ok i like this guy named Humberto and he is fine!! Well my gurl friends told him i liked him and he came to my table at lunch!! omg and i forgot to say hi and he got all mad and said i was ugly but an hour earlier he was like saying i was really hott and all now he is going out with this hoe that fucks every guy she can!! what should i do i really like him
TO: (anonymous)
okie well firt ya gotta ask yorself if hes worth it...i mean mehbe its just me buh i dunt think a guy that can say a girl's hott one minute and ugly the next is worth anything buh if he sooo is then uhh..wait it out i gess...i mean if he dunt like you wat CAN you do? just wait and youll be at the front of the line sometime...ya noe?
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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?
TO: teenage boys
i semi agree to wat yor saying...i mean guys do want a lotta sex buh some dunt..its just the matter of finding the rite one...ya noe?
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Ok... My mother and father r separated, I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend. And everytime i visit we have fun until i do something small and it pisses him off. and i HATE IT! He throws fits over the smallest things. I've thought about calling my mom to pick me up whenever he does tht but i dont have the nerve b/c he'll get into a fight with my mom and i hate it. Plus when he gets mad he doesnt talk to me, he just sits there in a bad mood and if its time for me to go he just says bye and gives me a hug when usually he hugs me says he loves me and kisses me. and i need k=to know what to do b/c i'm over it! please help me.
TO: My Dad
my moms the same way..like my parents arent split... buh my mom would complain to my dad if i wer an shirt thats not of her mood or summin.. seriously shell totallie seperate herself from the family...the onie way i noe to cope is to totallie ignore it and like later on act as if it nebe happened...i mean parents always hab their lil "kiddie moments" eben tho some hab em more than others buh still...let em hab a fit and you should tell your mom about it too.. if you dunt like it mehebe therell be summin she can do to help...ya noe?
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My parents nag me ALL of the time! Seriously, they bug the hell outta me and I am so sick of it! I think i might move in with my aunt, but i dunno how to break it to my parents. Also, anybody else have this problem? how do you guys deal with it? Thanks in advance!
~From, ME!
TO: ME!
parents can be a bug like a TON..the best way to deal is to hab some kinda pressure reliefe or summin that mite take your mid offa watebe they tell you... like for me, i blast the radio up loud after one of our "conversations" and that not onlie helps me feel better buh that lets them noe that i dunt want anyone buggin me at that time...moving with yor aunt idnt ezactly the best of ideas coz yor parents are wat gabe you the life you noe hab so you should at least stick with them through good and through bad like wat they hab alredy done for you...ya noe?
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I liked this guy named Rick and he hurt me alot like a few months ago And I got over it once school started Now im in school and Its been going great I have alot of friends and alot of fun being there and I met a guy Named Ben and hes really sweet and gives me the attention I want! Now Rick Imed me and said he still likes me and stuff And I told him about how he hurt me and stuff the thing is Old feelings came back But he goes to a different school and I made him Pissed by saying I had a b/f but I dont want to make him mad so I said I was lieing how do I tell him I do? with out him getting mad
TO: back to reality
i did that exact same stoopid thing to the guy i like...my advice is to tell him just straight out that you were lying to him and stuff like that becoz you were still reallie upset about wat happened buh if he could find it in the goodness of his heart to forgive you and start all over that would be great...tell him that wen you got over being upset you realized that yeah you did still like him...and another thing: the sooner the better...open the door wile its still nocking...you dunt wanna go to him wen its too late coz that will hert you more than watebe he did way back wen..."the hardest thing to do is watch the person you love fall in love with someone else"...ya noe?
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I have this ex-boyfriend who is now one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. He has told me, many times, how he's in love with me and wants me back. I don't feel the same way at all and get annoyed with his attempts to win me back. The real problem is, it seems everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I become very attracted to him again. I guess it's because 'you want what you can't have?' He says he doesn't even like these girls, but just wants someone to be with since he can't have me. I just can't believe myself when I fall for him only when he's with someone and it drives me crazy. What should I do? I really like him now but I know when he finds out, dumps his girlfriend, I won't feel the same!
TO: ex boyfriend, best friend, crush?
totallie normal feeling...buh i dunt think its a crush...if it was then you'd prolly be with him rite now and of course its not like that... i would feel bad like you if he dumps his girlfrend for you buh you cant reallie help it...i mean if this doode likes you that much then hes obviously gonna be one DEDICATED boyfrend... i onno the whole story buh if your up to it then gib him a second chance...mehbe things will go differently from the first time...ya noe?
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hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp**
TO: older guy
if you think your going WAYYY too fast in this relationship then dont make the spark thatll lite the fire... slow it down or dunt eben start it at all...listen to your conscience and your guts/instincts coz in the end those are prolly the onie things thatll help you...another thing... dunt risk gettin in trouble for this relationship...like if you NOE your doing something rong well then you should be able to stand up and say "THIS IS WRONG!"... if hes reallie worth it then he should definitely understand...ya noe?
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ok well im really unhappy with my life and ive thought about sucicide but never really wanted to do it because i know that that is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i was wondering if anyone can help me be...happier, or give me some tips
TO: (anonymous)
do NOT go through with suicide! my frend was like this wen we first met...i mean nife in pocket and waiting...im not a psychologist and i cant reallie "coach" you into being happier...the onlie thing i can do is gib you advice...
first off..it idnt gonna be easy...try to look at your life in a totallie different view...in a more OPTIMISTIC view...next...dont eben THINK about suicide...last buh not least...find some non-violent to cope with anger or embarrassment or watebe emotion thats making you wanna suicide...as i sed its not gonna be easy... buh trying is soore worth the trip rite?
SMILE!!
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I'm 14/f. I'm really starting to like one of my brother's friends. My brother and his friend are 17. I get the feeling that this guy flirts with me but I'm not sure. How can I find out if he likes me without him knowing and if he likes me back what should I do about it? I seriously doubt that my brother would like me dating any of his friends.
TO: My brother's friend
dont get tooo ahead of yourself...just act normal and wait it out...and if he does like you well do you like him back?
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For four years I have lived in my house thats like seculded. No neighbors, and Its really private. Well now were moving into this well rich community. Its kindof stepford wive-ish. Where all the people that live there get together and have fashion shows, partys etc. It sounds pretty fun but kinda stupid too. I mean there is a Hoedown coming up in October, and since were new my older siter wants to go. I know it would be a good place to meet people, but a hoedown? Like I think old people are gonna go haha. I'm just wondering, should I go? Also since this is a rich community, I think that the people living there are kinda snotty stuck up rich people. And my family is soo not like that. So what I'm asking is, should I get involved in the stuff? I dont know..My family doesn't like to get involved much..Thanks
TO: new house new people
it wont hert to chek it out...i mean going once idnt a reputation-killer and who noes...mehbe it wont turn out so bad...just gib it a chance..its part of the whole "moving routine"....ive moved 12 times the past fourteen years if my life and ive lerned to DEFINITELY gib everythin a shot and then make yor choice..not go by superstition... ya noe?
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alright, so i'll try and make this short as possible. there is this really hot guy at me school. i'm in 9th he's in 10th, so its not totally impossible that we go out. the thing is is that we dont' have any classes or anything together. i see him during lunch and in the library before school, and his cousin/friend has his locker right by mine, so i see him sometimes then too. and we've never talked or anything, but i really really want to get to know him! but my friend who knows him says hes shy, so that leaves me to make the first move .. problem, i don't know what to say! i DO NOT just want to barge up to him saying 'hi, i like you, etc' gosh, can someone help me?
-despretley in need of help.
TO: despretley in need of help
i sooooo have this problem too..the thing is that the guy is in two of my classes buh A) hes a senior and B) he's a frend of my sister's and that pretty much means hands off...so heres wat i think...try and get him to notice you...then say hi or summin wenebe you see him...o and make frends with his frend/cousin so that you hab eben more reason to talk to him..ya noe?
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ok me and my well.. my boyfriend now we went out 4 about 3months then we broke up and we didnt see eachother that much and so we havent kissed but he said he was gunna kiss me last time he saw me (end july..) but he didnt think i was ready (sooo sweet!) and im happy cz i never kissed some1 til 2day b4 we broke up i cheated on him..(wanted to be expericenced 4 him) now ima see him tomorrow and next friday!!...and i really wanna kiss him and i kno he wants to kiss me we talk about it all the time so i have 2 questions..
1.- where at his cuz's house..where can we get away for our first kiss..(wanna b alone)
2. ive only kissed (with tounge) 1 time b4 him!! (if we do kiss..) will he kno maybe?..every1 says he a grreat kisser!
TO: He'S gUnNa KiSs Me AnD iMa FaLl 4 HiM aGaIn!!>?
1. the bathroom...privacy dusnt come easily
2. if youve onlie kissed once then insted on practicin on some other guy...practice with him...DUH!! lolz
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Theirs this how do I put it "nerdy" looking guy at school dont get me wrong I like nerdy ones :-/ lol anyways How do I get him to be more open cause he dosent seem to have any friends at my school and he's really quiet, people are all the time trying to talk to him but he wont say more than 2 words back... any help would be appriceated
Tnkz In Advance
-Chris "16/f/nc"
TO: Chris "16/f/nc"
i used to be this lil kid wen i was in the fourth grade...i hab moved SO MANY TIMES that i was sick and tired of makin any frend with like any more new pplz... i think the best approach would just be to go up to them cheerily and try and make as much talk as you can...find something in common with them and make a convo outta that...ya noe?
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theres this guy who really likes me n stuff and i think i like him too but one of my best friends really likes him and doesnt want me to go out with him which i can understand cuz she like loves him. but hes always like ur so much hotter than her and ur kooler than her and i like u better n stuff like that so i feel bad and i dont want to hurt my friend so im not gonna go out with him. im making the right decision right?
thanx sorry its kinda long
TO: friends and guys
as i tell everyone else...open the door wen you hear someone knockin on it coz if not then surely someone else will and itd be too late... its good that your thinkin about your frend dooring all this...buh if shes yor frend then she should understand now or later... i mean if the guy likes YOU then SHE cant do anything about it and so she mite as well go for someone else and not waste her time... if the guy idnt so worth it then i gess you are making the rite choice buh if sooo....i cant reallie tell you....its one of those things you should just noe... ya noe?
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Okay well in my science class there is a boy he is kinda a nerd but i find him cute.and i sometimes look at him from the side of my eye and he would look back.today i joined a club and he's in it i am running for secretary or something(i dont even know)i guess i made a great impression on the people and it seems like they all voted 4 me and i guess he was tryin to make small talk by telling me he voted 4 me.i dunno if he might like me or not he's really shy.Im more like a person many people know im not concidered a nerd but i would call myself one but i dont act like it.Should i go up to him or something i dunno im confused!!!
TO: ???
cover the distance and go for it...if hes the shy type then of course hes waiting for someone else to make the move first...wait it out a lil bit tho to make soore all is a go..then take a step, a breath, and do wat ya need ter... just make soore you dunt do it outta pity...ya noe?
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I want to know something cause this bothers me SOOO much!I'm 14 and i just noticed that older guys like 16,17,18 yr old guyz like me and younger guys(by that i mean 12,11,10,9) like me no one my age likes me well that i know of and it really bothers me.when i like a guy he just see's me as a "friend" and when a guy likes me i guess thats the same way.but im wondering what wrong with me that guyz my own age dont like me..:\
TO: Younger or Older
they could possibly noe of your "other suitors" and either dont think they are good enuff (coz of the older guys) or think your not worth it (coz of the older guys)... mehbe there is a guy your age that likes you buh dunt show/admit it...ya nebe noe...ya noe?
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hey well ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Hes a senior and im a junior. Ever since weve been going out he doesnt talk to his lady friends at all anymore just his guy friends. Well i didnt make him not hang out with him he just chose not to. Now the girls try to make me jealous by trying to say hey to him just when im with him but it doesnt work at all atcually i think that its pretty sad! My boyfriend just ignores them. They always give me dirty looks and i guess talk about me to. THis doesnt bother me tho. well like what did i do? DO you think they are jealous or what??
* Ashley* 17- Louisiana*
Thanks
TO: * Ashley* 17-Louisiana*
uhmmm..as i told the last person i had just given advice to...totallie talk to your boyfriend... tell him wats going on..i mean in a relationship, isnt the most important thing besides love and great sex communication? (jk about the great sex part...lol) dont just come out and say "why arent you talking to your girl frends anymore? now they hate me" er anything like that...insted be all like "hey i habent met any of your girl frends. can i meet some?" i mean fer all you noe he proly stopped hangin wid dem in case he does anythin to make you feel insecure or summin..dont get me rong im not sayin you are...its just that sum girls and guys can nebe be soore...ya noe?
***sorry if this is a reallie long reply...hehe
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Well i have this friend and like she thinks that she is the most popular person in school...shes kinda popular but she talks shit about people and hardly anyone likes her anymore. well lately she said she hated this one girl and like now shes totally attachted and shes being a bitch so idk i dont want to talk to her because i have tried ignoring her but like when i dont talk to her she comes and talked to me and like i really feel like i have to say something and like i dont want to tell her how i feel because that would be complaining that i dont like what shes doing and thats dumb because its her choice...also shes been telling me that i have been making good choices and stuff and like she hasnt and like i think that shes just saying that because she wants attention...what do you think?
TO: confused...
theres no way to working out a problem without communication and i hab nebe been able to find a way around it...you HAB to go talk to her and tell her what not only you buh everyone else is thinkin of her and wat she does..i mean theres a line between being popular and desperate for attention and i think she has crossed that line... pity has nebe done another person any good...in the end they are the ones to suffer so they mite as well now the problem from the start, face it, and lern to live without it... the sooner the better..ya noe?
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My birthday is in 3 weeks and I need ideas for a party and fast!! It has to be not to expensive though, any ideas??
TO: HELP!!
picnic sound nice? how about just an at home parte? or mehbe one thats likes hanging out at the mall...moovies would be funn buh you hab to try and find like cheap tickets or you can hab wat we call a "Movie Night" where you like hab a sleepover and watch movies all nite and stuff like that...LOTSA POPCORN... just do summin thats funn fer you? ya noe?
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Lately I have been hanging around a new group of people and these people do drugs and they got me started on them too. and to tell ya the truth i love them. I like the feeling i get and i relly like it but i'm loseing a lot of friends because of it. I know my friends wanna help but i like the feeling. How can i not lose my friends but still do what i wanna do ?
TO: Addicted
uhhh...i noe its kinda like HARD to keep yorself from doing drugs buh you should seriously try..there are some programs that you can get into that can help you stop doing drugs... if your frends are your frend tell them yor prob and im soore theyd understand and like help...support is the best medicine especially to those who reallie need it...ya noe?
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