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Is there anyone out there with a medical background that could come up with an off the record probable prognosis or at least some educated advice rather than random common sense comments? (link)
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if it has anything to do with pysical therapy or sports related injuries i can help..also anything to do with hip or back injuries..just leave it in my inbox
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I can't find what I'm looking for on the Hollister website.
It's basically one of those big furry hood jackets with the sleeves cut off.
That's just what it looks like, lol.
But I have no clue how to find it on the site, I've gone through all the catorgories.
Help! (link)
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i work at hollister and i dont know where you live or anything but at this current moment we arent selling those. we are supposed to get a shipment in about 2 months though
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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okay...it sounds like his ego needs a little boosting. i quit arm-wrestling the guys solely because some cant handle a loss to a girl. its normal. i know this sounds bad but seriously..try really hard but let him win a few.
and in answer to your question...yes ive beat many guys. they think just becase i like to dress preppy and make myself look nice means im weak. i am not weak and most guys know it. but in regards to your boyfriend...just take it easy and my suggestion is just dont wrestle him at all but if he insists then win one and then let him win one. or something to that effect.
if you have anymore questions just write to my inbox again. im not sure if i answered like you wanted.
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can you hurt yourself if you crack your neck everyday? i went on a missions trip and got into a habit of doing it and i wanted to know if its a bad thing to do. (link)
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i hate it when people answer without not knowing the correct answer...the answer is yes..you do not see any outside effects of cracking your neck but inside your body feels it all.
i hurt my back and was going to a chiropractor everyday for a year!
he explained to me that i shouldnt crack my back or neck.
you have muscle tissue in between each of your discs in your spine. everytime you crack your neck it rubs those discs together and will eventually rub the tissue away. this is where the long time effects come in. it results in your discs rubbing together everytime you move and it will eventually shift your spine which will cause you neck and back problems when you are older. so if at all possible stop!!
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Joan and Betsy are coworkers, but not in the same office and they saw each other a total of three times spread out over in a year. Joan is 5 feet 6 inches and Betsey is 5 feet 1 inch. Any way they were talking and Betsey said "I cannot get clothes in Blondies because they come in people size like you". Joan (who is thin) changed the topic. They spoke about other things. And then Joan said: Betsey you are always saying you are short, how tall are you" Betsey said "5 feet one inch, I have to shop in the little people department." Joan told her friends the story and they said "All Betsey is saying is you are tall and she is short so she cannot buy clothes for tall people. MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK ALL BETSEY IS SAYING IS THAT SHE IS SHORT AND CANNOT SHOP IN TO MANY PLACES BECAUSE THEY ARE FOR TALL PEOPLE AND THAT IS ALL SHE IS SAYING?
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i really dont think joan is trying to be offensive. she is merely expressing her frustrations of not being able to shop anywhere because she is short...being short myself i see where she is coming from!
dont let this offend you and if it really does then ask *joan* if she meant it a different way
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Okay, to start it off I'm 14 and I am a female.
I have had depression before, when I was in eigth grade, and during the end of that year it went away. Well now that I am in ninth grade, I am depressed again. I've got ADHD and I take Adderall for it. I have no self confidence, I am shy, and I'm not happy. I USE to be very confident and outgoing. Right now I am balling my eyes out, and I have no idea. I am very close with God and I've prayed about this a couple times and so has my family. I am balling my eyes out right now and I have no idea. Someone please help me, I can't stand being like this anymore.
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first off...depression doesnt go away.
it fades when you go through a happier time in your life. therapy sounds like a drag but i promise you its an amazing thing...you can also improve your self esteem through therapy sessions. i have clinical depression because i was raped. those feelings were causing me to be depressed and hate myself. they did something called EMDR to me and it raised my self esteem without me realizing it. its sort of like hypnosis except you are conscious.
when you are depressed you lock your feelings in your nervous system. EMDR is Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. it unlocks your nervous system and allows you to process your depression. from there you do hand movements that stimulate your brain and cause you to become happier.
you should really talk to someone about attending an EMDR specialist. its amazing
i hope you go and make yourself happier
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So....I'm sort of in an online relationship (same country). And It's going downhill...since the guy says that he loves another girl who lives in another COUNTRY (yeah...I know -_-). So yeah. What is your advice on an online relationship? I'm a bit confused. I love him, very very very very much. But this whole online thing is SUCH a turn off.....It really is. And the girl that he likes...ugh...I'm GREEN with jealousy. And it's crushing me. :(....How can I rephrase this into a "I need advice" thing...hmmm......should I continue, until we meet up? (hoping he'll dump that other girl??) What are the pros and cons in an online relationship? ???
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i dated a guy who lived in california which is forever away from me. we met through a friend but only talked online...i can tell you one thing. the entire time he cheated on me and i had no clue bc i only saw him twice a year. my advice is dont bother with it. especially if he claims to be in love with someone else. i know what its like to be in love with someone but like the other. he'll always put her first if he loves her. you are wasting your time when there are other guys that are meant to be your soul mate.
i hope you work this out :)
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is it safe buying things online? Probably not but there's no good stuff where I live and they're all in the net and it's so tempting.. (link)
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i buy things off of ebay all the time and ive never been gyped..you always always always have to read everything on the page though. they put a lot of useless info in front of the important things to trick you. i cant emphasize enough the importance of reading everything
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How to flirt with a guy so good that they will change their mine about not dating you. (link)
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the point of flirting is to notify someone that you like them (subtly)
if he knows you like him and still doesnt like you then flirting more is just going to annoy him
as greg behrendt (the talk show host) says
"hes just not that into you"
so look for somebody else that is as much into you as you are to him.
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im not a huge girlie girl. i just like looking nice from time to time..so i like hco and a&f (hollister and abercrombie & fitch) but i have like 36cs for boobs and i was wondering..is it possible to wear their tank tops? like is there a certain way i can wear their tank tops without my boobs like busting out? haha thanks so much (link)
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i worked for hollister and i can tell you. i have 34b breasts and i have trouble wearing their tanks. i have found that the camis fit better for bigger breasted girls..especially the ones that cut down in a V line.
our clothing line is made for tall girls that are basically flat in both regions but hey im curvy and always find something...best of luck to you!!
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My ipod says its locked but its not! its like frozen ? and i can only turn it on by plugging it into my computer ! everything was fine! It has the locked button on the screen but nothing is wrong with it! And eventually it just turns off and i can't start it again,the battery is CHARGED. and when it is on,it doesn't let me move anywhere!! PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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mine did the same exact thing. i took it into the shop and they told me that they couldnt figure out what was wrong but that they couldnt even get me a new one...the only way that you will be able to listen to the songs on your ipod is if you let it die completely like for two days and then you turn it on and quickly plug it into the charger..it should then stay on until you turn off your computer or switch users..
contact me for further help if you need it
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Before I sign into myspace, it says Hi[whatever your display name is]! How do I get rid of that? (link)
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you cant get rid of it as far as i know...lately people have been hacking into computers and taking you to another page that looks like myspace login and you basically give them your email and password and then they post those stupid advertisement bulletins. so all in all tom did that so you can distinguish the real login page from the fake one :)
its actually for your own benefit
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I was with a group of friends at the pool. Then this guy from my group of friends kept swimming to wherever I went. I was wearing my swimming costume and I kind of felt that he was looking. When we were playing at the beach, he kept splashing water at me and when I wanted to splash back, he always held both of my hands together so that he was the only one who could splash me. Erm, is his behavior kind of ...sexual? I'm beginning to feel very uncomfortable and self conscious in front of him. (link)
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it isnt sexual behavior as much as it is just flirting. he obviously likes you and wants to show it. this is normal.
if you like him as well then you shouldnt feel self conscious or uncomfortable. but if you dont like him then dont flirt back or be near him. go swim with you friends and tell them that you dont like this guy so that if he comes around they can lead you off somewhere different. that way you arent being rude.
hope this helped
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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about a year now, and I wanted to spice things up. I was thinking about sex games. However, I'm kind of shy about asking him. Would a person who plays sex games tell me if theyre worth the risk of rejection? (link)
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i was in the same position..i talked to my guy about spicing things up and he said it was amazingly sexy that i was so open about wanted to do that stuff and talk about it. i guarentee you that he wont reject you. guys think its a major turn on. dont worry about it too much! if you are comfortable having sex with him then you shouldnt feel shy about introducing new things :)
good luck!
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My husband and I had anal sex for the first time this weekend which we have not done in a couple of years. When I had my kids I developed hemroids and have not been able to rid of them. After we had anal sex my rectum bled lightly for about 24 hours after, I did not have any discomfort at all and yes we used LOTS of lube. Does this mean we should stop having anal sex or is a little bit of bleeding okay? (link)
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this probably sounds weird coming from a 17 year old considering you are older..but yes..light bleeding is okay. especially if you havent done it in awhile. its just a little aggravated. if the bleeding persists or increases then you should be a little worried..
i hope this helped :)
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Hi I'm the same person who asked about my crushes birthday.. and well sorry if this is long but i'm just soo confused and you can proabaly guess that i'me 15/f anyways...
I met him on the phone because my crush is friends with my bff. so she kinda introduced us. (and i already check to make sures eh didn't like him)but then that week end i suggest that him me and my bff go see a movie so we did with 2 other friends of ours. well i sat next to him =] and we talked (personally i think we kinda flited) he bbought me a icee (but he said it was his mother money)so then that was basically that night.
and then the next week-end me and my bff were hangin out and we called him and i tired to get my bff to walk up to jack and the box where they were at and he tired to get his friend to walk over to diebegers (where me and my bff wehre at) but long story short i had my dad take me (and only me) to the school behind his house and me, my crush and his 2 frineds hung out for awhile. then that night me my bff and him talked on the phone for about and hour...next weekend i think i just talked to him on the phone for a little bit. and then last week i talked to him on the phone a little bit, but then usually when i talk to him on the phone his friends are there and him and his friends and my (and mybe my friends) call eachother and annoying all our friends. but the this weekend i called him at about 4 30 seeing if he wanted to go to a movie with me and my 2 friends but he said he didn't want to and that his friend didn't want to and that his ankel hurt. so basically he just didn't wanna go.
(err i'm sorry this is sooo long) so basically i tried to hang out with him but got pretty much rejected. and i never see him at school =/ and i only talk to him on the week-end if him and his friend are together. but i never call him other than that and we never really talk other than that. so i think i'm attacted to him but idk for sure and if i am i've tried to get to know him better and form a relationship but its just not happening. an di'm just lost with what to do. but i'm going to force myself to call him on the 10th..his b-day..and hopefully he won't be busy and him and i can talk =]
but yeah..anyways again i'm sooo sorry it was soo long and i'll take any adive you have for me becaue right now i have absoutly noo clue what to do (link)
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he sounds like hes giving mixed signals..lol confusing!!
dont give up though. if he flirted with you at all then it means that there still could be intrest and he just doesnt know how to handle liking someone. in this case because you dont know if he likes you. you dont wanna be too forceful with hanging out. so i think that merely calling him on his birthday is a good idea
be kind of flirty when you talk to him. say things like i had fun hanging out with you a few weekends ago.. if he says he had fun too and it sounds genuine then bring up hanging out again. if not then he probably just doesnt want anything more than a friendship.
and by the way..nothing is too long for me..lol
i know this isnt much help but its really just something that you have decide yourself...its whether you're willing to notify him of your intrest or not..i hope it turns out okay
please keep me updated with the situation
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I had sex a few days ago, and now I think I might have a urinary tract infection or something of that sort. Do the two go together or could this be something else? It burns a little when I pee, but nothing else seems to be wrong and I'm just worried. (link)
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i got a uti from having sex. it is not a big deal
you should pee before you have sex and immediately after..this will cleanse your vagina and prevent infection.
the sooner you get meds for this the better..it will get worse and could result in a kidney infection.
you have to go to your doctor and get a prescription medicine.
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in language we're finding allusions in songs. and im having a lot of trouble thinking of some. can anyone think of anyone good ones? thanks (link)
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Queen is a prominent group..if you look at the lyrics of bohemian rhapsody the lyrics clearly allude to entheogenic ego-death.
The group redemption has a christian singer that often alludes to both religion and sexual ambiguity
hope this helps you :)
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how can you tell when youre in love with someone or just in love with love? (link)
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being in love with love is common.
i thought i was in love with a past boyfriend and the only way i figured out that i was in love with the idea of love was the fact that when my ex would talk to me i would have intrest in him. i felt in love only when i was with him and never any other time...sure i would like him but i never really went out of my way for him.
being in love is the most amazing feeling ever and basically you'll do anything for the person no matter the circumstances..
i dont take cheating lightly but i know that the guy i was in love with could have cheated on me and i would have forgiven him..unlike if it happened with anyone else.
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If it gets confusing, I'm sorry. It shouldn't be too bad though.
There's this guy, we'll call him "Scott". I went out with "Scott" for about two years, then we broke up becauase of a lie. After the break up, we didn't talk. We basically hated eachother. That was in November of 2006.
Now, he has a girlfriend, and I still love him. He tells me he still loves me, too. [I'm guessing this goes with the whole 'You will always have feelings for your first love' type of thing] But I really still love "Scott". And I'm not too pleased with the way his current girlfriend is treating him. He deserves better.
I am best friends with one of his best friends. And he tells me all about "Scott". He told me, if I find a way to prove to him how much I truely love him before Valentine's Day, he'd give me another chance. Which is exactly what I need. I love him and I'd do anything for him.
So far, I already got him a Teddy Bear and a locket that says "You Hold The Key To My Heart." And I also wrote him a ten page paper about how much I love him. But, knowing "Scott", this won't be enough for him.
Any ideas of what I can buy or make for him? Money isn't an issue. I just really need to get this guy back..
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i know exactly how you feel!
i know that pictures mean a lot to me...they are filled with soooo many memories and happiness..so i say you enlarge a picture of the two of you and frame it.
this will flood his mind with happy memories :)
and its something that he will always keep to remind him of you.
you could also make a scrap book of memories..if you dont have a lot of pictures then put things like inside jokes.
nothing says i love you like home cooking..lol
cook him a nice dinner or bake him something.
i hope i helped a little
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