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hey well ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Hes a senior and im a junior. Ever since weve been going out he doesnt talk to his lady friends at all anymore just his guy friends. Well i didnt make him not hang out with him he just chose not to. Now the girls try to make me jealous by trying to say hey to him just when im with him but it doesnt work at all atcually i think that its pretty sad! My boyfriend just ignores them. They always give me dirty looks and i guess talk about me to. THis doesnt bother me tho. well like what did i do? DO you think they are jealous or what??
* Ashley* 17- Louisiana*
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Learn now that women are EXTREMELY territorial, more so than men. We always judge each other, check each other out and compare ourselves to other women, and get jealous, even when it's just our guy FRIEND. Chances are, a lot of these women liked him and you took the object of their desire. Now they are going to find reasons to hate you. I would ignore it. They're just being typical young girls.
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They are jealous of you. Its their problem. Its not your fault, and they are the ones that are giving you bad looks rather than going up to your boyfriend and talking about it. One day just go up to them and be like: Guys, I dunno if you'll believe me but I didn't tell him to stop talking to you. I trust him, its not my fault so why don't you guys try and talk to him, even if he seems to ignore you he still can't close his ears.
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Caitlin
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TO: * Ashley* 17-Louisiana*
uhmmm..as i told the last person i had just given advice to...totallie talk to your boyfriend... tell him wats going on..i mean in a relationship, isnt the most important thing besides love and great sex communication? (jk about the great sex part...lol) dont just come out and say "why arent you talking to your girl frends anymore? now they hate me" er anything like that...insted be all like "hey i habent met any of your girl frends. can i meet some?" i mean fer all you noe he proly stopped hangin wid dem in case he does anythin to make you feel insecure or summin..dont get me rong im not sayin you are...its just that sum girls and guys can nebe be soore...ya noe?
***sorry if this is a reallie long reply...hehe
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