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okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 7 months, its beeen great everythings goood, except he has an ex girlfriend that really bother me cuz she still tells him how much she loves me, he knows it bothers me tooo. then theres some girls he talks to as friends but still bothers me b/c it looks liek he likes her and recently he hasnt callled as much, and hes just being really weird and i dont want to say ne thing liek " is our relationship ok" and blah cuz i dont want to start ne thing, but i really need to no what it is, like right now he has tha " upper hand" in our relationship, i had it earlier but i just need to no how i get that back, how i make him fight for me again.. leik doo i not answer some of his callls, or keep him in tha dark abotu things leik what do i dooo.. i neeed toooo get backkk in this
pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee helppppp me!
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Keeping him in the dark about things..not answering his calls..that is not the rigght thing to do. It will only weaken the communication in your relationship..and communicating is very imoportant in a relationship. With that said..the best thing to do is to ask him straight out if everything is ok between you two. Its better than not knowing..you have to hear it straight from him. Relationships require a lot of work and communication..trust me i know..i've been together with my bf for over a year now..
also..you wanting the "upper hand " thing..thats not a good thing either in relationships..you dont want one person dominating..it should be equal..not one person being 'whipped' or having the upper hand. I know what you mean you want him to fight for you....you want him to show he really cares right? You just gota tell him how you've been feeling..ask if eveerything is ok between you two..and let him know you kinda are sensitive right now and want him to show you he cares..he'll understandd trust me..i hope it all turns out well..definately inbox me if you need more help :)
-meliss
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take it from a pro boys are sometimie well one of my exes had asked me would i mind if he sat next to one of his exes i told him no he got mad so we broke up but try not to get mad at the other girl because you can just tell her that she didnt take your man she just took your problem and say congrats because your single he wasnt worth the pain and cryin
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Ask him if he's been feeling okay, and ask him what's going on. I hate it when some of my ex boyfriends acted weird when they were with me or whatever, and I got upset over it. I'd think the relationship was at stake and they'd assure me that it wasn't & tried acting a bit better.
I'd just ask if he's feeling okay, and if it gets to the point where you always have to call, or you always have to hang out, question the relationship because something may be going on & he's keeping it from you.
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