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Q: 16/f

im the new kid and i no absoutly no one im going to be a junior and im pretty shy so how can i make it easier on myself so im not so nervous
hey sweats [;

first of all; when you're meeting new people,
keep in mind that it'll get easier every passing day. just put a smile on and relax; be yourself.
all people are nervous when they first meet so
don't beat yourself up over that, it would do more harm than good.

secondly; put yourself into social interactions. join a club or a sport, that'll give you a chance to make yourself known even if shyness is a frailty.

thirdly; swallow your fears and take a chance. when you take a risk, the product of failure is equal to not taking a chance at all. same
outcome: nothing lost or gained. keep trying,
never give up because there is a fifty percent
chance you may succeed.

"a coward dies a thousand times but a brave man
dies only once." -shakespeare
you are never alive until you take a chance, and when you take that chance, that is when you truly live.



have faith,
parsimoniousdino ;]

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parsimoniousdino

"Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist." - George Carlin


My name is Melody.

I like helping others and I hope I can be a help to every person I answer.
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