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i feel like an outkast
16/f
I was best friends with a girl who started getting on my nerves and she bossed me around, it got worse one day i school we got into a fist fight never talked again we hate eachother now. I tell her im better off and i have more friends. we have many classes together one. In one of them we have to do a group project of 3 and no more. The 2 girl I thought I was working with didnt want me working with them anymore and everyone else already had groups. She had two people to work with from the begining. I was one of the only people working by myself=/ I was devastated and almost cried but didnt let anyone see that it hurt me so i stayed strong especially in front of her. The other person working alone is really smart but also kind of weird and not exactly sociable. Im a pretty girl in school hes the total opposite of what I am and I asked him to work with me. Im afraid people will laugh at me and Im afraid ill be commiting social suicide becasue we have to make a presentation and its embarresing for me to not have anyone but him to work with I dont know how to deal with things im stressing so much about it the project is due soon their is no way I would ever get together with him helppppp!!! I feel like crying everytime we bring up the whole situation of the project hwo cold i even do it.
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This is my honest opinion..you feel kinda like an outcast right now..immagine the 'weird kid' you described..he probably feels the same way. Nobody says you two have to be best friends...but get the project done..because that is priority..and dont worry about what others will say. I dont judge people like that..i dont talk to certain people just because they arent extremely popular..i think its pretty shallow when people do that. I bet the kid is harmless and probably really nice. I talk to one of the social outcasts of my school sometimes..she looks to me for advice and she trusts me..it feels good that someone who i dont talk to the often has that much respect for me.
PS- keep staying strong with the whole problem your having with your ex friend. Make new friends..but in order to make new friends you have to keep an open mind ..dont shut people out
I hope this helped :)
-melissa-
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ok i know how you fill i was an outcast to but once i started to love my self and started to show that i love my self you wouldnt beleive all the good things that happend and it seems like your working on freindship than your project so split your time and dont worrie bout nothin in spirit i got yo back
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who cares about those people? you seem really shallow if you are so worried what people will think just because you are working with someone who isn't exactly 'popular'. try not to care so much about what people think about you, it doesn't matter what those bitchy shallow popular people think about you, even if you are one of them. even though you shouldn't care what people think, it's still just a project. it will be over soon, don't worry. and try to get it done with him in school and if you cant stay after or go in early so you dont have to go to eachothers houses or anything.
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If you hate her, the things she does shouldn't effect you. Don't let her get to you. You hate her, you're not friends with her, so she's not important.
Anyways, I think you should do your project alone. If you're that shallow & scared of "social suicide", then you don't deserve to work with him. That's shallow not to work with somebody just because they're not good looking, or popular like you are. If he's nice, & smart, it shouldn't matter if it's weird or "socialable." If people laugh at you, tell them to fuck themselves. You can your projects with whoever you want, be friends with whoever you want & hang out with whoever you want.
But, work by yourself. This isn't very helpful, but it's an opinion. I think you're a shallow, and you care too much what people think.
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