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Hey I am 16 and that girl that everyone asks for advice. I love helping people out. Ask me anything! =)
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Okay, my name is Saylor I am thirteen and I'm starting to have boy trouble. Okay I know a bunch of boys that like me and I can have anyone of them that I want I know this because they have all asked me out... except for one that I am really crushing on. Okay here is how it goes... Okay tonight was the big baseball game against Owsley County and Lee County. (two counties that are enemies) Me... being from Owsley. Okay the boy I like plays baseball for Owsley. I was watching the game and my bff Whitley came over there and told me to come in the dugout. Well this boy (Nate) was sittin out cause he sprang his hand. I sat with him the whole time I think he was flirting with me but Im really not sure. He sat with me on the bus on the way home and everything. He was tickling me and laying down against me trying to go to sleep and I really like him. He is way sweet. The question is what can I do to get him to like me more, and how can I find out if he likes me. Thanks... I heard your alot of help... dont let me down.
It is pretty simple just flirt back, if he likes you he'll tell ya, just wait. If after a week or two you still get nothing ask me again I'l tell ya wat to do. =)
sorry if its long but i rate high
ok about 2 nights ago, i had a dream that really scared the hell out of me. I dont know what it means so i was hoping someone here could help me. I dreamt that i was picking up my little brother from school with my mom. We were on the end of my block when i looked behind me and there was a man running towards us with a knife in his hand, i could see the blade of the knife in great detail, it was pointy and very jagged. After a minute i realized he was running towards me becuase he was looking right at my eyes. He was wearign a black t-shirt and wasnt skinny but not fat, a little heavyset. He looked hispanic sort of. I couldnt move though, or at least i didnt move. He finally reached us and then instead of stabbing me right away, he asked my mother if it would be better to stab me in my heart or in my leg. He said something about "wanting to hit a major artery so i could die and wouldnt be able to tell the police". it was similar to that. I hid behind my mom and waited for her response and was begging in my mind for her to say the leg. She said leg after what seemed to be a few minutes and then said "why dont you come to my house so we could get you something to drink" i knew she wanted to call the police. So she tried to take the man by the hand to take him to my house, and the knife changed. It now had a reddish handle and a blade that resembled to me a corkscrew. He strugled with my mother and i ran up to opposite block, towards my friends house. Then i woke up. Since I saw the man running across the street, my little brother seemed to be gone in the dream. He wasnt really involved with anything and i dont remember seeing him. What could this dream mean? Im 13/f if that helps. Please help me. Ill rate high for good answers. ♥
I am really into dreams and there meaning you should check out
dreammoods.com
and check out the a-z dictionary look for knives and for chase or run, and brother
Now this might sound weird but this is what the dream could mean
Consider this:
To dream that you legs are wounded or crippled, signifies a lack of balance, autonomy, or independence in your life. You may be unable or unwilling to stand up for yourself.
Your mom chose your leg so maybe you cannot stand up to your mom.
Also:
To see a dull knife in your dream, denotes that your hard work is accompanied by little or no gain.
To dream that you are wounded by a knife, suggests that you or someone is affected by hurtful remarks or malicious gossip.
And:
To see your brother in your dream, may symbolize some aspect of your relationship with him. It can also serve to remind you that someone in your waking life has certain characteristics/behavior similar to your brother's.
If you do not have a brother and dream that you have one, then he may symbolize characteristics that you need to acknowledge within yourself. The brother in your dream can also be synonymous with a close friend or buddy. Brother also has religious implications and thus represents spiritual issues. Consider also the familiar phrase "big brother is watching you" which indicate that your dream has to deal with issues of authority and oppression.
dreams can be confusing u should check out the website
So I'm 15. And I'm a female,
is there something wrong with me?
I'm attracted to older guys, I'm sure they dont like me. Or wont ever, but I find myself wanting older guys, like they seem more appealing to me, because like ALL the guys in my grade are so imature. I wish theyd grow up. I dont know though.
I just hope its nto wrong for me to like odler guys? Because I have no interest in any of the guys in my grade =/
Theres nothing wrong with it just be careful cause older guys tend to take advantage of younger girls, and the guys who you find immature now will eventually grow up and then everything will be fine =)
this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do??
Just relax and be happy, dont try to impress him, and dont spend all your time with him. Let things flow, whatever happens, happens. Just try not get nervouse and if you think you are then dont hang with him that much instead hang with your best friend and if they are both together go into your room and breath in deeply, then breath out. Continue till you are ready, then walk out the door with a smile on your face (not a creepy smile though)
I am sure everything will go great
good luck! =)
17/F
I'm really scared about what my parents are making me do. Last year I was sent to a hospital for manic depression and compusive behavior. I was released two weeks into school. Thank god I had my bf or I would have gone crazy. U see hospitals scare me everytime I go into one someone dies(someone close to me). So when I over heard my parents talking about taking me to a different hospital last week I freaked out. I've stared cutting again and I cry myself to sleep at night. If I didn't have my bf I wouldn't even go to school cause my grades suck.
Someone help me I don't want to go back
I'm scared
Ps
I rate high
Wow you must feel horrible but there is no one better for you to talk to than your parents, they will care more about you than anyone on this site. Tell them about your fear of hospitals, and if you have depression and compulsive behavior it would be better to see a therapist.
But my advice for the depresion is to fight back against it, cutting your self isnt hurting anyone but you. THis is making things alot worse, you need to stop and to do good things for yourself because you are worth it. Take a day off to maybe eat right or excercise, or go out with friends. I suggest joining a club or voulunteering. Get out and enjoy life, make the best of it. Depression runs in my family I know how you feel but the only way to make it stop is by taking control of your life and making the right positive changes. Try to raise your grades, dont stress your self over it but maybe you can join group tutoring for school, its a great way to help you focus in school and make some new friends. If you live an active life you will be less likely to feel depressed
If you need anymore advice please feel free to ask, and I wish the best of luck.
PS: If you like you can also email me my email is:
labelleb1234@yahoo.com
I know it seems real tough right now but things can will get alot better, try and stay positive.
Another thing that might help is keeping a planner, this stop s you from doing things out of cumpulsion. Plan your weekends and for weekdays you can write down your homework or w/e. This will help alot as long as you make resonable plans and stick to them.
Can u get an S.T.D. or any kind of disease from giving head?? i never had sex b 4 but i gave head b 4 and for like the past year i have this red bump on my vagina its on and off? I havnt told any one dont knwo what it is or what to do..
Yes you can get an STD from giving head but the only way it would end up showing on your vagina would be if the semen got around that area, Either way you should get it checked out cause you never know.
Im 25 almost 7ft. 240lbs. I want to build up my arms especially my biceps comes summertime. Overall, my entire upperbody i want to build bigger. But I have no time for the gym. How can i do it within the comfort of my own home. Any help will be gladly accepted.
Well you would probably want to buy some weights and this website shows a full body work out you can do.
http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/l/bltotalworkout.htm
To help yourself out, eat protein at every meal, and have a protein shake before you excercise. It will help you build muscle. If you want more energy check to see the shake you drink also has a bit of carbohydrates.
Good Luck!!! Im sure you be lookin like a stud for the summer =)
Feel free to ask me for more advice
=)
I hear all these stories on how people make themselves pass out. Just out of innocent curiousity, how do you do that? Someone told me that you press a part of your body or something?
DONT DO IT!
They did that when I was in the 8th grade, they tried it on this one guy and he started shaking I think he went into a sezure or something any way I heard that it could make you heart suddenly stop, also it block the oxegen getting to your brain so you might have to deal with some long term problems.
ok u r 16...and im...younger. anyways i have a boyfriend...he is one cool kid, and i really like him!! but im not so sure my friends approve :-\
i love him so much...but every little thing he does is wrong in ther eyes. i am not willing to give him up, but i dont want my friends to hate me!!
wht do i do?
-boy troubles
You have to tell your friends how you feel girl! Tell them that you really like him and it makes you feel bad when they say mean things about him. If they are your real friends they will understand and I am sure they wont hate you. Just make sure that you spend time with them too; not just your boyfriend. Like maybe you can make fridays for your friends and all of you go out to get your nails done or go to the mall. And stuff like that.
(And I dont think going out with your boyfriend and them would be a good idea until they accept him; which can take awhile. Remember that if they are good friends, they are probably just trying to protect you)
If you told them and they still bother you about it they are not your real friends and I suggest you find others by joining a club or going to volunteer somewhere.
Hope I helped and if you need any more advice just ask =)
Does the South Beach Diet actually work????
My uncle went on that and he lost alot of weight, I like this diet cause its not taking away any of the nutrients you need. The thing is that you have to stick to it. But still the best thing you can do to lose weight is to eat a little bit of everything just learn portion control, also if you eat every 3 to 4 hours you will keep your metabolism up and that will keep you burning fat. Just remeber to eat healthy because if you eat pizza every 3 to 4 hours its not going to help much.
=)
14/f
Okay, here's my problem. You see, I really like guys, I really do. I go on dates with them, have crushes on them, they are the ones I want to have a relationship and all that.
But recently I have felt something new. You see I have my friend friend, let's call her Katie. Katie and I are inseperable, always going places together, hanging out whatever. I enjoy being around her so much. I've always felt just fine around her, until about three months ago.
I don't know what happened but soon I felt like I always needed to impress her, look pretty in front of her, and I saw how beautiful she is. I swear she is the most gorgeous person I know! And when she comes over now I just want to be close to her and hug her and touch her. I mean I caught myself starring at her chest the other day and having some daydream that she was kissing me! I don't know what's going on!
Like last night she spent the night at my house, and we sleep in the same bed. Normally it's a double bed, but since I'm rearanging my room it got reduced to a twin. So we srunched together close and I felt so guilty because I enjoyed her body pressed up against mine. And while we were talking all I wanted to do was just lean in and kiss her. It's so weird! And half the time I just want to hold her and know that she is mine and she like me as more than a friend.
But the thing I don't get is that all my guy friends say that they could see us together as lesbiens and i always brush it off because I like guys but her and I always play around kiss each other on the cheek and spoon (the sleeping poission) while we're sleeping, and strattle each other when we're play fighting, just being silly. And some days she says "Sometimes I swear I am a lesbian." and she says it in a joking way, but does she mean it as a joke? I just want her so bad, she's like my other half.
So am I bi? Can you just someday wake up and feel sexual towards someone of the same sex? And if so, if I am bi, how do I tell her? Because she knows me so well and she'll figure it out soon. So what do I say to her? Do I ever tell her that I like her in that way? Thanks for any advice you can give me. I rate high.
Hey I understand I have gone throught the same thing, dont worry your just in a experimental age, those guys remarks probably put those thoughts in your head and now you are thinking about it. You probably arent bi and your friend has probably thought about it too just next time she makes a comment about being a les ask her if she is seriouse cause you think you are. From there what ever happens happens, dont worry about being bi or not cause at the end you should just do whatever you feel comfortable with, and remember dont label yourself this just away to learn more about your sexuality. So what if your bi or strait, the truth is you are not sure right now.
If you need more advice feel free to ask, I know what you are going threw.
ok well right now i am 5'4 and like 120 or something. maybe more
i want to get to about 110-115 at the most.
i dont want to get muschles though so thats why i dont want to work out
i just want a flat stomache
helppp
OK working out does not = muscle all the time, and a flat stomach taks time. Here is what you should do:
Start with cardio/ arobic:
Such as swimming if you have a pool
or inside your house you can watch FitTV and work out while watching tv.
Also jump rope.
Cardio/ arobics helps you lose the weight and get a stronger heart
Second: you need to do core strengthening work outs
Crunches bulk up your stomach but pilates gives you long lean muscle, which means your tummy looks flat not muscular.
Get a pilates tape it is awsome and focuses all of the excercises on you stomach so you drop sizes quickly.
And lastly, would be your diet.
DO NOT GO NO A "DIET"
Just eat right
this means a little bit of everything. Yes that means veggies too. Learn to use portion control. Lets say your at dinner instead of a big steak and alot of rice. Eat half of what you would normally eat and add an fruit, I like apples. Also cut out high calorie drinks, You should stick to water
If you do this your belly should get a lot flatter
EXTRA: IF you really must stay in you house then do, but the best thing you can do is join a class such ass belly dancing, or something. They can be alot of fun and not too expensive, also a great way to make friends.
Hope I helped, If you need anything else just ask =)
im 15 and girl. lately all my friends have been comin out and saying they're bi. and well i have had incounters with girls before like on dares we've kissed. but now im findin myself checkn them out all the time and i have had a encounter were i was makn out with a girl and wanted more but now my feelings of wantin to be sexual with them is disappearing and im lookn. so is it just cuz my friends are or am i?
Your friends intruduced this bi thing to you and now you are curious. This happens to alot of girls your age, your just bi-curious, not bi. You could experiment, it is the only way you will know for sure, if you find that you want to have relationships with guys and girls your bi, if you just want to do things with chicks and have relationships with guys it is most likely a stage. But bi or not these are just labels, it doesnt matter and you shouldnt worry about it. Do whatever you feel comfortable with, and fromm there what ever happens, happens.
If you need more advice about this just tell me, I kno how you feel, trust me
whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!!
There are plenty of things you can do. Just tell me the type of body you want and I'll tell you what to do.
Are there any foods or anything that i can do to make my teeth whiter? ((i already brush and use listerine))
and are there any foods and/or exercises i can do to make my breasts larger? thanks!
Anything that you use to whiten you teeth like crest whitening strips messes up your enamel,(that is what make your teeth shiny)so if you ise any chemicals on your teeth make sure to use a tooth paste that has liquid calcium to help your enamel. There are no foods that make them whiter but, things with suger and caffene are what stains them, I suggest cutting them out of you diet. Another good toothpaste option is whitening tooth paste, it does not really whiten teeth but it keeps new stains from setting in , If you do all of this your teeth will get whiter. A quick fix would be laser stain removal for your teeth. But they can be a little costy.
Hope I helped
=)
14/m
ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question
The only way to get her back would be to talk to her. Tell her that you really need to talk to her and say something like this, "Look I know I must have insulted you by accusing you of cheating, it is just that I care so much about you when I heard that I freaked out. I am sorry, I hope you are not mad at me." From there you can just remain friends with her until you think it the right time to ask her out agin, or if she seems like she misses you then tell her you miss her and if she could give you another chance because you know you wont make the same mistake. Be really nice, especially if you guys have been
going out for along time, girls are very sensitive and chances are she probably misses u just as much as you miss her
Hope I helped and
good luck I am sure everything will work out just fine.
im so confused.. a while ago i found out the guy i liked, liked my best friend. now i dont like him as much but i still do a little bit. but now im confused because i dont no if he still likes her but he is always hanging around me and talking to me and today when i was working in school he came up and just started showing me what he was working on.. do you think he likes me now? and if he does what should i do?
Flirt but dont be too forward or he might think you are despret. If he likes you he will tell you if you flirt a little. You know what you can do to drive him crazy? Confuse him, one day flirt with him the next day just say hi and leave like hes nothing. =) I always drive guys crazy, its awesome if you need more advice tell me =)
hey. this seems like a sort of stupid question, but please, i need a opinion on an outfit for tommorow. 13.f
here's the plan :)
blue soffee shorts
red and white striped boys polo
gray tanktop underneathe
and boy nike shox
its actuallly really cute, but since two of the pieces are boy pieces, i just wanted to check. PLEASE!
The whole red white and blue thing is too much like the american flag, especiall since its red and white strips, I would switch the shorts for girly Jeans or a skirt, and I dont think the gray tank top really matches,Pick ether the polo or the tank.
ok i need ideas for a new hairstyle...something easy to do and can be used everyday...im sick of wearing my hair the same way all the time and i think everyone else is too lol..i need somehting that fits my hair length and my face shape. heres a link to my pic to help you. http://img311.imageshack.us/img311/4256/mee94tm.png
please help. i rate high for good answers. ♥
I suggest adding a little bit of waves into your hair look at this pic.
http://beauty.about.com/od/hairstylephotogalleries/ss/hairgallery_3.htm
this site also gives many hairstyles for your face shape, you have an oval / heart face shape which looks good with any hairstyle, so thats great. Just browse this site and see what fits your style.
Hope I helped!
im really afraid that my boyfriend will act weird if he knows im on my period. but he told me to tell him just so he will no incase i have PMS or im in a bad mood, or dont want to do anything sexual.. but im really afraid that he is like, not gunna want to get near me.. do you think that will happen?
please help! ill rate high!
LOL, I see this relationship hasnt been going on for a long time, but I understand how you feel. Dont go and announce it while he is eating or anything like that, just say that you have a headache or something because you have you "monthly friend." If he is a good boyfriend he will comfort you not get away from you, but then again try to control that PMSing as much as you can. Just bring it into the conversation like if he hugs you tell him (nicely) to be careful (put a sad face) and say I have cramps. He will get used to it and wont even care anymore when you mention your period.