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Q: I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

no you do not have to do any pappers! but you should becaome a christian in like babtist or something like that. and i agree with you i do not beleive in roman catholic either.
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rkgurl13

Q: i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God.

well if you are still doubting him then start reading the bible like in proverbs that should help
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rkgurl13

Q: Are ghosts real? only if you know the answer then answer my question. only if you're sure.

no they are not they are only a state of mind. the only gohst that is real is the holy gohst
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rkgurl13

Q: I know having bulimia,anorixia or anything like that isnt pleasing to God...but is it considered a sin?

yes and no because some times you can not help doing those things but if you are doing it on your won will then i would say yes it is. if you are any one of those things then i would pray to god for help.
praying for you
rkgurl13

Q: Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O

i think you should pray to god about it and pray that he will help you in your problems.
praying for you
rkgurl13

Q: Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help!

personly i would not become a budist becuase they beleive in very wrong things and they also beleive in a fake god and i will pray for you and i will hope that you will not become one.
praying for you
rkgurl13

Q: Does anybody know any good bible scriptures? I know that Psalms is good.. but anybody know any on wisdom?

well go to the back of your bible and look that up in the concordance and also proverbs is a good book of wisdom.
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rkgurl13

Q: i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!!

well here is one
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving eachother, just as christ God forgave you.
i think that is a good one but you can all ways go into your bible and look in the back and look in the concordance you can look stuff like that up i really like it helps me to find stuff like that.
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rkgurl13

Q: hi i'm 13 and a Christian but i have a bad habit of lying...i know that its really bad like i dont lie big time just like little white lies but they r still bad so do any of u know any bible verses on lying, not lying,how lying is bad and stuff like that? plz help!! ~i rate high~

well what i normaly do is go to the back of the bible and look stuff like that up as it says in proverbs 26:28
A lying tounge hates those it hurts, and flatering mouth works ruin. wich means nobody likes a lyer and every body loves a truthful person. i sometimes have that problem but after you lye then just prey about it and then tell whoever the truth wich will make you feel better and god will still love you.
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rkgurl13

Q: R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla

Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

not yet becuase all of the things in revalations has not happend and you never know when those things will happen.
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Q: i am a christian,but i relate much more to the catholic ways. Is it sacriligious to be from a different form of christianity before becoming catholic, and is there a procedure to take before u can be one?

well it depends how close are you to god in being a christian and i do not think there is. do you go to church or anything just out of curiostity?
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rkgurl13

Q: this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl.

well if i were you then i would stop the witch craft and stop doping what ever ealse you are doing that is not very good at all like witch craft and try going to church and get pryer and stuff like that.
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rkgurl13

Q: ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.

well you have not missed your chance you can still become a christian on your own. and you could try finding a new church.
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rkgurl13
p.s. where did you go to church at as in like what area? like state

Q: I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me.

yes he will forgive you but that is only if you really love him and comite your self to god and try to get a christen counselor or something like that. and if you have gotten your life turnd around then that is good.
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rkgurl13
ps. what church do you go to if you do go to church?

Q: hey i just have a question... my boyfriend watches pron and he tells me about it does that me taht is wants to be with other girls and isnt happy with what i am givin him or is it jsut a guy thing?
pLEASE HELP

no it is not just a guy thing cause girls can watch porn to and like it and if he does then i would break up with him sry but that is just what i would do but that is your descion not mine.
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rkgurl13

Q: what are the benefits of waiting for marriage? for those of you that are, whats your reason? it could go either way so let me know what you think.

well i think they are not having to get married after you know you are having a baby and my reseon is that i know that god would not be pleased with me and i would also feel really bad and not look at that person for a while and even IF i did then i might get married to that person but still it is wrong.

Q: When you have a tampon in can you still pee I mean go to the bathroom?

please anawer

yes you can it perfectly normal going to the bathroom in them.
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rkgurl13

Q: I have a question..

what is better to use when going horseback riding
tampons or pads

thanks

i rate 5's for good answers

i would probly use a pad.
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rkgurl13

Q: i live in a foster home yeh and is alright were i am now but they are thinking about moving me again because they am saying im not makin progress were i am now. but i have ive made loads with this familly but ive tried explaining that to the social worker but shes a bitch what should i do? or is there anything i can do because i dont wanna move again ive just settled into this one.

no dumbass answeres please i woe rate them

well i do not think you can do any thing because unless your over 18 or what ever then you don't have a say in any thing.
hope you don't move form there
rkgurl13

Q: Is it normal to have hair around the nipples on your breasts? Is there any way to get rid of it?

i gusse it is but i am not sure, try to remove it.
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rkgurl13

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