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If you put a white rose in a glass of water with purple food dye, would you get a purple rose in a few days? Would it die more quickly because it has dye and all? (link)
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yes, it will change the color, not of the entire petal, but of the vein type lookin things in the petals. it wont die any sooner and it has a very pretty effect. matter of fact heres the experiment in detail. http://www.madsci.org/experiments/archive/887562625.Bi.html
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alright a while ago i was basicly raped and forst to give oral sex.. I went to get tested for stds and everything and they said if I get cold sores to come back for herpes testing.. well I have like dry spots on the edge of my mouth but i dont think its herpes! its just lik a lil cuts on the edge of my mouth but i dont think i have any stds..
what do you think? (link)
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well, i think you should keep an eye on your lips, try some blistex in case thier just chapped an dry.if they do turn into cold sores get tested immeidiately. i dont know if you have or not but if not i think you should really get the police involved. i know you might not want to, but if you dont it could and probably will happen to someone else, if not you. (in case you know him) i also hope youve found someone (counselor type) to talk to, to help deal with the emotional issues involved. im so very sorry you had to go thru this. please dont be ashamed of it, or afraid to tell. just remember its not your fault.if you need to talk call the national
sexual assault hotline at 1-800-656-hope(4673) its
a free call completely confidential, and open 24/7.
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its gotten tot he point where I feel so low about myself I could crawl into my bed and never come out. I want to be with someone that makes me feel special.. Why cant i find that guy?
Ive never had a bf treat me good and for a long time now i havent had a bf.
Im a normal girl and I know im not realllly ugly.. I actualy sometimes think im pretty..
I have talents and yes I have flaws. But i think id be a really good girlfriend.
what can I do? (link)
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stop looking. seriously when you stop looking for the right guy an just focus on having fun and being happy,without a boyfriend, i swear boys just start crawling out of the woodwork like termites. i think they know when your happy with yourself an thats what attracts decent guys. you also have to remember if you give off the vibe that your desperate or want someone to like you it seems the only boys to respond are lil punks just tryin to get your goodies. guys really are attracted to the strong happy and independant girls that seem to not need them. go figure.
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my friend that i like a lot as more than a friend used to work at the same place with me but he quit to go to the military to get his GED or something... i really miss him and i dont even know if i will see him again.... what should i do becuz i really wanna talk to him but i dont kno how to reach him && i keep having dreams about him and it doesnt make me feel any better.... what should i do? (link)
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if hes in basic he can only recieve letters, get the addy from his parents. if hes in AIT, hes only allowed to call out once in awhile, give your name an number to his parents...get his addy(different addy for AIT then basic) if hes stationed, just get his cell phone number and addy.
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My best friend is a guy and i even dated him for almost 8 months but we broke and everything changed. He kinda went into this depression and started smoking and smoking weed. His mom recently died on Halloween, and it hurt him so bad. He usually goes to school high and im so worried he'll get caught and i'll never see him again. I've tried to talk to him about how its not ok and there are other ways of coping but all he says is that he loves mary jane... what do i do?! (link)
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well if hes smoking weed to help him cope, and doesent want to quit, id suggest trying to get him to not be involved with it at school. i know you wont like this but at least if you can convince him not to go to school high, and not to let it go with him outside his home hes alot less likely to get busted. must say though it sounds like he has some deep issues, that hes trying to smoke away. if your ultimate goal is to get him to quit try working on the stuff hes trying to forget. get him to talk about it, like how he feels about you guys not being together and about his mom, i think the most important thing is to listen when he talks and try to be supportive.tell him youll always be there for him and then be there when he opens up.he prolly wontquit untill hes worked thru these things that are underneath it all, but untill then jst try to get him to cut back to where its not just asking to get caught up.
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I took a hallucenogen 5 days ago, and I think it's really messed me up. I researched it a lot before I did it, and it didn't seem to cause problems in anyone else or in medical studies.
But I feel so sick. My appetite is really inconsistent and food tastes digusting. I have constant headaches and I get disoriented really easily. I'm also having trouble recognizing familiar people. My emotions are weird too. I still get happy and sad, but really mildly.
I will never do it again. I'm too scared to go to a doctor about it. I'm afraid that I'll get sent to rehab, which is pointless because I only did it once and I'll never do it again.
So my question is, what do I do? Will I ever get back to normal, or did I _really_ screw up? Does anyone know how I might start feeling better?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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talk to the person you got it from, i dont know what you took, so youd have to ask them if its normal and how long it lasts. you can also call an emergency room and ask to speak to a nurse run it by them you can tell them what you took without saying who you are. they can probably tell you if you need to see a doctor. also your doctor cant tell anyone that you tried a drug its against the law for a doctor to tell anything about a paitent's health. seems to me 5 days later is a long time to still be feeling off, so see what you can find out, but id really reccomend seeing a doctor. a doctor wont send you to rehab, they can only reccomend it to you. i dont know what you researched but far as i know any drug that makes you see crap that aint there is bound to have some side effects.
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My guy friend wants to have sex with me and vice versa but the only thing thats stopping us(well me)is that im a little overweight and i have stretchmarks. they're really embarasing and i dont want him to see them
is their anyway to get rid of them almost completely? will he be turned off and disgusted at the sight of seeing them? and also will it hurt reallly bad my first time?(im virgin hes not)
Pleeeze help i rate 5s! thanx (link)
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your guy friend????? you want your 1st time to be with your guy friend????? come on now! your 1st time should be with someone special. you cant get rid of stretch marks you can only fade them with different lotions and creams. i had the same problem when i was younger, but i really want to point out, that if your self concious about this guy seeing you naked you shouldent have sex with him.when you have sex with a guy, you really have to trust that he will love your body,not to be harping at you but if your worried he wont like every bit of you it doesent sound like you trust him. sex is a big deal, and i understand these days its not always about love, but there should be trust, complete trust that theyll love your body and not see the flaws. i know its prolly not what you want to hear but i had to say it, you dident mention love, or even the title of boyfriend. now, no offence to your guy friend, but i think your virginity is a terrible thing to waste on your guy buds booty call,even if you guys do stay friends, it could have been a priceless gift to a man that really loves you.
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Is it gross or weird for a girl with very dark and coarse hair to shave her arms? (link)
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its not gross or weird, but with hair thats dark an coarse youd really want to keep up with it to keep it from being so noticable as it grows back. i would say use veet or nair, but ive noticed they dont work very good on just stubtle, so itd pretty much have to get visable in between.you could wax regularly, but im not into pain. seriously if i were you and wanted it gone permenantly, id just really shave it once an then shave it every single time i showered, even before it strts to grow back,id jst keep doing that and never let it be visable again.
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My boyfriend fingered me yesterday for the 2nd time, and this time he went deeper than the 1st time. It kinda hurt, and today I got my period. But I shouldn't be getting my period right now becuase its too early, but it's only early by a week or so. And I'm not really sure if my period is regular or not, but my last period started on January 3 and ended on January 8. So did my cherry pop.. or is it just my period? (link)
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well youll know for sure by tommorrow. if your still bleeding its just your period. if he broke the hymen, youd only spot lightly for a few hours right after,maybe verrrrry lightly into the next day. however it would have started right after if it had been your hymen. so unfortunatly you prolly still have some pain there in your future.
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how do i change a firewall to allow me to access limewire and AIM? (link)
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if you have aol, go to the top of your toolbar hit settings, scroll to the f's then hit firewall, you can tamper with it there.
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is it gross or weird to shave your arms? (link)
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i dont think so. i have very light blonde hairs an not thick either and i like to shave mine just cuz i like my body smooth. its a personal choice. however if you have dark thick hair on your arms it will be more noticable as it grows back, an its more likely someone will comment on it. in my case i just shave them when i feel like it half the time i cant even see then unless i let it grow all the way back .ive never been asked about it or had it commented on because thier so light doubt anyone besides my hubby even knows if i have any, whether i shaved em or not.either way if someone does say anything tell them to mind thier own buissness. its not gross or weird, just preference.
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okay, so ive had limewire for about 3 months
dont tell me to delete it, it works really well for me
but anyways.. i want to burn cds, i dont know how though
i need to know what program to download in order to burn cds and everything
i basiclly need step by step instructions
please help && will def . rate (link)
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you can burn them from the windows media player.
step one: open it, and click on media library
step 2: click on add at the top of the toolbar, to add media by searching your computer,or by folder or file. step 3: in the left hand column go to the top and hit, all media, or all music, or all audio. then all your music should be listed on the right side
step 4: go to the top of the toolbar again and click on playlist, then on new/create playlist then name it. step 5: go to your all media libray and hilight a song then click the playlist button again, then add to playlist, then select your playlist.
step 6:repeat untill you have put all the songs you want on the cd onto your playlist
step 7:in the left hand coloumn scroll down to my playlists and select your playlist. it should open listing only the songs you put there.
step 8 in the far left side toolbar click copy to cd or device.
step 9: make sure all your songs are checked, they should be unless you uncheck them, insert your blank cd, and when it pops up hit take no action.
step 10: in the upper right hand corner therell be a red dot that says copy hit it and watch your cd burn if you dl all mp3s it will convert 1st then copy. ta da your done. note if you have a cd player that will play mp3s when you 1st go into copy to cd or device up at the top right side it will say audio cd, but you can select from thier to burn a data disk instead allowing you to have more than 100 songs on a cd. but remember a data cd will only play on a player made for it. otherwise your all set. goodluck!
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can someone give me some heartbreak quotes? (not websites) for my aim profile? thanks (link)
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"for every love letter written, there's another one burned."- areosmith-hole in my sole
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what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart? (link)
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you spend some time coping and feeling pretty crappy....then you start living life all over again.each time you wind up in the bottom of a hole you crawl back up stronger than before you fell. you try to learn from the past and do your best to keep history from repeating itself. you realize no one has all the awnsers and quit trying to have them all, you look to your faith if you have one, to yourself if you dont, for the strength to keep trying, to achieve self happiness, and self worth. if we as humans were always happy wed have no goal in life, wed feel as tho we were sitting still and never getting anywhere and life would seem to be a waste of time. life has to suck, once in awhile , if it dident wed never do anything, change anything, try to make anything better. without the suckiness of life to motivate us, wed all be bumps on a log. prolly all on the same damn log too, cuz no one would move.
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i've said in one of my recent questions that i've been hanging out with new people... those people would happen to be.. the druggies of our school... they've been asking me to try some stuff... and im thinking about doing it... does anyone have any advice on or websites i could go to... to maybe get some info on these types of things! appreciated! (link)
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well i dont know what drugs these friends of yours use. im sure youll hear alot about how bad they are and what not and up to a point i agree. the only drug ive EVER done was pot, when offered anything stronger from my friends just a simple shake of my head an saying naw, im cool,was enough to get it on to another subject. if they really are your friends just saying no thanks will be enough to get them off your back.when i 1st started hanging out with people that smoked pot and did acid, i came right out and asked my mom about it, she told me if your going to do anything, do pot, and never touch anything else. she then told me with acid its possible to go on a bad "trip" an see all kinds of jacked up s#it. that was enough for me, i never had any trouble with pot, i dident take it to school or work, and only used occasionally with my friends. some people will think my mom was nuts, but im thankful to her because of what she said, and at 15 and having complete accsess to all kinds of drugs where i grew up hearing my mom say id rather you do pot than anything else was enough to tell me the other drugs were definately not for me. it is MY PERSONAL OPPINION, and personal oppinion only that pot is not that bad. ive also never felt as tho it were a"GATEWAY DRUG" (youll hear and see that alot as you research drugs) because people are responsible for thier own action's and myself and many of my friends are living proof, smoking pot doesent mean you just wind up on harder stuff. heres a site on pot you can start your research with http://www.illuminati-news.com/marijuana-conspiracy.htm
im not telling you drugs of any kind are ok for you, what i am saying is that if your thinking about doing any drugs you should look up all the kinds you have acssess to and know just exactly what it is your thinking about.
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If I take paracetamol today (for period pains) will it be safe to eat hash cookies tonight? (link)
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youd prolly be cool, i never had any trouble with asprin and pot. if your real worried, and no one seems to know just skip the hash or the paracetamol, for 24 hours. take your pick. personally....i bet youd feel better with your cookies.
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i have the flu, or at least thats what i think i have. the worst pain i am feeling right now is my sore throat. dose anyone know anything that can stop it? i can have losenges or tyleol-like medicene, for some reason they dont help me. what do you recomend and what do you use when you are sick? thanks so much!
~Ank (link)
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i use chloreseptic spray, comes in green and red, it numbs your throat temporaily so you wont feel the pain, but warning i wont even call them flavors, either color tastes god awful. upside, you will be able to swallow without cringing in pain. hope you feel better soon.
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whats the difference between smoking pot vs. smoking a normal cigarette? like, whats the difference between the two? thanks!! (link)
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you can smoke all the ciggarettes you want after you are old enough to legally buy them,thier highly addictive an mostly effect your lungs .....and theyll prolly kill ya..eventually. pot on the other hand effects your mind and actually makes you high, but ive never heard of ANYONE dying from pot use. if you smoke pot alot youll get a smokers cough same as with ciggeretts. funny thing is, its so verry illegal, that in many states youll do more prison time getting busted multiple times with weed, than you would if you murdered or raped someone. not to sound like a drug advocate, of course, but thats gotta make you wonder. so in my oppinion the difference is the effect to your body, and ones legal, ones not. or in other words, ones taxable by the goverment, ones not. everyone should visit this site http://www.illuminati-news.com/marijuana-conspiracy.htm
pot all alone NEVER KILLED ANYONE. the article on this page has extreme specific references you can check out for yourself. the few people that died from smoking a joint had more than likely just smoked pot that had been laced with something else. do the research, make your own decisions.
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im not sure but i think i know someone who suffers from bulimia. i really want to know. i have confronted this person about it but they just deny it. i told them facts about doing this and how bad it is for thier health but i still think they do it. is there a way to tell if they do it without confronting them and if so is there a way i can help
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some signs...besides the obvious running to the bathroom after meals. i dont know what color your friend is, but if shes white it will be easier to see,watch the skin on her face carefully,if shes making herself purge shell probably have red dots on her face,the next day,if shes doing it all the time you wont see them as often, but once they appear there usually visable for a few days.they are broken blood vessles under her skin, so they wont be bumpy but they will be mostly around her eyes and on her upper cheek bones. another way to tell is after leaving the bathroom you may think her eyes look "bugged" out. if you do believe shes belimic if she doesent care about her health enough to stop, you might mention to her that the acid from her stomache will be eating away at the enamle of her teeth making them look yellow or grey, not to mention that its probably already ate holes in her asophagus. besides being dangerous belimia makes your skin and teeth pretty ugly if it goes on too long,so if she only cares about her looks and not her health try appealing to her vanity. if you think theres still a problem, tell her parents.good luck!
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I am a 14 year old female who is recently living with my father by force. My father took me from my mother about 5 months ago because he read my little cousins diary that said i was doing drugs with my mother which is not true. my mother is desperatly trying to get me back but she has little money. I feel that I am becoming more and more of a danger to myself everyday here. there is no physical abuse but there is neglect. I am running away before the end of feburary and I need a SAFE place to go so that I am not on the streets. I am having problems finding a place to go many shelters will only hold me for 24 hours but i need more time than that. So I am asking advice on where i should go as a 14 year old female who is possibly suicidal. I have no transportation so i am also asking for advice on that. (link)
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gabriel, and mike hit it on the nose, stay put, and do some research, i agree more than likely your old enough to have a say in where you want to live. when you do get back with your mom, better shape up, cuz strangely enough everyone seems to get the blame for kids mistakes but the kids themselves.also if you ever do find yourself in a runaway situation,or if your feeling suicidal, you can call covenant house's
toll free nineline, it operates 24 hours a day, just to talk or to help you find a location.(1-800-999-9999)covenant house is a shelter for any one under 21 according to thier site the door never closes, and no one under 21 is turned away no matter what. to see thier locations visit www.covenanthouse.org
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