My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
Website: MySpace
E-mail: lyndsey.white@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Lexington, South Carolina
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: galelvr66
Yahoo: deviant_queen
Member Since: April 5, 2007
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If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change? (link)
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1.) I would go back to when I got sick in March and AS SOON as I was better, I would've started working out again. I haven't ran since March and I feel awful about it. I just can't get myself motivated to get it going again.
2.) I would go back to a couple of weeks ago when my boyfriend left for California, didn't call me for a week, and eventually started dating another girl. I DID break up with him, but if I could go back I'd do it sooner instead of making an absolute fool out of myself by waiting for him to tell me the truth.
3.) I would go back to a couple days ago and make a bigger effort to flirt with this guy I work with that likes me. We're both shy, so it would've been pretty cool to have the confidence to flirt with him.
Nothing BIG, but just a few things that would make me happier right about now. If I have to choose just ONE, I'd pick #3. :]
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ohkayy well i wanna find a really cute song for my myspace.
ive had
-beautiful girls
-the potential break up song
-summer love
probally a girl singer. anyone have any ideas?
thanks =] (link)
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Big Girls Don't Cry by Fergie
U and Ur Hand by Pink
I'm Over It by Katherine McPhee
Irreplaceable by Beyonce
Hope you like at least one of those. :]
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i want to be really skinny, and nothing will work! so i decided to be anorexic, how do i become anorexic? like, how do i start, i know that ussually it an illness but it just seems easey! please help! :D (link)
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No one in their right mind on this site is going to tell you HOW to be anorexic. It isn't something you TRY to be, it is an MENTAL ILLNESS. You can't just give yourself a mental illness.
Anorexia is NOT good. It's extremely unhealthy and has side effects beyond belief. First of all, no guy wants a girl that's stick thin...it just looks gross. No one wants to see your bones. You should want to be healthy, not sick.
Anorexia causes you to grow lanugo, which is a thin layer of hair, all over your body! It also causes liver damage and effects most of your other organs as well. You can stop having a period and a lot of anorexic people become infertile and can never have children. You can start losing your hair and your immune system will be completely shot and you'll be more prone to infections and illnesses.
Even if you could just CHOOSE to be anorexic, you're wrong in thinking it's easy. You think starving yourself is easy? No way.
And by the way, malnutrition is another effect of anorexia. One of the effects of malnutrition is a bloated stomach...so you won't be stick thin for long.
Be smart, you can't really expect people to TELL you how to be anorexic. Get real. Do what everyone else does. Diet and exercise. There's no easy way to lose weight. And my guess is that you're not even close to overweight.
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i want a beetle (17 yrs old) but would it be impractical? (link)
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My best friend is 17 and has a beetle. I don't see how it would be impractical. It's compact, has great gas mileage, and is easy to handle. My friend has had it for about two years and loves her little bug.
I think it's a pretty good choice for a car personally.
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Im 16 and my dad died when i was 8 and my mom recently got married to a guy who used to be in the army. I have two sister and now i have 3 step brothers. He is like way strict and his kids are like perfect angels but me and my sisters have never really been raised that strict and for lack of better words are pretty wild. my mom never really punished us for things( ive never been grounded and ive never had a curfew and my mom knows and stilll doesnt care that my sisters and i are big partiers) and now this guy is trying to control us and take over our lives. What should i do? (link)
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Well, your mother is married to this guy. So, technically, he is your father figure. That means that you have to respect him.
I'm not saying change your entire life, but maybe take his rules into perspective. Ask yourself this: should a 16 year old really be partying with no curfew? Well, if you ask me, the answer is no.
I know this is annoying to hear, but coming from a 17 year old, someone close to your age, maybe you'll see that there's truth in it. A lot of bad things happen to young naive girls who go party all the time. No matter how mature or smart you think you are, things happen. Maybe it's good that your step father is more protective than your mother. That just means he cares about your wellbeing.
From what I read, your mother sounds TOO lenient. Parents are supposed to give their children curfews and actually care that their teenage daughter is partying all the time. That's just a good parent right there.
Just put yourself in your dad's shoes and try to understand where he's coming from. Hopefully he'll understand that you need SOME freedom and it may be hard for you to change because you've been living this way for so long and you don't know anything different. If you understand each other and communicate with each other about your problem, maybe you can reach some middle ground and you can both be happy.
I hope this helps you out a little or at least makes you think. :]
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what is Trainwreck Syndrome? (link)
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I googled it and found this:
"Ever clicked on something that made you go, "WHY did I do that?"
Ever seen something that made you go, "Oh, that's got to be VILE!" and yet click on it anyway?
Even worse, do you ACTIVELY SEEK OUT things to destroy your mind like this?"
Apparently if you fit into those categories and answer yes to them, you may have Train Wreck Syndrome. I couldn't find anything else about it though.
People with train wreck syndrome are people who, despite being conscious of the risks they take of mentally and emotionally scarring themselves, still can't help but go and look at the material in question.
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is there a way to improve memory? (link)
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http://www.wikihow.com/Improve-Your-Memory
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sorry if this is really long! ok so im 14 and going to be a freshman in high school. i've liked this one kid for a while, and the past week i thought i finally had a chance. we were at a party and hung out and danced together the entire night. when i had to leave he got said and told me he didnt want me to leave and hugged me. but theres this other girl that he likes, and she likes him too. they were at a different party, and hooked up. but this girl is going to sleep away camp for 6 weeks tomorrow. all my friends are saying he will get over her and start to like me, but i cant bring myself to believe them. he even sends me text messages that talk about how much fun he had at the party with me and how mad he was when i had to leave. all the signs are there, but he likes another girl. i need advice from someone that isn't my friend because sometimes they can say things to just be nice. so like- what do i do!? wait and see what happens this summer, or just get over him!? (link)
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Wow, this is quite the predicament. Well, it IS possible to like two people at the same time. Definitely. And it does sound like he's into you. One question you have to ask is this: is he a player? If he were to start to date you, do you think he'd pursue her again when she gets back from camp? That's a big question, and it's very important. If you don't know him very well, it's kind of an impossible question to ask. Do you know why he broke up with his past girlfriends?
As for your question, if you really like him, I'd say you should pursue him. What can it hurt? Just play it cool and hang out with him some more to feel him out. Flirt with him, let him know you're interested. If he becomes MORE interested in you than this other girl, her absence could definitely make the thought of her disappear and all of his attention will be on you.
You're only 14, so just have fun with it. Don't get too involved too quickly, because that's how people get hurt. Just don't make it out to be more than what it is.
I hope this helped you out some!
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I want to gain weight. I'll even take fat.. Any tips? No, I can't just pig out on junk food. It is unhealthy and it does not work because of my high metabolism. Is there certain foods to guarantee weight gain or some pills to take?
I don't really want muscle. I'm kinda bony. I'm 16. 5 feet and I weigh about 85 pounds. i never had an eating disorder. I really want to fill in my curves more. My hips are bony and blah. I really want to feel more confidence in myself.
I can't go see my doctor because she's booked for a while now. I really want to do something over the summer. Help please? (link)
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Increasing your intake of junk foods and greasy foods is not a good way to gain weight. Junk foods usually contain unhealthy trans fats or saturated fats. Even though you need to increase your calorie consumption to gain weight, those calories should come from foods that are good for you. Healthy fats include omega-3 essential fatty acids sources like tuna, salmon, flax, and walnuts. Good sources of protein include lean meats, fish, poultry, nuts, seeds and legumes. Healthy carbohydrate sources include fruits, vegetables and whole grains.
It may be easier to eat five or six smaller balanced meals per day rather than eating three large meals, especially if you are not used to eating much at one sitting. Protein powders and nutritional supplement drinks such as Ensure can be added as in-between meal snacks if you still need more calories. Some protein powders are flavored and only need added water and some others can be blended with your choice of juice or milk to improve the taste. It would be a healthy idea to add a small amount of flax seed oil and some psyllium powder to add some omega-3 essential fatty acids and extra fiber.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/healthy_living/your_weight/reaching_gain.shtml
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1. can you get stds from a guy if you give him a bj and hes a virgin and hes never done anything sexual with any other girl besides you?
2. also can you get hpv from giving a bj (b/c i know that some guys are born with it)?
3. andd i know that hpv causes cervical cancer.. but is that only if you have sex or can you get cervical cancer from getting hpv through giving a bj???
thanks!! xo (link)
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For the most part,you can't get an STD from a virgin who has never had sexual contact by giving him oral sex. However, yes, HPV is spread primarily through genital, ORAL, and anal sexual contact. I also know that oral sex has been linked to mouth cancer.
One way to be safe, even if he is a virgin, is to use a condom. Yes, even during oral sex. It's the safest thing to do. Try flavored condoms so you don't get a mouth full of that nasty rubber taste. And make sure you get the ultra thin ones, because condoms cut down on sexual stimulation to the penis, so the thinner the condom, the better.
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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?
14/f. (link)
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That would be horny, turned on, aroused, excited, lustful, etc. You may get wet...that confirms your arousal.
As for an orgasm, it's pretty impossible to have an orgasm without having sex or masturbating. That's not what's going on with you. If you WANT to have an orgasm, you're probably going to have to experiment with masturbating.
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how do i get in contact with my friends cuz i want to hang out with them over hte summer.
but they are never online anymore!
what do i do? (im not a phone person at all) (link)
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I'm not a phone person either, but if they're never online, that's pretty much the only way to contact them. Just call and be like "Hey, we should hang out soon". It shouldn't be awkward if they're your friends.
Also, if they have MySpaces, message them telling them you guys should hang out. If they log in even for a second, they'll read it. You don't have to wait to be online at the same time. Just leave a message or comment...or even an email.
The only other thing I can think of is to go to their house and talk to them in person...but that's not really polite unless you call first.
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does any one know of a good website fot myspace layouts... I have gone to whateverlife.com and pimpyourprofile.com but... I cant find any more GOOD ones! someone help!
Thankss (link)
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http://www.tennayalayouts.com/tennaya.php
http://www.elusivemoon.com/
http://www.codemylayout.com/
http://www.zad.new-revolutions.com/stocks.php
Another idea is to look for people who post their layouts on MySpace. For example, to start you off, you could go to http://www.myspace.com/simple_layouts_lyts, add them, and once they add you back you can
1) Check out their layouts
2) Go to their top 8 and there are some more layout MySpaces there too.
Good luck!
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i need a new song for my myspace. im so sick of the one i have now. does anyone have any good ideas for a new song? (link)
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**EDIT: No one likes ALL music. Ok, give me a second and I'll give you some John Denver songs and maybe a few polka hits. How's that for ya? The TRUTH I gave you below definitely doesn't deserve a 1. How about this...look at your friends' pages to get ideas. Or here's another idea: turn on the damn radio!
Well it would help to know:
1) What is your current song?
2) What style/genre of music do you listen to?
Mods don't like it when you just ask for music. And it's even worse if you aren't specific. I mean, if I came on here and said "What should I put as my MySpace song?" and people gave me a bunch of hardcore metal songs, it wouldn't accomplish anything because I don't like that type of music.
If you want to add additional info to your post telling what type of music you listen to, I'll edit this answer with actual songs.
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how old were you when you lost your virginity? and how far along were you into a relationship if you were into one? also when do you think is okay to lose it? thanks! (link)
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Well I'm 17 and I haven't lost my virginity yet. It's a personal choice...and a good one at that. I'm glad I'm still a virgin. It's not like I'm one of those people who are waiting for marriage, but I am waiting for a time that I won't regret in the future.
If you lose your virginity between 13-16, you will most likely regret it. Most do. High school relationships hardly go well, and most high school boys just want to get in your pants anyways. And after they do, they're onto their next conquest.
You have to wait until you're ABSOLUTELY ready and make sure you KNOW the person...very well. You don't want to get screwed over and forever regret doing it in that way.
Obviously if you're asking this question you aren't 100% sure you're ready. Don't do it until you know you're ready.
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how old do you have to be to go to a hookah bar and use it and all that? and also how do you use it? (link)
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EDIT: Ah, never mind then. I'm just used to seeing people on this site that can't spell to save their lives. Sorry bout that.
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my name is michelle 14 years old.
i'm interested a little within this boy named rick.
he is "interested" in me too, but we are good friends.
rick asked me to send him "sexy pics"
but i am not like that!
what's a good way of saying no so that he doesn't think i'm prude/mean/ or not interested in him anymore?
i just want a quick thing to say to him, nothing stupid or long. (link)
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Maybe something playful like "Haha, you wish" or "Hm, maybe later".
On the other hand, no 14 year old boy should be asking for naked pics of you. That's just wrong. If you don't want to do it, you should just say no, and if he stops talking to you, he was only into you because he wanted to see you naked.
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Im a lesbain and for 5 years i have been trying to find someone in my area for sexual realations is this wrong? (link)
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No, having a sexual appetite is nothing to be ashamed of. Sex is a natural thing, and all people either 1) think about it, 2) do it, or 3) want to do it. Don't worry about it. It's completely normal to want to have sex.
I don't know how old you are, but if you're over 18, go to gay bars and clubs. You'll find someone. Just be safe. Just because you're looking for girls doesn't mean you can't get an STD. Be safe and use common sense when you party.
Good luck. :)
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Fourteen years old; Four foot, eleven; about ninety eight pounds. Fat?
I'd lost my appetite while at this college thing, because I got really depressed, and I just got it back, so I'm feeling fat, because I could hardly eat before, but no I'm pigging out.
I'm tempted to go on a major work out spree tonight, so I'd like to know. Haha. (link)
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No, not at all. Your bmi is just a little above 19, which is totally normal.
Don't go on work out sprees and don't skip meals. Eat healthy and exercise on a regular basis, 3-5 days a week, and you'll be fine.
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don't tell me to use google or letssingit.com
just starting off by telling you :]
any one know this song
"I'll be thinking about tomorrow. And every time we cross those lines. You've got that seed in you. You've got that scene in. I hope now, as I walk away, you're the one that finds me out."
thnkkkk (link)
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It's Seed by The Academy is...
Here are the rest of the lyrics:
http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Seed-lyrics-The-Academy-Is/75E34E80250B7B154825729A00245148
Guess how I found it? Google, not even one minute. The only reason to ask someone NOT to tell you to use Google is if you already have and didn't find it...which you obviously didn't take the time to do.
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