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Online relationships?
15/f
So....I'm sort of in an online relationship (same country). And It's going downhill...since the guy says that he loves another girl who lives in another COUNTRY (yeah...I know -_-). So yeah. What is your advice on an online relationship? I'm a bit confused. I love him, very very very very much. But this whole online thing is SUCH a turn off.....It really is. And the girl that he likes...ugh...I'm GREEN with jealousy. And it's crushing me. :(....How can I rephrase this into a "I need advice" thing...hmmm......should I continue, until we meet up? (hoping he'll dump that other girl??) What are the pros and cons in an online relationship? ???
=] Thanks.
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i dated a guy who lived in california which is forever away from me. we met through a friend but only talked online...i can tell you one thing. the entire time he cheated on me and i had no clue bc i only saw him twice a year. my advice is dont bother with it. especially if he claims to be in love with someone else. i know what its like to be in love with someone but like the other. he'll always put her first if he loves her. you are wasting your time when there are other guys that are meant to be your soul mate.
i hope you work this out :)
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PLEASE dont waste your time. It isnt worth it. If he think he loves her let him think that and when he sees that he will never have her he is gonna feel stupid that he even thought it in the first place.
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Don't want to burst your bubble...but online relationships aren't really the cherry on my vanilla sundae (if you get what i mean). Online relationships are really weird and strange...and sometimes the person is nothing like what you expected. I know this guy who I liked on the internet and when I met him (through mutual friendS) he's ugly and reallly weird and scary.
Anyway apart from that there aren't too many pros. One of the pros is you get to communicate alot (if you're online alot). you can get to know the person inside and out. Cons are like : The person might not be what you expect; the person might not be who you expect; the person might just use you. I guess you get the point and I'm sure you'll make the write decisions.
On the question of if the continue the relationship..well that's something you and him will have to figure out. Is your love the 'real deal' or just infatuation. Is there something that may trigger a break up in the future? Are you sure he really loves her...or does he love you.
These things you have to weigh in when making this crucial and tough decision...
Good luck in everything
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