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friend failure


Question Posted Saturday June 23 2007, 4:40 pm

how do i get in contact with my friends cuz i want to hang out with them over hte summer.
but they are never online anymore!
what do i do? (im not a phone person at all)


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babyitsyouxo answered Sunday June 24 2007, 10:36 am:
I'd just text them, thats what I do because I'm not a big phone person either.

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viciousxpunk answered Saturday June 23 2007, 7:36 pm:
well if you dont like talking on the phone, you could always get a text plan on your phone, which is the same as aim basically. but besides that if you dont like talking on the phone the only other way to stay in contact would be by sending emails or writing letters. good luck!

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Floridagirl1821 answered Saturday June 23 2007, 5:43 pm:
Well if they have a myspace, xanga, etc. you can leave them a comment or message.

Or send them a text message or if they dont do that just pick up the phone and be like "Hey, havent heard from you in awhile. We should hang out soon".

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emilyy answered Saturday June 23 2007, 5:29 pm:
You have a couple of options here, all you need to do is choose the one that`s best for you.

The most fun option is to do it through the mail. Send out pretty invitations and invite your friends over or out for lunch. Have a big get together that everyone will enjoy!

You could try emailing or messaging them and seeing what they are doing for the summer and if they would like to hang out.

If you do not want to try either of these you may need to pick up the phone. Call at a time when you know they will be away, and leave a message saying that you should hang out sometime.

You could always call the friend which you`re most comfortable talking to on the phone, and ask them to invite other people to hang out with the two of you.

If you can do it even once, then when you are hanging out you have the option to say "Wow, this has been fun we should do it again!" and set up even more plans.

Good luck, hopefully one of these options works out for you! =)

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lbwhite89 answered Saturday June 23 2007, 5:13 pm:
I'm not a phone person either, but if they're never online, that's pretty much the only way to contact them. Just call and be like "Hey, we should hang out soon". It shouldn't be awkward if they're your friends.

Also, if they have MySpaces, message them telling them you guys should hang out. If they log in even for a second, they'll read it. You don't have to wait to be online at the same time. Just leave a message or comment...or even an email.

The only other thing I can think of is to go to their house and talk to them in person...but that's not really polite unless you call first.

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