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okay well my name is Kimberly a future model therapist here!!! i love helping people with there problems or helping them solve there own problems. i am 14 an i live in california
shopping is my life, and when i dont have a alptop i just get on the internet through my sidekick 3 when i am in the car driving to somewhere fab lol.i have long wavy surfer kind of girl red sorta brownish hair. i a skateboard, surf, playsoccer, run track, and im on the swim team. i love abercrombie and fitch, hollister is okay along with american eagle. love old navy's pjs and aeropastles pj's!!! pac suns clothes are awesome(volcom baby)love oversized sunglasses an ripped jeans. i hang out with guys and girls and have a crush on one of my guy friend -winkwink- lol i am very outgoing an random
peace out!!!
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what is a best friend? is it a person who stabs you in the back? secretly talks about you? or even hookup with your crush behind your back? hm i dont think so. I thought i had a best friend....what do i do? (link)
Dump her!! Find another bff!! don't wait for her to dump you!!


Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say! (link)
first you should get him to notice you, like saying hi to him in the halls, but not show him like you like him and then just take it from there!!

~kim~


My friend whos a guy, lets call him nick!
His uncle commited suicide and his grandma just died a week or two ago. I feel tereble and need something to say to him when he has his moments. I also really like him and he kind of likes me but not enough to go out...yett so help me? with things to say to himm && hurry. I could use all the possible feedback I can get. Im afraid hes going to loose it and do the same or run away (link)
say, something like, if you ever want to run away, just come to my house and we can talk about it. I hope my advice works.


ok well im a f/14
yes im 5'1 an way 120
i don't look fat well i have some meat but im not like a sumo restler
but when i turn 16 i'm going to star modeling because that is my dream ya know . anyway i want to get skinnier
does anyone have any tips
i tried starving myself for a week and when i felt i was going to faint i ate a cheese cube (yes i know crazy but im desperate) any help?? (link)
Dont' starve yourself!!! Just eat healthy and excersie!!

~Kimblery~


okay lets call my crush/bestfriend/derek "A" and lets say me the crusher/badgirl/kimberly is "B"
okay well b really likes a along with everyone else in the school. well i am his only real female friend(i talk to him on the phone alot do projects with him he invites to pool party's etc.) ok but a has a girlfriend and he tends to lead alot of girls on ALOT escpecially me like he would say hey wanna go make out and im like ew gross but really i would love too!!! ya know so yeah. b likes a alot an wants to tell a but is afriad of teh outcome....
help is needed!!!! (link)
Well, sorry Kimbergal, I didn't mean to be a badgirl, and i didn't call anybody dumbo!! I can't believe you!! OH yah and i am not a badgirl. You put my name on there!! I am really mad at you!! Although I didn't see when you wrote this, but i know it was soon because i just told you this, and check your spelling!!

~Badgirl~(or Kimberly):(


Calling someone a dumbo who do you think you are? That is very rude and disrespectful. (link)
i am very sorry my friend try'd answering your question i am very sorry


What's a good energy fixer-upper besides coffee and things like that??

[[ thanks ]] (link)
laughing, ddr, toothpaste, invite a friend over(unless your a social reject), dance, talk, be hyper, have a pretend party pretend like your inviting barney and stuff, go outside, play with annoying neighbor, annoy your parents, fight with your sister if you have one, drink red bull, watch music videos and dance, sing, be an absolute retard, just fun things and that came from the heart man. listen to music and more but im getting tired of typing


what does it mean when a guy says "id tap that" (link)
it means he wants to smack your ass dumbo


ok so, i sorta have a big nose. it's not HUGE! but it's not small or anything. so i was just wondering if there was anything to do that would sort of make my nose seem less notciable, like for example, a hairstyle or something?? my hair is naturally curly and thick, and i wear it down like that, and i also straiten it. it just has layers and angles. so yeah =] thanks in advance! (link)
get plastic surgery i know it is weird but do it and you're desperate so do it i mean you're asking people on the internet you dont know and if you dont have enough money for plastic surgery i feel bad for your nose


ok so when you search on google, you can choose previous searches from the drop down menu. how do you make it dissapear. like for the search engine not to remember what you searched for, so it wont appear in the drop down menu.




example: say i frequently search "cats" in google. when i type in a "c" everything that starts with that letter that i search for shows up. how do i make it disapear? (link)
if you have the new updated tool bar click clear history at the bottom i mean its big and you can see it obviously so..random weirdo


okay, i'm waayyy overthinking this but i was just sitting and i looked at the question titled: bearshare and that somehow led to bear hugs and i thought "what exactly are bear hugs.."

haha so what are they and how do i get one from guys deviously lol (link)
bear hugs are the things the teletubbies do and they are kind of like BIG warm friendly hugs


Hey guys I'm 15 and my name is Jackie. There is this guy that I simply can NOT get over. I've alould myself to get hurt. Everytime I begin to sorta get over him, he says something sweet or flirty that gets me to fall for him all over. My head knows he doesn't like me, but my heart keeps getting tricked into thinking that he likes me. so anyway. I need some tips for getting over him.

thanks
xoxo (link)
okay,
just go straight out an tell him dude have a face to face conversation an say, "do you like me or not becausse im tired of you flirting eith me and stuff an i keep falling for you, i mean i dont know if you feel the same way or anything so please tell me if im not alone here dude like please"
i mean if ur to shy write a card or aim him or whatevere you hips teens do these days,
yeah hope my advice was better then anyone elses


ok....well...i have these bumps on my breast... well on the part (i cant think of the name for it right now!) my nipple or whatever... its been there for like a year... Does anyone know what it is?? (link)
you really ned to see a doctor, it might be breast cancer or something.. I don't want to scare you though.. sorry


16, female :)

im sooo confused and sort of...hurt..
you see there is this very adorable, sweet, athletic, everything i look for in a guy BUT he has a girlfriend. ive had a thing for him for about 6,7 months now. we hangout occassionally..but never alone..only with my cousins because there good friends with him and thats their neighbor haha. anyways before him and his girlfriend were together we would flirt NONSTOP i mean i loved it haha who wouldnt? this was in the summer and i know that we're both attracted to each other. but he doesnt know i like him. anyways..now that he has a girlfriend of about 6 months soon it makes me so sad to know he loves her and not me.. i mean shes really pretty and i didnt even think they were going to last thing long but there going strong..the thing is everytime that we hangout we still kinda flirt. when im not with him, im thinking about him..like tonight we went to his hockey game..his school played my school and after me my cousins and my friends left and then he texted me a bit after and was like hey what are you guys doing ..wanna go out? and i started smiling. so we all hungout and we went out to eat and my cousin was driving and i was like i get FRONT and hes like ahh nahhh. so we were like at the car and he was like holding me and touching me saying that i couldnt get it and then hes like alright..i'll open the door for you so he opened it for me to get in :) and same on the way home! haha but in the back seat he kept touching my hair and then he was like soo you got any guys you goin for? no boys in your life? and im like nope :( i mean my cousins had to go give their friend something so it was me and him in the car but it was kinda weird..i didnt know what to say! usually i do its weird though. but i cant go through it anymore i hate feeling so sad about him having a girlfriend. i just keep waiting for them to break up or something but then NOPE..6 months later..i can definately see something of us if they were to break up but i just dont know. i try and tell myself to get over him but i love being by him, and then i gave him a hug because i accidently "hurt" him and it was the best feeling. but i cant just give him a hug goodbye because i feel weird. asking for one?! this quote defines me the BEST .. "and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else.." and its true. no guy compares to him. what should i do? even when i dont hangout with him for like 3,4 weeks i STILL think about him and wanting to see him. i dont even know if i'll see him again this break..what do you think i should do? and telling him i like him is something im not going to do because i think he might have the hint but if he doesnt i dont wanna make things awkward. anyways im just so lost its like i like the kid but then i hate him..i wanna get over him and see him as JUST A FRIEND..but then i dont. i think hes just one of those guys that you'll always have a thing for. and the thing is that he only flirts with him i notice..like when its me and other girls and him he wont flirt with them and stuff...i just DONT KNOW?! what should i do (link)
You should just ask him to hang out with him, like friends then just take it from there...


im 13. i think i have endometriosis. my period hasnt gone away for 2 or 3 months now. i got pain in my lower back. and my period has gotten really heavy. i havent told anybody but my best friend. im not sure if i got it or not. but im kind of ambarrased to tell my mom and go to the doctors and stuff. im to scared. ive never thought of me as a wuss. but i dont want to be diagnosed with it cuz then i no it will never go away. help me get through this plz. all i need are some answers. (link)
Maybe instead you could write your mom a leter telling her what is going on and your mom could call the doctor.


When i walk around someimtes my leg starts to hurt. like from right undr my butt to right under my knee. sometimes it hurts so bad i cant stand to walk.

when i was little i had surgery on my leg ((the left one the one i talked about)). somethin came out of place but when i was little i just woke up and couldnt move my leg but now my leg just starts to hurt at random times.
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You should see a doctor when you can. Ask your mom to make an appointment.


im in 8th grade.
everybody has a fav. teacher in every grade. but the teacher i think is my fav. i thik i might be a lill obsessed over. i see her as a friend but still as a teacher i tell her almost everything, and sometimes she interested and nice to me and some other days she wont listen to me and tell me im annoying. and once she told me that if she looked at me for too long she would throw up. and im not ugly and she said it in front of the whole class.

i totally see her more as a friend or like an aunt or sumthing.
since she told me i was annoying and insulted should i just leave her alone and treat her like anyother teacher?? it will be like losing a friend thow. (link)
maybe you should write her about it or figure out a time to talk. hopes that helps!! If it doesn't then I am reall really sorry.


what is a "butterface" ? Ive heard a guy refer to a girl in my school as one. He said she had a nice body but a butterface..what does that mean?? (link)
I think it might mean that their face looks kindof greasy?? I am not sure though?? Sorry i fI couldn't help you.


Everytime I go to Carson's house [My boyfriend] I'm really bored. His little brother always watches some G rated movie with us, and his parents always cook some nasty food. I hate eating at their house because all they eat is seafood, and thats the one thing I hate more then anything else. How can I get him to stop inviting me over? I'm all out of excuses, and his parent's won't let him at my house. (link)
Maybe you could make dinner for him. That way you get what you would like and it sounds nice. If you don't know how to cook then I am really sorry, but I cannot help you. Sorry if I couldn't help you.Hope you like my advice if you can cook.


ok i need quick finger desserts for around 30 teenagers by tommorow night and i dont know what to do. help please (link)
You should make brownies.




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