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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.

advice

okay well me and this guy, well i guess hes my bf.. he never really specifically asked it, only said "i see myslef as your boyfriend" so, im not sure what we are... but we went out to a nice dinner and did some 'sexual' stuff before and after, and alot of times when we talk he asks what i want to do with him (sexually)... im mostly just curious about whether or not he sees me as his girlfriend, and if it seems like hes only in it for the action.. thanks a bunch!!

if he said that.he maybe your boyfriend.or wnats to bbe your boy friend.he want you to give him a head.

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Sometimes i get a white/clear discharge in my underwear, well more like everyday. is this a sign of a Std?

no thats a sign of puberty. also if you havent had you periond .well its coming,

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okay every single person i know hass like a perfect butt, but i have absolutly nothing... what are someways to make your butt bigger?? and also your boobs!! ive heard drinking milk and protien helps, but is that true?!?! also could you explain step by step what to do for all of this?!?! thank you so much!!

protien help lose weight and be healthy.i think if you want a good butt.join a gym.try work outs that help tone your butt and make it look good.ask a fitness trainer about those workouts.also run,scrunges,sit ups.look up work out on websites.look toning workouts

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I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?


Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.



I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas?

hi i think that you should give people from a far the idea that you are not a bitch.try to be nice to people.extra nice.show people that you are a nice person.no matter how had if you want friends.be friendly.

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Hey
=( I really dont like my stepmom. I dont necessarily HATE her but i strongly dislike her. My dad & her had an affair. I love my mom so much. I live with her mainly. shes like my best friend && we are really close. So My step mom really hurt my mom, me and my whole family life! She barely talks to me. Shes just not very nice. Sometimes she acts too nice like in a fake way & it drives me crazy. I like my dad but we are not all that close because of the divorce. i Hate going over to my dads because of my stepmom & just being around lies. My step brother & step sister dont even know the whole truth. What should I do? I give 5's.

talk to you dad .make him understand how you feel.also give yur step mom a chance.si she made a mistake.vut also no matter what shes going to be part of your life as long as she with your fater.so try to talkt to het 2.if possible talkt to them at the same time.you dont have to judge them cause of the divorce

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My friend had a crish on her cousin's best friend, Tom. So she used to talk to him on the computer and everything and he was totally flirty adn everything so soon he got my sn and I started talking to him, and he was nice and everything. But then my friend said that he stop stopped flirting with her and when i tried talking to him i had to force a conversation out of him. So now she says that she is over him and she already has another guy she is flirting with, so now i am worried about him, it gets worse I liked him too and I still like him. How can I get him to open up with me and tell me what is rong? And any hints on flirting on the computer??

go on fkirt with him.tell him you have been thinking about him.also tell hi you think his hot.ask him if he finds anyone hot or likes someone before you do all that.

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i always screw up. I screwed things up with my best friend... and now my cuzin. ok heres my problem: My cuz likes the same guy i like.. except shes known him longer. He liked me and i told her i liked him and she said cool. i said what if i went out with him? shes like, "that would be ok." and when he asked i said yes. I didnt tell her because i didnt have the heart too.. its only been 3 days since we started and my sis opened her mouth.. and i guess she was crying and said i promised her i would never date him.. the thing is i did. but she claims she said it wasnt ok.. so did her sis.. but she did. now she hates me. I need help. should i break up with him even tho i really like him.. or what??'
help ASAP please

thanks

shes being a bitch about it,she needs to grow up.if you like him and he likes you thats allthat matters/.talk to her about it .shes a grown up if she doesnt understand .who cares.try to work things out.

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I talked to this kid that goes to my school and like a year ago he IMed me and we talked and then i started to IM him back and stuff and one day he must have gotten annoyed by me and stopped talkin to me but all the time at school ever since he has always looked at me and stuff but has never came to me and talked to me at school or anything. Do you think he likes me?? or am i getting the wrong idea. hes 1 year older then me but i kinda think i like him now and i kinda think he likes me. like when i was in a school play i was sitting on the stairs getting ready to go onstage and in the corner of my eye i seen him looking at me. He doesnt make it seem obvious when im around him.

he so likes you.maybe you should talk to him. like in person and on im again,i think his feelings for you my have scared him and he thought you dint like him in that way

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MY under arm hair is a pain. I keep shaving it but it comes back with in one day.how do i get it to stay a longer.(I am Allergic to nair). What do i do. it is so embarrassing.

HELP PLz.

~shannen*

wax

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hey, its me again, um... thisis kinda comfusing but please help i rate well!!

there's this boy Dustin, who i've like for a lil over a year.. and ppl who are his friends and mine asked if i liked Dustin but then sed they dont know y he doesn't like me, then they sed that that he likes me and is going to ask me out.. then when he didn't ask me out yesterday, they sed that he likes me but he doesnt want me to know... and then they sed again they dont knwo why he doens't like me.

I'm sooo confused, how long should i wait before i move on? how shoudl i handle this? PLEASE help

JAckie

give him a week to get his act together.then if its still confusing.move on.dont put you life on hold for him.or just ask him if he likes you.stop relying on what other ppl say.be brave girl.

ashly

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Hey look my Best friend is a guy and i'm a girl
And we have been going over eachothers houses and playin video games and i think i like him but how can i know if he likes me any idias. He is one of those Sk8er Boyz thnx :-)

just plain ask him.watch if he looks art you a lot.also if he different around you than in not friends way.if he touches you.stuff like that.also give him clues that you may like him

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ok sorry this is long but i will rate high
i know this guy i went on this like holiday were loadsa people went to and he was there and there were partys on the beach and stuff and we were flirting..but he has a girlfriend but some nights she wasnt there so we flirted loads.
but then they kinda split up coz she saw he got my number somehow and everyone told her he fancies me...and i fancy him like hell..and hes so cute and i get depressed about it..but now hes still with his girlfriend but his friend txt me asking me all this stuff like do i fancy him and stuff and that hes sure that hes getting bored with her and stuff..and hes really sweet and not the kinda guy to use u...so sorry its soooo long but wat shall i do go for it..o yea aswell hes 2 yrs older and the girl 1yr so other girls might hate me for this...so wat shall i do go for it??
im so sorry its so long but i really need help!!!
thanx
xxxxx

hes a total player and you are the other woman.move on.i think he wants to keep you on the side in case he dumps her.so you might become the rebound chick.do you really want to be her.when he gets with you wat tell you he wont dump you too for someone else.his a loser so forget him.he has a girlfriend and not planning on dumping her .

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tomorrow for a labor day picnic, im inviting a handful of my friends over. I cant think of anything to do and how to entertain them. I have no pool, and they all do so theyll probably think its boring. i have nowhere to go cause my neighborhood is in the middle of nowhere. im trying to think if something else to do besides eat, watch movies, and play Twister, cause thats what we always do. please help, i dont want them to be bored! and we cant go anywhere.

spin the bottle.truth or dare .movies.storis.

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How do I make a picture smaller so I can put it on my colomn?

put it on a web site and try in the sites name for url web pic

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there's this guy i like, we'll call him mark. Mark is really sweet, and he's really nice to me... Anyway he plays around bein rude to everybody, like insulting them as a joke and they know it kinda thing. But he doesn't do that to me, he's play rude to the girl he likes/liked (not sure if he still likes her or not), and he's play rude to me sometimes, but he doesn't go out of his way to insult me or be rude which is part of why i like him. Mark treats me like a lady. i'm really thrown for a loop... i want him to like me, and we hang out alot (we sit beside each other on the bus to and from all football games because we're in the marching band, we hang out in the commons of the high school every morning, along w/ a bunch of other people, and we have alot of classes together and whatnot), but from all my experiences w/ guys that have liked me in the past, they were play rude or genuinly rude to me, because they didn't want me to know or something i guess. but anywho, what does it mean when he's nicer to me than anyone else? he really does treat me different. does he just think of me as a friend, or does he like me or does he just not really think that much of me either way so he doesn't really think to treat me like his other friends? i'm really confused... please help
14/f

mark likes you.if hewont admit it .ask him and tell him how u feel.also be brave make the first move

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how do you get cute waves in your hair without gettin a perm...?? please help ill rate high!

it isnt relly a oerm but out curly rollers in you hair for about two hours and when you get them out you have wavt hair for weeks.also try curly hair shampoos

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I've been with my boyfriend for over two years, and I love him more than anything in the world. I've never cheated on him and I've never even thought about it. But last night I had a dream that I had sex with another guy. I don't know who he was, but it really wierd. And in my dream I was freaking out that my boyfriend might find out about it and that he'd be pissed at me. When I woke up this morning I called my boyfriend and told him about the dream and he's taking it really hard. He's really hurt and he thinks that I might be interested in having sex with other people, BUT I'M NOT. I don't know why I had this dream, and I don't know what to do or say to make him feel better. Another thing is that my boyfriend is in the military- and we don't get to see eachother very often, so he's probably really worried something is going on back at home with me and someone else, but honestly there isn't. I need to figure out why I had this dream, and what I can do to cheer up my boyfriend. Any advice would be awesome, thanks.

ensure him that you love him and no one else.and it was just a dream as long as you dont know the guy. it could have been brad pitt.so dont stress .tell him your all his

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My best friend is 13 and I'm almost 14. I got my period last november and she still hasnt gotten it.

So we were talking about it one nite because i got it that nite. So she was like damn it I want mine and I was like you shouldnt. Than she was like my mom told me that when your friends get their periods your more likely to get yours around that time too. I was like really thats weird.

Now is this a true statement or a wild guess I mean because to me it sounda a little out there.

Its a little weird so i didnt know where to put this question.

everyones body works ifferent and your friend will get her period when the time is right and her body wants to.so its not true.your friend should wait cause its coming

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Whats the best brand of pads to use. Like I like deoderizer and fast observation and I can wear it a lot.

try kotex pads or stayfree and always.look for the extra long ultra thin .or maxi.they all come scented

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Some of my friends and I are trying to start a field hockey club for young girls ages 6-11 to make a little extra money. However, I am having some problems. How can I get people to know about this and come? My town doesn't have a rec team for it only school teams (the school teams are for 6th grade and up so these girls won't be on them). Next problem is sticks. Should we buy sticks for the girls? Should we make them bring their own? Should we rent the school's sticks? How can we get the money if we were to buy/rent sticks? Would it be wrong to ask people to donate money when we would be making a profit? Lastly, how much should we charge the girls? We would supply balls, mouth guards, and snacks. Oh and we will ask for them to bring there own cleets (sp?) and sin guards. Thanks in advance.

the girls should pay 30 dollars per head.and also dont ask 4 donations if is for you only.that money will help with snacks,and ball and mouth gaurds.the girls should bring their own stick or give you extra money to bbuy them sticks

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