Xenolan answered Thursday March 1 2007, 8:18 pm: I'm going to assume you're talking about sex.
The biggest, most universal turn-on for guys is a girl who's willing, eager, and excited about having sex, who enjoys it while it's happening, and doesn't have regrets afterward. Of course, that requires him to put in a little effort and make sure the woman really IS enjoying it, and in turn it will probably require her to let him know what feels good, what doesn't, and what she would like. Here's a secret about guys: most of them will do almost anything you want in bed as long as you show genuine enthusiasm for it!
There are some guys who get more turned on by a girl who's NOT willing, but those are definitely not the ones you want a relationship with. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
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