ok im 15/m. i'm really shy but i like a girl and i can't stop thinking about her. the thing is i haven't even talked to her yet. she likes someone but idk if they are going to get together. i need help on trying to be her friend and maybe a little more than her friend.. thanks
ah, this reminds me of me and my boyfriend...
my boyfriend liked me, and never told me.. but he told his friends, who told me, but it turned out..although we never talked.. i was falling for him long before his friends decided to tell me that he liked me...
point is, you never know until you try.
start saying "hello", "goodmorning"
work into conversations.
after a while of doign that,
start saying "how are you" and.. "whats wrong" if something seems ot be bothering her.
you're my age,
and i understand exactly what you're coming from
i think this is cute.
but.. seriously.just start saying things to her..
maybe try going to a place were she goes, if she plays a sport, go watch her. and so on and so forth.
maybe get the nerve to sk her to a dance?
maybe be a secret admirer (wow, im tired= i can't spell) ? those are adorable.
goodluck.
ohh,and remmeber..
you only live ONCE
so.. LIVE IT UP boyyy.
no one can promise you a tomorrow.
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Will you still get that clear stuff in your underwear if your pregnant? Ive never been late on a period and im taking birth control. BUT I should have started three days ago. I missed a pill a while back and had sex with my long time bf that night but took the pill the next day (which I have done a couple of times and been fine) I've just never been late before. SO clear stuff.. does that mean im not pregnant?
the clear stuff could mean anything.
it could be that your body is draining it's fluid and getting ready for the baby.
anythinggg.
so, get a test.
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So I'm dating this guy and he lives out of state,and so I was talking to his brother and his brother and him are like best friends and I know he was like a HUGE person into like drugs,so i thought it wasnt that bad becuz he was never like on them when i was talking to him,so today was the first time right? and i love this guy like a lot,more than a lot. and so he was like ok ok whatever to me and i was like i love you and he like always says i love you more but this time he was like ok whatever. so his brother gets on and tells me that his high. and that maybe what would make him stop was if me and him took a break and ireally dont want to, and so i talked to my boyfriend and his like i dont know i really need to get this drug thing over with,i really dont want to take a break but maybes its the best thing,and i dont believe it is, because like me and him have been dating for almost 3 months and me and him are always saying we love eachother and today he commented me saying i want to spend the rest of my life with you,what do i do? I dont want to take a break from me and him becuz i dont want to loose him,adive? help?
I understand wehre your comming from, TRUST ME. i do..
you need to explain to him that you lovehim, and you're doing this out of love
BUT you can't see him if he's doing drugs.
talk to him, about the danger and such
because he DOESN'T understand.
call the house a week or so when he' not home, and talk to his brother and see if he's getting better.
i had a friend named christain..
and we dated..
and he did drugs..
and wheni found uot, it broke my heart.
because. i also thought he stoped.
but he didn't..
and i went throguh teh same things you did.
i mean, it turned out he was a loser under it all
and liar and so much more.
don't get hurt darling.
much love.
goodluck.
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My period's three days late, and I'm never late.
I'm sexually active.
Are there any reasons besides pregnancy for me to be late?
hmmm.
1. if youre sexually active, you could be.
you for sure could be.
it depends though, wa sit for first time having sex?
do yo uhave a lot of stress in your life taht you usauly wouldn't?
get a pregency test.
that's really the ONLY WAY you can clear it up.
but it could be stress.
eating diffrently.
sex for the first time.
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Can anyone tell me what love is like? Decribe it to me please.
You can't decribe it.
really, you can't.
you can't feel it.
like, try to think of how to describe happy
do words match with feelings?
not even close
when love comes, you'll know.
you just will.
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I just got my eyebrows waxed and now my skin is swelling and red. how can I make the swelling go down by tomorrow? also, the lady from the salon took out a lot of hair. do I just need to wait for it to grow back?
I promise it'll go down by tomorrow.
it'll be worth it
adn yea, just wait!
don't go painting fake eye brows on!
and if you don't like how they did it,
next time.. ask to make thema little thicker
99% of the KNOW what they're doing.
what they do.. is trade the shape of your eyebrow (inless you tell them to do otherwise)
have fun (:
ps. don't put makeup on top of it, and if you did..
i'd take it off.
put some ice, or a cool cloth on it
and relax.
nothing to worry about dear.
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do guys like belly button piercings or not? like are they to slutty or cute?
and i have a really good body (not to be conceited) but just saying that cause im not some big girl everyone tells me it would be cute on me but im wondering what guys think of it?
it DOESN'T matter what guys think.
don't get it to attract guys..because sweetie..you'll attract the wrong kinda guys.
get it because you want it.
you're teh one stuck with it..
and the scar when you decided to take it out many years from nwo
perfect body or not (i have mine, and i don't have a perfect body) i like them,they're fun. it's cool to c hange them..and add a cute style to your bathing suit season (:
but really, get it because you wnat it.
YOU'RE the one paying for it and YOU'RE the one stuck with it.
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Every time i use eyeliner after like 1-3 hours it smears horribly. What specific eyeliner do you use that doesnt smear at all?
brand name?
type?
i want one that i can buy from rite aid or cvs.( so it can't be sephora brands)
Please only give me eyeliner types that you have used. =]
Thanks in advance
you're going to laugh at me.
family dollar.
it comes in a pack of two with a sharpener
for like..a buck or a buck and a half
or something like that
"L.A. colors"
i'm not even kidding.
give it a shot (:
it's only a buck..
what do you have to loose!?
it works. (: and i wear A LOT.(:
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I have two ear piercings on my left ear and was thinking of adding another,what do you guys think?should i add one more below with the other two?so it looks like a row of lobe piercings or should i pierce the third one on the upper ear,at the rim bone?
i have 3 pericing on the bottom part of my ear..and it ooks fine.
whichever you like.
but, it'll look fine iether way.
but, if you already have a pericing at the VERY bottom of your ear.. try putting one the same distance between the 1st and 2nd between the 2nd and 3rd?
http://www.girlzone.com/images_looks/EarPiercingBattle_lk.jpg
see her first three?
(starting fromthe bottom)
that's what i have done
maybe that picture will help you decide?
have fun (:
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how long do you have to keep in the ring after you get it pierced?
i was told 3 months.
but, she also said..
some people take longer
it can take a few months, or a few years.
if it looks healed..
then try it.
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14/f
I am going into high school this year and for the last 8 years I have had to wear uniforms to school. But in high school, there are no uniforms, just a couple of rules. Like:
1) no BLUE jeans. we can wear any color jeans, just not BLUE jeans. it's the stupidest rule ever, especially because blue is one of my school's colors. where can I find jeans (preferably skinny jeans) that aren't blue? I am open to any other colors. red, purple green, orange, ANYTHING. give me links please.
2) no spaghetti straps. where can I find cute t-shirts? give links please.
sorry this is so long.
PLEASE ANSWER!
JC PENNYS--
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/Products.aspx?DeptID=40380&CatID=40606&CatTyp=DEP&ItemTyp=G&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1111079&ProdSeq=2&Cat=skinny&Dep=Juniors&PCat=denim&PCatID=40499&RefPage=ProductList&Sale=&ProdCount=7&RecPtr=&ShowMenu=&TTYP=&ShopBy=0&RefPageName=CategoryAll%252Easpx&RefCatID=40499&RefDeptID=40380&Page=1&CmCatId=40380|40499|40606
(one pair of black skinny jeans)
go here;
and look at their shirts.
they're cute.& pretty cheap.
http://www5.jcpenney.com/jcp/categoryall.aspx?DeptID=40380&CatID=40494&cmCatLevel=3&cmCatID=40380
BOSCOVES--
cute shirts.
xD
http://www.boscovs.com/StoreFrontWeb/Department.bos?pdn=1150000&type=Department&departmentNumber=1151000
try like.. debs.. american eagel.. a&f
you'll certanly find your colored jeans in placeslike that.
goodluck!
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I have a skin disease called Psoriasis (sore-i-a-sis). Because I have uneven skin, I have been using Nair. In case you don't know, it's bladeless shaving so I don't get cut. Lately, I have heard that Nair is not safe to use on my skin condition. I was wondering if its true. Thank you so much!
To be honest, no on eon here can give yuo the answer you want.
Even if someone else on here hsa it..
they could haev it worse, or you could
your BEST bet, is to call your doctor.
that would be the safest thing to do.
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Is using a tanning lotion, like Dove Energy Glow, bad for you?
Not worse than the sun, right?
It's tons healthier.
my firend is a freak about her skin (15/f)
and she uses it.
and she puts sunscreeno n her face, every morning,and during the afternoon to
preevnt wrinkles..haha.
if that gives you any sort of.. releif?
just be carefull, some of it turns you orange!
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Ok i have went through alot of stuff lately in my family..divorce..affairs and a drug addict sister. I am going to be a senior this year and i have survived my vball team for the past 3 years. I hate volleyball..dont like practices..games..nothign..but i do it because its a sport and my parents want me too. Well this year..i dont want to go through another season..my mom says i should go through with it..im not sure what do..what do you think?
Maybe you should.. to keep your mind of things?
btu if oyu dislike it, don't!
but i highly recomend you do something else to keep you busy!
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okay so i need a makeover a new look. everything from hair, makeup to clothes any suggestions? well see my hair is a few inches bellow my shoulders and i want it to be longer. and my eyebrows ar really bushy and my mom won't let me do anything to them. and where should i shop at?
wwww.myspace.com/omfg_its_nikita
look at my pictures and ive me suggestions based on that please.
i don't know much. so don't rate.
but about your eyebrows; use twizzers.
little by little . if they bother you.
yo're pretty.
experiment with eyeliner,lipgloss, blush, and diffrent shades of eyeshadow
i'm not going ot telly ou where to shop.
where you shop doesn't mean anything.
you can buy something at AE
and buy some at JC pennys
at totaly diffrent prices.
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About two weeks ago, my mom was picked up for drunk driving. She got a DWI. She's being put into rehab for alcoholism. I was wondering how i can keep her from relapsing when she comes out. She's my main concern right now, and all i want to do is help. Thank you
AA meatings. do wonders. she'll absoltuly HATE them at first. but there's people there that can help.
look up their website.
it'll help her make friends, who haev similar problems.
ignore phone calls and don't give her mesasges from her drinking buddies.
she doesn't need them.
ohh and go t the meetings with her, and tell her EVERY DAY A MILION TIMES A DAY how proud you are of her, and how much of a better person she is.
spend more time with her, and make her realize how important this is to you!
is she an alchoholic? i take ti as a yes.
then do it.
pleas.e
my dad was.
he's been subber for a few years.
i know he'll enver pick up a drink again
he'll never understand how proud i am of him.
now he runs his own meeting.
AA is EVERYWHERE and they open their doors to anyone.
she just has to walk in a shake a hand.
god bless.
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I can't dance. I look really weird when I do. I hae to go to my friends quince and everyone is going to be dancing for like 4 hours. What do I do?
ok.
breathe!!!
1. have funnn! forget the awsome moves.
just have fun.
spinning around in circles
and doing silly moves
is ust as fun adn cool
as doing that whory stuff.
just, enjoy yourself.
laugh adn have fun.
copy others.
shak your but a little.
go dance.
now.. i mean right now.
turn up music
andance.
just have BLAST.
and turst me, you'll fee ALOT better
goodluck darling
and ps.
honetly; no one cares how you dance.
i promise :]
15/f
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FYI: I am a 20 year-old recent college grad. Both men I am referring to in this question are only slightly older than me and finishing their degrees.
"Joe" and I began dating 2 1/2 years ago. Our relationship was generally good when last summer (1 1/2 years in)he decided that he didn't want a serious girlfriend. Nothing mean or ugly, he was just being honest. I tried all summer to change his mind but finally gave. (We remained close friends.)
After dating around for a little while, I began seeing "Michael". Our relationship was somewhat rocky because we had both come out of relationships and he had been hurt many times before. During this time, Joe began to develop interest in having a relationship. I thought it over and eventually decided to try things again with Joe. (I stayed in close contact with Michael.)
Joe and I have a really easygoing relationship, but he refuses to discuss a more serious commitment. When we discuss it, he says he doesn't see us going in that direction at this point but is always careful to avoid losing me entirely. In the past few months, Michael has attempted to see other people to no avail. He is convinced that I am the only one for him. We have been getting along beatuifully, and Michael has done everything he to prove to me that we belong together. (Both are fully aware of each other and the current status.)
Michael wants me to leave Joe and become engaged to him. (He's even looking at rings.) I am seriously considering this. I love both men very much (in somewhat different ways) and could she myself happily married to either (in 2-5 years). The difference here is that Michael is willing to commit and Joe is not. Both have treated me very well; although Michael is romantic (flowers) while Joe is considerate (fixs my car). Is there any point in continuing to wait for Joe or should I leave him and accept the proposal from Micheal?
Let me start this out by saying no one on this website can tell you what you want or need.. only you can choose.
Whcih one is going to be tehre for you? Although flowers are sweet, is he willing to do things aroudn the house and take care of you and your family if yo have one?
And even if he does fix things aruon teh huose.. will he be sensative and loving enough for your needs?
These thoughts you need ot be running thruogh yur head.
If you can't choose, don't.
Marriage is not jsut rings and a fun wedding.
But a comitment to spend the rest of your life with a person you hold dear to your heart.
It's not who you can live with either; It's who you can't live without.
Even if Joe is not ready to be commited, mayeb that's good.
Since you need to make sure you MADE teh right choice.
How horrible would it be if you get married with Micheal right away..and find out you can't live without Joe!?
Mayeb you should sit down with Joe, and truley and seriously discuss the chooses he has made..
Maybe Micheal just sees an open oppertunity.
Or maybe, you are using him..for almost.. an "extra" to feel the feelings Joe isn't giving you, because.. you're relationship is not moving as fast as you originaly planned.
think about it.
you need someonewho truley cares for you.
that can support you mentaly.
and is willing to love you till the end of time.
i hope i helped?
if yo uhave any more questions, feel free to ask.
15/f
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ok well im thinking about getting my belly button pierced, and my ears peirced, does it hurt? any advice or soemthing i should do before going in.
I have 7 pericings.
3 per ear.
get your ears periced first.
belly botton?
don't watch.
don't look at what you're getting periced iwth
(make sure it's clean though)
an when you get your bellybutton done..
DO NOT PLAY WITH IT.
or it WILL get infected
wait atleast a month before you start screwinw ith it.
any more questions, feel free to ask :]
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what are some really good ways to strech out my legs..i'm go'n out for the pom team and i need to learn to do a toetouch and the splits in one week..i know it seems unrealistic but i'm a little desperate and i'm willing to work really hard..any streching ideas..or ideas on how to learn to do the splits and a toetouch really REALLY fast w/ out hurting myself?
]thanks
strechhhh starting..now!
touchtoches, jsut practice.
practice.
practice.
while watching tV,
strech.
and do splits.
do LOADS of crunches a day.
like.. make like.250 a day min.
that will help splits and toetouches.
if you have any more questions.
catch me on here.
i'll be more than willing to h elp.
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