont do nething to them like you did b4..
hope everything works out! seriously:-)
raTe mE!
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I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!
x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
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well i mean are you guys friends? lyke close? the fact tht you always im him doesnt mean to say tht he dont like you or tht he dont wanna talk to you. mayb he wants to see tht you really care about him so he waits for you to im him..mayb he thinks tht if he ims you..you mite not want to talk..ut wen you im him..he realizes tht you do wanna talk so thts y you guys both have great conversations cuz you both are willing to talk..yah kno? he probably only does it cuz he doesnt want to like bother you..and he mite feel the same way you do, if he was the one iming you. you just have to talk to him and b like..well yah kno do you lyke not wanna talk to me cuz everytyme i im you..like i mean theres never a tyme you im me..i just wanna kno cuz i dont wanna bother you..you gotta say sumfin lke tht too see the truth..raTe mE!
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this is all the other advicenators, because since you are all on this site like me, im thinking maybe you guys have had the same problem. obviously, we all like helping people. but what happens when we're the ones who need the help, but we feel we can't ask for it because we're supposed to be the one who has all the solutions. please dont tell me to write my problem on here, because obviously i know that. don't get me wrong...i LOVE giving people advice...but in the real world, have any of u guys ever felt like your not supposed to need any back in return? just a thought...let me know what u think. (link)
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naww..i mean yah pple need help..but like every1 needs help in the world..even the person thts helps others. if you dont wanna put your question on here..then ask sum1..it wont do ne harm..and i mean your not helpin others to get help for yourself..your doin it cuz you care..and thts wut other pple are there for..even to help you..feel free to talk to ne1 about nething..they'll help you and it wud b better for you..cuz then you can have better advice to give to others if your shure about yourself!
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I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...
-Hopelessly In Love- (link)
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well are you guys friends? i mean i dont see how you can b in love w/ sum1 if you guys dont even talk..i mean you may think you guys are perfect for each other but its hard to tell..but if your really shure..talk to him about like how you feel and tell him like if you guys can give it a try..i mean it may work yah never no. just tell him tht it doesnt have to mean a whole lot..just to see if you guys like actually being together..hope i helpedd..
raTe mE.
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my best friend, is worring that shell never have a fist kiss i have from partys and crap but she isnt the person everyonw is dying to kiss....what should i tell her cuz shes really fing worried and none of my guys friends with jsut kiss her to make her feel better..what should i do.> (link)
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the only thing you can tell her is tht the special guy will come for her. just make shure you tell her tht it will happen bcuz for shure..i kno it will..she shud wanna kiss sum1 special..not just any random guy to know how it feels cuz tht wudnt b special..you will always remember your first kiss..and she shudnt want it just to prove tht shes kissed a guy
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Okay, picture this.. if you look at your teeth not the two front, not the next ones. but the next ones.. i haven't lost yet, their the only ones i haven't lost and i have an extra tooth growing out of my gums and its like way up there, and you can kind of see it when i smile but i think its grown to its fullest. but i dont wanna get my two teeth removed because i am 14, and I'll get picked on really bad, would u get them pulled?? or would u just wait for them to fall out?? please help (link)
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well wut does the dentist say you shud do? i wud follow w/e he says..is the teeth you still need to lose like loose? you dont wanna pull them out and then the own in your gum doesnt cum out correctly..do sumfin bout it..w/e it is..dont leave tht tooth in your gum:-) itll hurt really bad wen yah older.
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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do? (link)
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if your so scared of the movies then dont watch them..i mean it cant be an addiction cuz no1 gets addicted to movies ;-)ust try and think tht no1's there and all the movies are fake..do you ever have like freinds spend the nite or nehting..wait for them until you watch a movie so you kno sum1 else is there w/ you..at least for the first nite..other then tht all i can tell you is to think of it as nothin is real..and all they want to do is scare you.
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the other day i was beat by my dad so bad im 16 and a guy but i can't stand up to him. he punched me in the nose once an threatened to kill me so i took a shotgun an put it to his head an told him to back the f*** off. i thought i made the point clear to him but the next day he had iron knuckles with him an nailed me in the forehead. im lucky i barely felt it i guess over the years ive become almost immune to pain. but i dont know what to do to have him stop without cops or foster care getttin involved i luv him to much even tho he busted my lip and my forehead open. luckily im ok i dont feel dazed or nothin from the hit. im lucky i moved backwards with the punch so it didnt get me bad just a lil blood. but if i hadnt moved i could probly be dead rite now........... any advice would be helpful............ but toher than my dad i have a goood good life an grl im a QB for my highskool and i make straight A's.... i need sum help plz (link)
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im so sorry..is it only you and your dad tht live together? i mean doesnt your mom know about this? but neway..if you dont want the cops to get involved..then you have to talk to him and tell him wut your doin rong..so tht you can try and fix it and you guys can get along..not gettin along like you dont no the next tyme something mite happen to you. thts dangerous and you kno tht abuse. but i dont blame you..i wudnt wanna send my dad off to jail. i mean your gettin straight a's?
"but if i hadnt moved i could probly be dead rite now" dead? dude thts serious and if you wanna live..i think you shud tell sum1..if you dont wanan tell the cops..tell a counselor or SUM1..thts not rite..he shudnt be able to do tht to you. you shudnt have to worry about gettin hurt everyday..and you shudnt have to hate your lyfe for sumthing your own father is doin to you..talk to sum1..hope everything works outt!
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Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me. (link)
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well first of all..stop doin tht you can hurt yourself and mite even cause a very bad thing to happen to you. but about the boyfriend..mayb he thinks tht you want attention so hes not gunna give it to you...just cuz your hurtin yourself..but i wud think about it..i mean by doin tht you cud liek die and i think he shud care for you so much tht he cares about if you die bcuz 'if you wanna call it cutting' is a serious thing thtt can cause deathh..
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last spring, i did 69 with a guy i dont even know. i know his name, we go to the smae school, but we havent talked since. i am embarrased everytime i see him, becasue i was drunk when we did it so i didnt really realize what i was doing. he stares at me alot, and his freinds say that he likes me, should i stay away? hes not my type. (link)
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how old were you? it doesnt seem like he likes you..it seem like he wants to do it again. wen yah drunk yah dont think and it was fucked up for him to do tht wen he new you ere drunk..he just awanted sum..dont talk to this kid he seem like all he wants is sex..and even if yah dont wanna have it w/ him again..and your w/ him..he mite try n get you to like b drunk again and then he'll ruin your lyfe.
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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!! (link)
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well first..im sorry tht your dad died..2nd i hadda friend that dad died..this one kkid asked her out and i think it was cuz he felt abd cuz i mean they were close at first but then like he dumped her..i mean like if you go out w/ him..make her hes like really in love..cuz if he not you dont wanna make your lyfe harder then it already is..tell him tht you really need him just to b a best friend and wen things clear uyp..and he still feels the same way..then you guys can go out and then tht will show if he really does like you..
hope i helped!
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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop?? (link)
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dont skip halloween its so awesomee!! lol me and my friends go every year! i mean yo dont have to dress up as nething..but like..dont go alone..call sum1 and ask them if they wanan go w/ you..:-) ddont let this b your last tyme
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okay, I didn't really think I'd get any more answers to my previous question, so I'm going to put my addition to my additional answer here.
Here is my question. When you cut yourself, which by the way I'm trying to stop, so I don't really need help there, I was wondering, will the scars ever go away? Because I cut first letter of my first name in my arm, and now I regret it, and it's not that deep. None of the cuts I made had actually bled, they jstu got scabs over them. So will the scars be there forever? (link)
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well i mean y do you cut yourlself? you kno its not worth it and all your doin is hurtin yourslef..nothin in your lyfe can be tht bad tht youwanna kill yourslef cuz thts basically wut your doin..dont do it cuz youw ant attention..mayb tht not the reason but if it is..dont its really stuid to do tht cuz no1 cares about you thereafter..if yah wanna talk about it..im me..ii x3 yOu 4 evEr
- and about the scabs.dont pick them..until only make it worse and you want them to do away..rite?
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