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I Am A 17 Year Old Senior At Beach Channel High School!!!! I'm Back After 3 Years Gone.
E-mail: tru_blu09@yahoo.com
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Location: Queens!!!!!!!!!!
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ummm what are the first signs before getting your period? (link)
This brings back so many memories!!!!!!!!!

Signs

1) sore breasts
2) headaches

There were the signs that I had.

The days before I got my full-on period, I saw some brown stuff in my panties. I peed and there was no blood so I thought nothing of it. Then a few days later, I SAW IT AGAIN!!!!!!!! This time, then I peed, there was BLOOD! Period time :)

You should ask your mother, sister (if any)
Aunts (if any) and grandmother what signs they had and when they got theirs. That should be the timeframe when you get yours


My new freind is brown skin, and we are going out to the movies tonight. I know that we not gonna watch it, can someone tell me how to make a hickey. No dumb answers or smart- A** ones (link)
I love hickeys!!!!! You suck on the person's skin. Try sucking on your hand for practice. When your hand gets nice and red (the place where you was sucking), its a hickey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


is it worth it?
does it hurt?
how did u get it done with a needle/gun?
how much was it?
will the hole grow back and leave a scar? (link)
No- because when you have a baby, the hole gets bigger (from what I was told) other than that, its really pretty

HELL YEA IT HURT!!!!!! It was sore for days and its a hassle. Has to be cleaned everyday so the dirt and germs from your belly button won't get into the hole. Very easy for it to get infected too !!!

How can you get it done with a gun? I got mine done with a needle just like my nose

I'm sorry I don't remember the exact price but I know that it was over $20.00

Be careful because you can get KEYLOIDS.
I didn't leave mine in because It got annoying. It was irritating when I would put on a sweater!!!!!! So I let it close up. It will leave a scar. Use some cocoa butter to lighten it up and to fade the scar.


wow i have this problem my boyfriends thinks i been cheating on him and i swear i havent and is there any song out there that has to do something like my problem. I feel better if i hear songs that sound like my life?? (link)
And I- by ciara
Differences- by ginuwine
Destiny's child- emotions?
Aaliyah-i miss you
**NE-YO- stay with me
Pussycat dolls (sp) stickwitu

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My g/f and i broke up a while back but I don't know what i did...we were only going out for two days and she said that she was scared that we wouldn't be friends if we broke up. The next day she had another b/f.....what did I do? Are there any suggestions on how to impress a girl...plz? (link)
I know this is corny but be yourself because I know I wouldn't want a boy that is a liar and fake. If you are funny, make the girl laugh. If you are passionate, serenade her with a lovely song. If you are shy, leave little notes and clues for the girl so she can find out who you are! BE CREATIVE. Most importantly, be polite :)


okay, i know this is a stupid question, but whatever.
when you make out.. do you only put your/his tongue in his/your mouth, or do like.. you both put you're tongues in eachohters mouths at the same time?

i rate, thanks (link)
You take your tongue and play with his tongue while kissing (massaging each other tongues) if his mouth is open then you enter his mouth with your tongue! You CAN do it at the same time if you want to.


okay me and my boyfriend matt have been going out for almost three months.. i really think just making out is getting boring for him but since hes sucha gentleman hes not gonna say anything, if i want to give him a handjob, what should i do? just put my hand down his pants? it seems like there should be more to it? i dont know its my first one! and when he fingers me.. does he like go inside my pants or is it like.. over my jeans? im really confused on all of the second base junk. HELP? please! (link)
All you have to do is open his zipper (if he wears boxers with the little hole in the middle) then pull his penis out and start massaging it gently. (PUT ONE HAND ON THE BASE OF HIS PENIS AND MASSAGE HIM THERE THEN TAKE THE OTHER HAND AND SLOWLY MOVE IT UP AND DOWN! {PAYING ATTENTION TO THE TIP OF HIS PENIS} AND MAYBE...... UMM.. Tickle his balls too lol be gently. Very sensitive area) YOU will have to pull down your pants and open your legs so he can find your hole to finger you.

P.S. If you wear no panties for him then all he has to do is open your zipper and finger you WITHOUT you having to take off your pants :) or open your zipper and move the panties to the side.


My parents asked me what I wanted for Christmas and my mind drew a complete blank. They said nothing video game related and thats all I really want besides an iPod but they are too expensive. I asked for a Montreal Canadien jersey and that was $100 dollars so now all I am getting that I asked for is boxers. Does anyone have any ideas of something not expensive that I could ask for? less than $80.00. I am also a 14 year old boy (link)
What you COULD do is ask for the $80.00 and then save up like 30 dollars. The I-pod shuffle is only $100.00. If you don't want to do that then either get

1.) Clothes
2.) Sneakers
3.) Maybe a new bike or something NOTHIN GAME RELATED god!
4.) Just get the money and save up until you can buy something THAT YOU WANT. 5.) Maybe some DVDs or CDs


I have a question for all you people who bake. When I was baking cookies, the top parts came out fine, but the bottom was just really gooey. Did i do something wrong? And if i did, can you explain what i should do right? They were chocolate chip cookies by the way.

rate high for good answers :) (link)
I'm sorry, I haven't baked in a long time. But the last time I baked chocolate chip cookies, they were soft all over. I think that the bottom wasn't completly done. Here's a website on how to make some good chocolate chip cookies (SORRY THAT I COULDN'T HELP MORE) www.foodnetwork.com (if that website is wrong, just tell me by adding extra info)


well a while ago my boy friend got shot and went into a coma for about a week. and i was talking to his friend online so she could keep me updated once and a while on how he's doing. so i kinda sliped up that i was trying to kill my self with a knife and slitting my wrists and that i was trying to over dose with sleeping pills. so she told him once he woke up... and now hes mad at me... what should i do? (link)
First, I'M SO HAPPY THAT HE'S OUT OF THE COMA!!!!!!!!!!!!
Second, were you trying to kill yourself because you thought he was going to die? Can you please add some more information??

THANK YOU

Explain to him that you were scared, devastated that he might die, and if he was to die that you wanted to die with him. UMM?? Not this one

I think he's mad because he wouldn't want you to die because he could have. That was very stupid on your part but I understand where you are coming from. You sound like you wouldn't want to live without him and that you really love him. Explain that to him. THAT'S SOME TRUE LOVE! NOW AM I RIGHT OR WOULD YOU LIKE SOME MORE HELP FROM ME?


what r some good streches for a split becuase for cheerleading we nned to know how to do a split and I am almost dowm but I JUST CAN'T do it please help (link)
I practice doing splits in dance class. There are two ways to do a split

1.) Stratle put your hands on the ground, open your legs as if you are on a horse and lower yourself down then stay in that position for a count of 8.

2.) Get on the ground, put your right leg up while the right one is on the floor. Turn your right leg to the side and put your hands to the sides of you. Lower your leg down for the count of 8 then repeat for the left leg.


when you shave your vagina are, is wierd or normal to shave everything? i mean like completly bald i guess youd call it, i dont really know what im talking about but i need help. all thoughts appreciated..thnx (link)
Its completly normal!!!!!! No matter if you shave the edges, half or all. Its what you like. I like to shave it all off sometimes!!!!! Its so soft.


Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.
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Lyfe8allbad, what are you talking about?

1.) Nair DOES work on the vaginal area
2.) Nair and waxing takes the root and the hair away
3.) No matter what, the hair IS going to grow back.

If you are shaving for the first time, it can feel itchy and irritated. I would use hot wax or strips with wax on them already! DON'T SHAVE!!!!!!!! When the hair grows back, its rough, ingrown and stubbly!!!!!!!!!! You can get razor bumps if you don't shave right. If you wax then you only have to worry about the few minutes of pain when you rip the strips off. Or NAIR IT BUT NAIR REALLY STINKS!!! LOL. TRIMMING IS GOOD TOO


How to reduce the growing tummy? (link)
Some crunches (sp) sit ups and eating healthy, pilates. Here's a website www.shapefit.com yahoo search for pilates


No matter how much or little I brush my teeth the night before, I always wake up with a nasty tasting coating all through my mouth that also gives me bad breath. It shows up on my teeth as like white patches sometimes, that can't be brushed away. I've used mouth wash and it doesn't change it. I brush my teeth twice a day, and properly. Does anyone know what the problem could be?
I also have braces and I can't remember if I had this problem before my braces or not, but it certainly wasn't this bad. (link)
She says she DOESN'T smoke! And that could be plaque on your teeth. Everybody wakes up with bad breath!!!!!! Ask the dentist next time you go about plaque. Its very common


Right now i feel depressed for no reason at all. can anyone help me
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YES!!!!!!!!! That's what rainbow is here for!!!!! Here's my e-mail: tru_blu09@yahoo.com we can talk and hopefully, you can feel more happy! About the depression, I would become more active and involved in activities at school to have people to talk to about my problems AND TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS!!


anyone know any mental pick-me-ups for someone who feels really depressed? (foods, activities, etc. don't tell me to "count my blessings" or "see a therapist" or "love myself" or something.) (link)
CHOCOLATE! Chocolate makes you feel SOOOOOH happy after you eat it! Its a great pick-me-up if you are depressed (and it comes in FAT FREE and sugar free so you don't gain weight. AND YUMMMMM, ICE CREAM IS A WONDERFUL PICK-ME-UP. THAT'S WHAT I EAT WHEN I AM SAD! An activity you can do to make you feel happier is to LAUGH WITH FRIENDS! THAT MAKES ME REAL HAPPY!

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You want some advice on how to make friends? I'm sorry about the friend thing :( I can be your friend if you like, I know how it feels to not have someone to talk to sometimes. Here's my e-mail, if you would like me to, I can give you some advice on making friends. tru_blu09@yahoo.com
Aim- rainnsun91


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when i put on deoderant in the morning before i put my shirt on, it gets all over the shirt while i am putting it on. if i try to do it when my shirt is on, it is difficult to lift up my shirt. i do not want to use a spray deoderant, so please don't suggest that. how can i put it on eaisly with out getting it all over my shirt? (link)
The top of the shirt (the neck part) slip your hand through that part YOU WON'T HAVE TO LIFT YOUR SHIRT OR ANYTHING. I used to have that problem but I'm able to lift my shirt and put the deodorant on.


ok, well every now and then i get these really really bad headaches, my eyes get very sensitive to light and even the slightest noise makes my head pound. Now iknow the cause of these headaches isnt from my vision, because ive had my eyes checked many times and i do wear glasses. What can be causing them? thanks 4 ur answers (link)
Ohh maybe its a migrane.. I get headaches when its close to my period so that could also be the case. And I wear glasses too! (Well not really, I stopped and my eyesight sucks lol) but when I would have a headache and then put the glasses on, I would feel so much better.


Ok my cousin went out with this guy for about a year and i just found out that he hits her and all kinds of stuff but she never did anything about it...now their broke up and she's talking to another guy from the same school but her ex still hits on her and cusses her out at school while her new bf's not around...I want to speak up but she told me NO...should i or not?This is getting way out of hand and im the only one who knows!!Please help me out!! (link)
Get your friend some help! She obviously cannot see that all this abuse can get worse over time! You don't want her to end up dead, do you? I know you don't so tell a parent, another friend or her new BF. No matter WHAT she says, you know what's right.

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