I was with a group of friends at the pool. Then this guy from my group of friends kept swimming to wherever I went. I was wearing my swimming costume and I kind of felt that he was looking. When we were playing at the beach, he kept splashing water at me and when I wanted to splash back, he always held both of my hands together so that he was the only one who could splash me. Erm, is his behavior kind of ...sexual? I'm beginning to feel very uncomfortable and self conscious in front of him.
kiran answered Thursday February 8 2007, 6:12 pm: Sounds like he might like you. He if he was following you and splashing you it sure sounds like it unless he is a big flirt and does it to every girl then thats different. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
leah87 answered Thursday February 8 2007, 6:11 pm: it isnt sexual behavior as much as it is just flirting. he obviously likes you and wants to show it. this is normal.
if you like him as well then you shouldnt feel self conscious or uncomfortable. but if you dont like him then dont flirt back or be near him. go swim with you friends and tell them that you dont like this guy so that if he comes around they can lead you off somewhere different. that way you arent being rude.
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