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My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

sweetie i am so sorry... you should tell your mom... next time you see the ghost, get your mom or someone you trust to follow the ghost with you... so you actually walked through the wall? dont worry ive heard so many stories about this... just try to understand the ghost...this could be extremely important and she could be telling you something that you need to know... get get a witness or something when you walk through the wall or whatever to believe you and you wont be sent to a hospital! i know this sounds really crazy but get a camera- a video camera... and tape everything that happens including when you see the house... or just take a normal camera and take a picture of the house... this is very important and this could be real... you need to tell someone next time it happens... there was this one story (true)(my teacher told me)-- my teacher said that this boy in her class told her that he was seeing a ghost of a boy that look exactly like him every night... at conferences the teacher told the boys mom about this and the mother said that when the boy was born, he had a twin who didnt make it... im not kidding you this is real...tell someone and try to figure this out... good luck!!! and i hope i helped... i believe you
--lucky

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I have long dark brown hair (like almost down to the middle of my back) and it's kind of tapered.. and it's KIND OF got long layers (the lady was supposed to give me long layers but she did a bad job so it doesn't really look like I have any layers). It's straight (I blow dry it straight) but can get a LITTLE frizzy/wavy (on the ends) when it rains. What are some cute haircuts I could get (keeping my hair long) that wouldn't require much maintanance (blow dry, no straightening)

my hair is exactly like yours! i straighten tho... but anyways... you could get short layers and jusr shorten your hair up a bit... bangs also look really cute with long brown hair! hope this helps!
--lucky

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I want to die my hair like lindsay lohans in freaky friday. But i dont actually kno what color it is..so if anyone know and can tell me that'd be awsome ..thanks...

well its orange with kinda strawberry blonde chunky highlights... hope this helps!
--lucky

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well, my hair is straight, but the ends go all retarded and wavy and this totally kills my hair. does anybody kno why this happens and how i can get rid of the waviness? thanx lotss

get a straightener! they work like a dream!
--lucky

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I just got braces a few weeks ago and I have to get them tightened for the first time on February 1.. I was just wondering.. When you get them tightened, does it hurt as much as it does when you first get your braces on? Do you have to like eat soup and stuff again for a few days after you get them tightened? Another question.. My ortho showed me this special way to floss, but it's such a hassle. It takes forever to floss, and it's really complicated. Do most people floss when they have braces? Or is it okay if I don't floss.. and just brush my teeth really well? Thanks.. I'll rate HiGh!

well i dont floss lol... but the tightening sorta depends on the ortho... it hardly hurts me when i get mine tightened... i just have to eat like sandwiches for a couple days... advil totally gets rid of the pain tho! dont worry about it!
--lucky
i get mine off in a month!!! WOO HOO

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Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me!

youre doing a good job about taking her outside everytime she does it, but when she does it and you find it later, you should bring her over to it, let her smell it, scold her and then take her outside... when you take her for walks and she goes outside give her a lot of praise... itll take a little while but shell get it soon enough. hope this helps!
--lucky
p.s....vingar works really well to get stains out of white carpets!

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It's almost xmas, and I don't have any gifts for my family. And worse of all, I can't go out and get gifts for them because I'm broke. Does anyone have any ideas how I can "make" a gift for my family? [I have one bro, 19, two parents, age unknown, and one sister, age 21.] If anyone could think of creative fun things I could make out of house hold items, I'd love you forever.
--Giftless

Dear Giftless,
for your sis- you could make a scrapbook of pix from when you 2 were young! if you cant buy a scrapbook, just make one out of construction paper!
for your bro- you could egt him a poster or something... those can be really cheap sometimes... or you could just give him like a bowl of his favorite candy or something... something cheap that he likes...
for your parents- picture frame! parents love stuff that reminds them of their kids so you could make a frame and put a pic of you, your bro, n your sis in it! or you could give them a little coupon that says you will spend one whole day with them... parents love it when they get to spend time with their kids so make a certificate that says you'll go out n see a movie w/ your dad or go shopping w/ your mom...
hope this helps!!! merry xmas!
--lucky

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i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps

well you could post signs up... or you could put an ad in the paper or something... and about your allergie problem- some dogs have hair coats instead of fur... like schnauzers... most terriers have hair so if you want to get a new dog get one with hair instead of fur... well good luck!!!
--lucky

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Okay, I have been sick for almost a week now, I have really bad diarrhea and I can't keep any food down! Everytime I eat it comes up, I even took three bites of a yogurt and it came up. My mom refuses to take me to the doctor and I am starting to feel weak. i usually get dehydrated really easily and now when i drink it doesnt stay down either. My mom keeps an attitude towards me when i tell her what is going on and she says she cant afford to take me to the doctor, WHAT DO I DO?

take one sip of water every 15 minutes for like 3 hours... i hope you feel better!
--lucky

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ok... uhh mi best friend is an untrustworthy lier nd only out for them selves... she is always lieing to me nd not inviteing me places.. wat should i do

well first talk to her... if she still lies to you, then get a new best friend... you dont deserve that... if you still wanna be her friend, then make sure you talk to her... if she does it again, just keep talking to her... that should get her to realize that shes really hurting your feelings... maybe the reason shes doing this is because she wants a little break... my friend did that to me for a while n we got in a fight but then after a couple weeks of not talking to eachother n stuff we kinda got over it... you might just need to give her a little space so take a break then try to start your friendship up again... hope this helps!!!
--lucky

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This kid in my school, Danny, he knows I had an eating disorder problem, so I lost a really lot of weight; but everytime he sees me he makes some sort of rude comment. They all tend to be toward my weight. For instance at lunch I asked my friend if they had any money I could borrow because I left mine at home, and he said something rude like "What for lunch? Looks like you've eaten enough". Which totaly goes over my head because I've lost about 60lbs since the begining of last summer. So, how should I confront him, or should I not even bother I know theres got to be a way to shut him up without having to bring the principal into it or anything like that. Or should I just resort to that?

confront him... just be nice and tell him that you dont appreciate his jokes... if he still does it, then just ignore him! hes just stupid and he probly makes fun of other people to make himself feel better! btw... dont get into an eating disorder!!! please! you could seriously hurt yourself... if you want to lose waeight then just go on a diet... eat healthy foods instead of junk... i hope i helped!!!
--lucky

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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments

theyre probly stretch marks... everyone gets them sometime... it just means youre going through a growth spurt so your skin is stretching out... dont worry... everyone has them sometime... you can just use come cover up if youre going to wear a mini skirt or something... its normal... hope i helped!
--lucky

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I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!

pretend that everytime you look at a face, youre just looking at yourself in the mirror... i used to be just like you but if you dont think about it, its ok... just think about other things like what you want to have for lunch, or what you did over the weekend... but make sure you remember your presentation too! all you have to do is rehearse a LOT n then the words will just kinda come and you wont have to think about it... good luck! hope this helps!
--lucky

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i use nyc eyeliner and everytime i use it it comes off easily so i have to bring my eyeliner to school and put it on there. my friends thinks its annoying cause i need to go to the bathroom or use their mirror in their lockers to put it on. whenever my friends put the eyeliner i use on, it stays on for them but it doesnt for me. i tried many kinds of eyeliner but i still cant find one that will stay on, someone please help!

p.s i dont want to use liquid eyeliner or very expenisive eyeliners

i used to use NYC but it sometimes did the same for me... now i use covergirl perfect point plus (self sharpening) and it stays on all the time! it doesnt say its waterproof but it doesnt come off in water for me... its cheap you can get it at like CVS or something like that... hope this helps!
--lucky

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I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.

i think you should talk to them.. if they dont listen to you, then you be the one to include yourself... invite both of them over for a sleep over... or maybe you can just invite one of them over so you can get to know eachother a little more without the other one trying to exclude you! just talk to them and i think theyll understand... hope i helped!
--lucky

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my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!!

sweet... i just redid my room... yellow! just think about your personality and paint your room the color that you think you ar emost like! (e.g. balck-gothic... etc) i painted my room yellow n i have blue n white for accent colors... and if you cant paint your walls, cover them up!!! buy posters n put up bulletin boards with pix of you n your friends! if you dont wanna pay for new stuff, then just paint it! paint your furniture a new color or maybe buy some cheap stuff at a yard sale... just buy crappy furniture and paint it... itll look like new! just throw stuff you like all over your walls... posters, pictures, collages, whatever you want! color is key! well good luck! hope this helps!
--lucky

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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute?

very cute! and if you want cuter? LEG WARMERS!!! leg warmers are SO in this year n theyre also 80's!!! good luck!

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today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better?

besides taking some sudafed or something like that, get lots of rest!!! drink a lot of water and take a nap whenever you have time... dont do and strenuous excersise... trust me i woke up last week with the same exact thing! im pretty much better so dont worry about it! itll just take some time... all of the other symtoms are gone cept i lost my voice for a while... so make sure you dont yell or anything... hope you feel better!!!

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My daughter does not want to know me and is trying to exclude me from the rest of the family i am heartbroken she cant see that i love her and my other children she is married and has children of her own please find me some answers as to why this is happening

hmm... i think you should talk to her about it if it really bothers you! maybe make a special mother/daughter shopping trip or something like that so you can spend some quality time with her... maybe she thinks that you dont want to talk to her so just invite her over for dinner ot plan a girls night out or something fun! show her that you love her and if you ask her about it, listen to her and try to fix whats wrong...i hope this helps!

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i moved away from my best friend 2 years ago, and it really feels like we're drifting apart.. she doesn't want us to stop being best friends and neither do i but our lives are so separate now and neither of us can pay to fly up and visit, so everything is just getting so strained.. and shes the only person i can talk to, so i dont know what to do because i know i'll go insane if we end up not being as good friends anymore.. but i dont know how to stay friends! any suggestions?

AIM baby...

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