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just wondering
okay well me and this guy, well i guess hes my bf.. he never really specifically asked it, only said "i see myslef as your boyfriend" so, im not sure what we are... but we went out to a nice dinner and did some 'sexual' stuff before and after, and alot of times when we talk he asks what i want to do with him (sexually)... im mostly just curious about whether or not he sees me as his girlfriend, and if it seems like hes only in it for the action.. thanks a bunch!!
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You really have to talk to him about this. None of us know him or you enough to tell you EXACTLY how he feels. Just talk to him casually, like at dinner. And just make conversation that will lead to you asking him what exactly you two are. (I.E. - Make up a story about how your friend asked if he was your boyfriend, and you said you dont know because nothing was ever specified... then say "so what exactly ARE we") If he tries to avoid the question just let him know that you dont want ot be in it just for the sexual part and that you really want a relationship. Hope this helped. Good luck.
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if he said that.he maybe your boyfriend.or wnats to bbe your boy friend.he want you to give him a head.
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what you need to do is sit down with him and just talk to him and get everything srate if he's just useing you I woulds suggest to dump him because he dosn't really care for you and you will have lot of guys in your life and they will apprshat you more than he will.if he's using you.hoped I helped and good luck please ask me for any advise anytime and please rait me. thanks.
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it sounds if he is only using you for “Action”. All too often when someone talks about “sexual stuff” they are just wanting the “Action” and it doesn’t matter who it is with. as long as it creates the sensation for their sick minds.
If you really want to find the best kind of bf, find one who will be with you when you both are not sexual active. When you get married and use sex as it meant to, reproduction, then you have a stronger marriage, a better relationship with your spouse and your kids, and you will find a happiness you never could imagine otherwise.
Think about it if you date someone who wants 2 have sex with u. all 2 often they done it before and will do it again once you break up. So you are nothing but a number to them. You’ll be like a trophy of theirs like those mounted heads on the walls.
I hope this helps u in your quest 4 happiness, Let me know if it did
Best wishes.
~Teen Guru~
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