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Wut up, peeps? It's me, Ke! I'm 15 and I live in southern CA. I like to write, sing, dance, hang with friends, play games, swim, and so much more. Feel free to ask me anything, because I will try to give you the best advice that I can! Please Rate!

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Tell me if this shirt is cute for a car chick, like me.
Its white and too big so i tie it in the back (i have a long tight black tank under) On the front ot says FORD with the blue and white letters. On the back:
"My daddy drives a bad stang and i will drive it when i get bigger".

I need your advice..... I RATE HIGH

I guess. If you want to wear it, then wear it.
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Ke

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

Nope. What's wrong with it? Just because people are different races doesn't mean anything. As long as they love each other and are faithful, what's the problem?

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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do?

Don't flirt with other guys then. When you realize you are flirting, stop and start a new topic.
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Ke

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i got this pink dress for my semi [[ more liek 3 shades of pink, light lighter and dark,it has sparkles and diamonds and its a halter ]]..and i dont know whether to wear black shoes or silver (more like light gray..) and i dont know what kind of jewelery to wear.. since its a halter i dont know if i should wear a necklace or anything..please help! x0ox

I think you should wear silver shoes. Wear matching earrings and a necklace (with stars on it.)
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Ke

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well there is this guy and i like him a lot and he knida flirts with me but i dont know if he is just plaing or flirting . he does stuff like slap my butt(a lot) and he is really sweet. at the beginning of the year me, him, and some other people were playing truth or dare and we got dared to kiss. oh ya and at the beginning orf the year(before truth or dare) i asked him out but he said ne after a lot of thought like a whole days worth. does he like me or is he just playing?. i rate 5s. please help me. 14 f

I think that he is in the middle and he can't really decide whether he likes you or not. Give him time.
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Ke

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My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music?

You can't make him like something that he doesn't want to. If he likes classical music, then let him stay liking classical music. There is nothing wrong with that. Some poeple just don't like rap, pop, etc. I have a friend that doesn't listen to music at all. But I can't change him. And you can't change that boy.
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Ke

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14/ f..ok to start out i've been with the guy for a little over a month. im really talkative but i still chock up cuz sometimes im not sure he really likes me. he has a hard time expressing himself and he has a phone-phobia. is it wrong for the girl to call everytime. i dont call everyday but i feel like im being pushy since i was the one that asked him out. what your view? thanx.

I think he is nervous and maybe a little scared because he's not sure whether you really like him. No problem calling him every once in a while but ask him to call you sometimes too.
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Ke

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I am a 15 year old female. There is this boy i really like and he flirts with me and i flirt back. He pokes me all the time and makes fun of me and everything. He went out with one of my friends but they broke up in January and only went out for a week. What should i do?

Ask him out. I'm pretty sure he likes you. Make sure your friend is over him though.
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Ke

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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad

Ask him why you can't call him "Daddy" and tell him that you feel sad about that. Hopefully, he makes you feel better.
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Ke

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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
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*depressed and sad

Go online and IM him. Or call him for a stuped reason (like is tomorrow pajama day or something) and strike up a conversation.
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Ke

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My mom was born in a foreign country, and their thoughts on things are a LOT diffent from the United States, and her thoughts are LOTS different than what I want to do. For example, she refuses to let me date, so I have to keep all my feelings for boys bottled up in my diary. She doesn't let me wear shorts (only capris) in the summer, so I end up burning up in my classrooms. I really need to tell her that these things might not be allowed where she grew up, but I don't live where she lives, and I need to have a LIFE! How can I tell her?

Tell her that things are different here in America and you would like to do things differently than she did. Start small and give her good reasons on why you should be able to do certain things that you aren't allowed to do. Like,ask her why you can't wear shorts and then come up with some good reasons why you should able to.
Hope I helped and Good Luck!
Ke

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ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today?

Why do you just remind her that it's your birthday? She probably has just been really busy lately, so she might've forgot.
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Ke

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Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks

Try soaking in a bathtub with hot water for 15 minutes with epsom salt.
Hope you feel better!
Ke

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Anyone have any good recipies for brownies WITHOUT nuts? I can't seem to find a good one!

Try www.recipesource.com. Hopefully that helps!

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My good friend is really mad at me I asked her what she thought of one of our guy friends and I thought she said she liked him. But we were in the hallway and I guess I didnt hear right. I told this guy friend because he likes her somewhat. well it turned out that i was wrong and he told her that i told him and she immed me and was cursing me out and stuff. I tired to explain to her that i missunderstood and that i was sorry. She then told me that even if she had i had no right to tell him and that she wont ever tell me anything again. She wont even talk to me. I feel really bad about the whole thing. What shud I do?

Tell your friend that you are really sorry for hurting her and it was a mistake. Also, say the she is scaring you and that she is too much of a good friend to lose.
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Ke

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Well everytime i go some where like walking around my neighbor hood or driving in my car all these guys stop and look at me! its really starting to make me mad. I was walking home from school and this guy stopped and asked me my name and stuff. and just today a car full of guys stopped and asked me to come over to them its really gettin on my nerves. i dont dress slutty or any thing i just wear jeans a a big shirt or shorts and a long shirt. how do i get them to stop!

Yell at them or have a good comeback. Don't listen to them if it's bothering you so much.
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Ke

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I have always had this crush on a boy named Riley and so has my friend Anna. But then I realized that Riley was to young, so Anna and I gave up on him. But now, I have a crush on a boy named Camden, and I didn't tell Anna because I didn't want her to "win" him. One day, I went to go get a drink in the hallway, and I came back into the classroom, and I saw Anna FLIRTING with Camden! CAN'T I LIKE ONE SINGLE VOY WITHOUT ANNA BARGING IN! I know Camden doesn't like me, but it's worth a shot. Does anyone know how I can "win" guys without friends stealing them?!

I would tell you to talk to her, but she would probably take it the wrong way. I don't think she likes guys that you do on purpose, maybe she's just jealous of you or craves a lot of attention. Start liking guys out of school.
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Ke

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Hi!
I just got hired to plan a 3-year old's birthday party, and am stuck on games. I already have Simon Says and Red Light Green Light. I also want to do a craft. If it helps, the parents have rented a moonbounce for the event. If possible, I would like to have 1 water game that does NOT soak the kids!! Thanks in advance and I rate!!

Play musical chairs. Or Hot Potato. Maybe you could have an obstacle course which (in the end)the kids have to jump into one of those inflatable pools. Or you can get one of those slip-and-slides.
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Ke

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Earlier today i went to the orthodontist and got my braces changed and now they are extremely sore and i can't stand it i've taken medicine and everything but it didn't help...I need your advice on how to make them stop!...they hurt so bad ive cried my eyes out over them!..thanks in advance i will rate if thats what you want!

Try taking Tylenol or Motrin or something. When I get my braces tightened, I just try to focus my attention on something else really important, so I don't notice how much my mouth is hurting.
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Ke

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I told my best friend a secret that she couldn't tell anyone and I found out that she told one of our other friends. Should I stay friends with her?

You should ask your friend why she told someone your secret and how that makes you feel. Tell her that you feel betrayed. Tell her that it will take time for you to trust her again. You need to decide whether you should saty friends with her, but I think you should, because she probably didn't tell your secret on purpose.

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Ke

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