Gender: Female
Location: crockett
Age: 13
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 90
Last Update: June 6, 2007
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i know there is probably a lot of questions like this but whatever haha. well anyways im 14 and ive never had my first kiss yet. i know it seems young and all but dont be like "it will happen when it happens". because by the way im in high school. i have had the opportunity, but turned it down many times...it is because im scared of messing up, or not knowing what to do, or forcing it too much or something. and i dont want to seem all inexperienced. some of my friends have even went all the way!! its disgusting and i would never do that this young, and im not wanting my first kiss since all my friends have had it, i just want to be able to like go to parties and feel comfortable with being with a guy. also, i avoid having boyfriends because i know they'll want to makeout, and i dont want to seem prude. because like with other things im not, it just is confusing to explain about my fear of messing up when making out haha. i just dont know what to do please help! thanks!! and please dont answer if you're just gonna say "just go with the flow blah blah" haha thanks! (link)
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ahhh a 1st timer ive never went all the way but kissin is one thing im not shy about with some ppl well the ppl i know well trust me if you use your hand, tongue, and brains you can practicly make a boy fall in love i know i have and most of them still are and as far as the prude thing forget the boy or boy's in the future because you know if a boy dosent exept you for you hes not good i hope this helps but if it dosent you can just ask more questions
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ok so i use to like this boy but now i dont like him but i cant keep my eyes off him..everytime i see him i cant help but to look. and in all his away messages on aim they say stuff about how all his friends got girls but hes got nobody and i always wanna tell him that he could have me. and during the day i catch myself thinking about how i would still go out with him if he ever asked me. why do i do this when i dont like him anymore? (link)
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i dont know what to tell you other than ask him out please!!!!!
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i have these friends (lets call them S and H). they were my bff, that is until i found out that something big had happened. they had gone a step further in their relationship. they did it while i was in the room and then they didnt tell me. they agreed not to tell me and then it randomly slipped out of S's mouth one day....i got really angry. not that it had happened, but that it had happened while i was there and that they decided not to tell me. also have this friend(lets call him F). he told me i should stay angry at her because he already doesnt like her bc he thinks she causes too much drama. he also thinks she has only screwed up my life since i met her and that i shouldnt forgive her or that i should stay mad until she comes crawling back to me.... she says that she cant stand not having me as a friend and that she'd be willing to give up talking to H for me but she has a tendency to lie about a lot of things...... should i forgive her or not?.... (link)
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if something is ment to be let it be at least they tried to hied it not to hurt you but to extend your fillings f must not like s because if s wanted to cause trubble dont you think she wouldve told you on her own not by accident
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im 15 years old and i would like to start modeling...my parents said they would look into agencies for me. the problem is im conserned about mmy weight i have been trying to eat healthy to lose weight and it helps that i am very active but for some reason i dont lose weight easily...
i am 5 foot 6 1/2 and i weight 138 pounds should i lose weight? does anyone have tips on how to lose weight fast? (link)
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well the best diet is to eat one big big big meal per day it works for me i saw a big change plus you might need gum to ake your mind off food for a while
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16/f
I was best friends with a girl who started getting on my nerves and she bossed me around, it got worse one day i school we got into a fist fight never talked again we hate eachother now. I tell her im better off and i have more friends. we have many classes together one. In one of them we have to do a group project of 3 and no more. The 2 girl I thought I was working with didnt want me working with them anymore and everyone else already had groups. She had two people to work with from the begining. I was one of the only people working by myself=/ I was devastated and almost cried but didnt let anyone see that it hurt me so i stayed strong especially in front of her. The other person working alone is really smart but also kind of weird and not exactly sociable. Im a pretty girl in school hes the total opposite of what I am and I asked him to work with me. Im afraid people will laugh at me and Im afraid ill be commiting social suicide becasue we have to make a presentation and its embarresing for me to not have anyone but him to work with I dont know how to deal with things im stressing so much about it the project is due soon their is no way I would ever get together with him helppppp!!! I feel like crying everytime we bring up the whole situation of the project hwo cold i even do it. (link)
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ok i know how you fill i was an outcast to but once i started to love my self and started to show that i love my self you wouldnt beleive all the good things that happend and it seems like your working on freindship than your project so split your time and dont worrie bout nothin in spirit i got yo back
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16/f. I am not too well with guys (dating-wise). But I am comfortable meeting guys as friends, I mess around, joke, and just be a good friend. Yet recently, my friend introduced me to this guy. She has said we would be a nice couple, bragged to him about me, and vice versa. Now I am too shy to go up to him and say hi. He is shy as well, but I am usually the one to "mingle" first at guys, hence make the first move. But he is different for some odd reason. I easily socialize with guys, but with him I am too shy to go up to him. It's so weird because I never been that way before. Is this normal? And what can I do to fight the feeling because I really want to get to know him?
Thanks! (link)
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you may think its cute that hes shy and your shy but this may noy be a good relationship you wont have good conversations so whats the risk but what will be the outcome get to know him more and then go for the goal if your a talkitive person this is first tyme gitters so give it a try so good luck!!!
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i've been reading your past answers to questions lately. && i think your so funny. you make me laugh like ALL the time. i just wanted to tell you that. (link)
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nice 2 know that so are u a boy or a girl because i cant see
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okay so yeah my brother has a best friend and we are MADLY inlove and we do stuff secretly. if he were to find out what we did, my brother would kill us both! i dont want to leave him but i think i should move on cuz i cant go out with him until next year. we always talk about being together forever and getting married. what should i do? im 14 and he is 16. should i move on or should i stay with him because i can honestly say i LOVE him.. but i think i might want to move on. HELP PLEASE!!!1 (link)
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is that it i was thinking you were 10 and he was 19 or something like that with the outragous age differnces now good job so i say you should stay 16 or 12 your brother is going to be protective how old is your brother and why next year
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I used to love flirting and having tons of fun with guys, but lately i have completely gotten out of it. i gained weight stopped making myself look good and feel like everything is going downhill. I want get back to how I used to be. What do I do? I'm not comfortable with myself anymore
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truth is even someone as fine as me was once out of the flirtinf mood to but look in the mirrow say i am beautifull and get the sexyest outfit and go flirt but just dont touch my man
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There's this guy I kind of sort of like. And we've been on a date. Bu I don't know if I want to keep dating him because...I feel like I can do better. I feel really shallow, but I find myself interested in other guys too. I don't know what to do because he's really a great guy but I don't feel comitted. (link)
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dont worrie bout it somebody will like him because you made him famous
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ok...so at my work there's a really nice guy that everyone likes and i just found out he has a crush on me. then the other day he started asking me out to the movies and stuff and i would absolutely love to except im 17 a nd hes 24 and i dont know if it would be worth the risk. OH by the way my dad is our boss. and the last thing i want is for him to find out im going out with one of his employees whos over 20. i mean i actually really do like him but, Should i risk it? (link)
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dont do it be freindly till u turn 18 when is your birthday?
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I use to really really like this one guy and three months after I get over him he decides to pursue me. (idiot) So my feelings for him come back and we went on a date and we're suppose to go out again this weekend. But there's some problems....
1. my feeling for him aren't as strong
2. I'm always busy so it's hard to amke time for dates
3. because of # 2, I don't really want a boyfriend because I wouldn't give him the time and attention he deserves.
4. He probably wants a girlfriend...me specifically
5. I have wandering eyes
I'm 17 and never really have been in a comitted relationship (link)
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ok being single is great for you so tell him shoo fly
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my girl friend is not telling me that is she is virgin or not,becouse according to my religion a girl should be a virgin before marriage,we never have sex , i allways ask her that are you still virgin but she is telling me that my useing unappropiate style like,,,u dont belive me"" by getting mad,but she used to had a boyfriend in four year ago,i am confused please help me how to fined out that is she is realy a virgin still,?? (link)
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only one way to find out heres my tecniqe depending on the conversations you have if its all about sex or if its im gonna do this or i would love this chances are shes not a virgin and another thing stop askin her sooooo much
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I'm fourteen, female, and I've never done anything majorly bad in my life. My biggest mistake was probably insulting an idea a teacher had that got me yelled at by her, honestly. My parents used to trust me with anything, and it was great because I'm very responsible. But latley, I've grown up even more and they decided not to trust me at all. I've always had guy friends but they've never minded, and all of the sudden they're totally against my best friend as well. They keep me from seeing any of them, and when I ask why, they tell me to 'deal with it.'
I'm not sure what to do. I've tried countless times and ways to talk to them about what happened with the trust, but they simply don't answer with a reasonable statement. Please help, I want my life back. (link)
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the only thing you can do find girlfreinds to talk to everywere else and talk to the boys at your school and hook me up with the sexyest one you know just playin
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around my vagina it's dark and around my inner thighs too....is this normal?
thanks. (link)
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if you can work it it is no humor intended
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okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months, its beeen great everythings goood, except he has an ex girlfriend that really bother me cuz she still tells him how much she loves me, he knows it bothers me tooo. then theres some girls he talks to as friends but still bothers me b/c it looks liek he likes her and recently he hasnt callled as much, and hes just being really weird and i dont want to say ne thing liek " is our relationship ok" and blah cuz i dont want to start ne thing, but i really need to no what it is, like right now he has tha " upper hand" in our relationship, i had it earlier but i just need to no how i get that back, how i make him fight for me again.. leik doo i not answer some of his callls, or keep him in tha dark abotu things leik what do i dooo.. i neeed toooo get backkk in this
pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee helppppp me! (link)
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take it from a pro boys are sometimie well one of my exes had asked me would i mind if he sat next to one of his exes i told him no he got mad so we broke up but try not to get mad at the other girl because you can just tell her that she didnt take your man she just took your problem and say congrats because your single he wasnt worth the pain and cryin
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i was jacking off and i ejaculated and when the cum came out a little blood came out also i have ejaculated before and his has never happened what is wrong (link)
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gods tellin you to neva do it again
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that age old question i know... but lately its been getting confusing. I get crushes on girls, i have all seventeen years of my life. In fact the current crush that i have, i taped her during the musical our school had and only her when i should've been taping everyone. When someone saw the tape and asked if i like loved her i blushed. but then comes the complicated part, sexual arousal.. i dont know if i have a fetish with laether jackets but i like em and it gets me confused cause i like them but theres a man there altho other guys dont do anything for me except sometimes i like the idea of gelled hair but i dunno if its cause im jealous cause i want those things but are too afraid to get em or what... and then theres this whole other complicated part where i recently lost all my friends and then this one guy became my friend and now i really want him to be my best friend and im constantly asking him if things are okay between us and i dont konw if its cause i lost my friends and now i dont wanna lost him or if its cause i like him or something.. we almost became clsoe friends and we hugged once and i liked when we hugged, i liked having a close friend again... i just don't know if i'm gay or not and i dont want to be gay, have any desire to and scringe at the thought of gay stuff. and i hate the thought of me being gay cause i wanna grow up and have a wife and have kids.. so i dont know if its cause ive never had a girlfriend and prom is coming up and i dont have a date and i dont know if thats the reason why im freaking out so much now... i just need some perspective please.. and i know being gay isnt bad or anything i just dont want to be it. (link)
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truth is your probly just tierd of getting hurt by boys and looking for that confert in gurls so what ever just realy makes you happy but only because i dont know you i wont judge you ok if you got questions or just need a freind to talk to you can email me at home1111@netzero.com because i know how it fills to be confused
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Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
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ok you probly know your answer by now sorry it took so long but you should try to get them together and try to have a three way freindship
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So, i have this really nice boyfriend, but the only thing is he doesnt seem lke he really likes me as more than a friend, we've been going out for almost 4 months, and he hasnt made any move!!And thts not even the main problem in my story! so theres this other guy who seems like he likes me a lot and he constantly flrits w/ me, and im not going to lie, i kind of like him, but he's my bestfriends ex, which is a major problem for me, and he also says that he likes my other friend, even though everyone says they think he likes me. Im really confused. Ok so anyway, i was at a party and we started flirting and i was like playing w/ his hair and stuff, and were JUST FRIENDS, and i keep telling myself that, but im torn between 2 guys, and i honestly dont know which one likes me and which one is playing me so can someone please help, i would really like some guys to ansewer, thanks soo much!
-Lia Marie/13 (link)
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STOP!!! thats all i needed to hear when you get a boyfreind thats when they finaly want you and untill then they pay you no mind so please stick with the boy you got trust me you wont be sory
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