Question Posted Saturday September 3 2005, 4:55 pm
there's this guy i like, we'll call him mark. Mark is really sweet, and he's really nice to me... Anyway he plays around bein rude to everybody, like insulting them as a joke and they know it kinda thing. But he doesn't do that to me, he's play rude to the girl he likes/liked (not sure if he still likes her or not), and he's play rude to me sometimes, but he doesn't go out of his way to insult me or be rude which is part of why i like him. Mark treats me like a lady. i'm really thrown for a loop... i want him to like me, and we hang out alot (we sit beside each other on the bus to and from all football games because we're in the marching band, we hang out in the commons of the high school every morning, along w/ a bunch of other people, and we have alot of classes together and whatnot), but from all my experiences w/ guys that have liked me in the past, they were play rude or genuinly rude to me, because they didn't want me to know or something i guess. but anywho, what does it mean when he's nicer to me than anyone else? he really does treat me different. does he just think of me as a friend, or does he like me or does he just not really think that much of me either way so he doesn't really think to treat me like his other friends? i'm really confused... please help
14/f
Additional info, added Sunday September 18 2005, 12:55 am: o yeah, homecoming is coming up and idk what to do... he's not sure if he's going or not and i want him to go... I would ask him, but i'm, not the type of girl that asks guys out or to dances or anything... my friend that i'm not sure if he likes or not said she was going after all, date or no, and his face lit up like the sky on independence day... he pretty much already knows i'm goin date or not, so... yeah...
plz help!
Thanks. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SilentOne answered Saturday September 17 2005, 9:10 pm: He probably likes you. If he didn't think much of you as a friend, then he wouldn't be so "friendly", and if you were just friends, then he would treat you the same way as his other friends. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy who's nice just to get down your pants, but that's always a possibility, and some are very good actors.
Homecoming;
I really don't get why some girls won't ask guys out. Ask me, and I'll say it's a stupid stereotype - but no offense...
If you won't ask him, then make him ask you. Start to be really sweet back to him, flirt a lot and let him know you're interested.
I think one of the best ways to find out if he likes you, and get him to ask you to Homecoming is to use reverse-psychology.
The next time you manage to sneak the conversation around to the subject of homecoming, pretend you're not sure whether you want to go or not. Maybe be a little upset about it. Lead him along to asking you why you're not going, or why you wouldn't go. Pounce >=) You don't know who I would go with...
Just chose your words carefully, and make a big hint that you would feel out of place without somebody there with you.
When he knows you want someone with you, you haven't been asked, and if he likes you, then he'd have to be pretty dull, or shy not to ask you there & then.
If he doesn't ask, keep at it a little while. If he just doesn't get around to it, then maybe he's not so interested in you.
andhearts answered Saturday September 3 2005, 5:51 pm: oww la la. hah sounds like the boy likes you. if he didnt like you i dont think he would act any didfferent to you than he did his other friends. i think its cool how you so alot with eachother also. i think you should try to tell him how you feel. well, i know how hard that is, because i was in the same situation...so just flirt with him more so he gets the signal you like him. thats what i would do. and if he ever asks you who you like, try to tell him you like him. and maybe even ask HIM who HE likes. well, i hope i helped. send one to the inbox...im anxious to see how it turns out. =) [ andhearts's advice column | Ask andhearts A Question ]
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