ok the both of you must be going through a very tuff time it has probably really effected her causing her moods swings and stuff honestly this is up to you because i am sure if you do leave her you will still see your child.i think you should reexamine the situation in the past you and your wife were happy?do you enjoy her company?can you actaully see you and this other woman in along term relationship? have you cheated on your wife if you have that must tell you how much you love her.i think that since you have alredy been with your wife for 13 yrs you should trie to work it out in every marriage things get tough but that doesnt mean you can quit try counseling tell her how you feel. it is up to dont worry about the baby most kids grow up in a divorced home and grow up fine




i really do hope my advice was good probably not as good as some of the others but it was worth a try good luck

i am soooooooooooooo sorrry for your lose

~nikki~
lalagurly

tell me how it goes

ok well that is totally up to guys if you guys still have stuff in common than why not? if you still enjoy her company and stuff than ya but after you guys try being friends again you may realise you guys have grown up and are totall opissites but i say go for it!!

tell me how it goes ok?
~nikki~
lalagurly

ok well healing always takes time right and so its been 3 weeks send her an email tell her you are sorry and that wat u said was out of anger send her lots of emails and stuff but also realise you could of really hurt her and so you may have to deal with the fact it will never be the same but talk to your other friends tell them wat your afraid of i am sure they wouldnt do that and if they do then they are not friends at all so just dont worry every thing will probably work out

tell me how it goes
~nikki~
lalagurly

try talking to your friend tell her how you feel if you feel uncomfortable talking to her email her or write a letter maybe she will tell them her self tell her that she is putting you in a horrible postionand this is really starting to effect you,make sure to tell her how good of a friend she is and how you dont want to loose her over this but you cant lie any more if she gets mad say sorry but it wont be so bad maybe you could just tell them the pet just died like yesterday talk to her about it though you guys will be able to work it out
tell me how it goes bye


~nikki~
lalagurly

i cut for awhile but then i realised how it doesnt really help any it just makes you feel in control i realised there is other ways to do that hunny cutting is a pain am i right or wat?like you have to make sure that no one sees it and it stians your clothes if it bleeds and if someone accidently hits o my god does it hurt.problems are always going to occur and so like me you need to trie to find another way to fix it i write poetry listens to music and some times cry.you said you are pregnant i dont know if you are ceeping it but you are lucky you get to bring another life into this world i know that you wont want the baby to do that because you love and care about your mom wont want you to in less than a month you get to leave your dad and your brother behind and so then atleast one stress will be taken away talk to yourself i kno w that sounds lound lame but it may help just to get it in words or start a journal and write it all down it may help your boy friend loves you so much and that means he will be willing to help you get over your problem you couldtry to do something wheen ever you want to call someone do something i hope i helped and also you could think like think of your life as a soap opera and laugh about it or always think someone has worse than i do


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~nikki~
aka lalagurly

well first of all your friend shouldnt be spreading stuff about him and he shouldnt be spreading stuff about her tell them both that you appreciate their freindship but if they dont learn to get along than it wont work out for any of you. next you have to decide if the reason you dump him all the time is really because you dont have that type of feelings for him but maybe you cant handle saying no or if you truly do love him than ignore your friend and let things be if she says any thing else confront him first or ask some one if they have heard him saying or doing


tell me how it goes ok?

hope maybe i helped!!!

probably the lake house click is sopposed to be comedy type of thing and i heard it was stupid

ok well first you have to decide is he sweet in boyfreind or freind way and if you could live without him then you need to remember that it is your decision not your freinds so just think about it ask your self do i think about him alot and if yes is it negative if you still cant decide go on a break see if you are happier with out him

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no dont forget well atleast not yet try talking to him on my space and stuff but dont like get all obbessed because you dont no him all that well mention him to your cousin make him no thathe has no right to be angry and also ask him for the guys phone dontit will work aslong as you dont get to obbessed trust me i no lol

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i no it can be hard when your pearents are divorced mine are too stuff like this always happens and i always stress out and cant concentrate on any thing try telling both your pearents that they need to make sacrifices for you and you understand they are busy but maybe you can help your mom cook some food ahead of time so she has time or she can store buy some but mainly just remember not to stress live lifeand it will all work out if you have any other family problems you can ask me i have probably been through it to ps my name is nicole

just smile and ask them qustions like is that your toy where did you get it i like that toy do you or how old are you it makes them feel specail you care

Hawk Nelson is awesome go to there web site www.hawknelson.com

landon is one guy do u want to devote the rest of your life to him......i dont think so he has good qualities but other guys do to try talking to other guys seeing wat types and let landon be he wont like being hastled

k it will sound weird but trie it thrift stores like the goodwill they have some cool things and trie www.wakeupfrankie.com

prayer you need to make it clear to them they arent truly gone they are in a peaceful place with everything they love they are looking down and protecting them. they will be reunited when that time comes it will be great but untill them make them proud be the best u can be.make sure your freind truely knows you care be there always lagh if it seem apropriate laughter will help i gaurentee but dont trie to relate you dont no what she is going through so dont make it seem like you do

ok well i would love to help but i dont understand try to slow down and type it again but i wanna help so try again please

unless u have had sex dont worry sometimes i wont get mine for like 2 months

i dont think it overdoses but it could result inyour heart speeding up to much.you should not be takeing that any way

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