I use to really really like this one guy and three months after I get over him he decides to pursue me. (idiot) So my feelings for him come back and we went on a date and we're suppose to go out again this weekend. But there's some problems....
1. my feeling for him aren't as strong
2. I'm always busy so it's hard to amke time for dates
3. because of # 2, I don't really want a boyfriend because I wouldn't give him the time and attention he deserves.
4. He probably wants a girlfriend...me specifically
5. I have wandering eyes
I'm 17 and never really have been in a comitted relationship
christina answered Thursday March 1 2007, 7:48 pm: Everyone's eyes wander, but unless you act on it, there's nothing wrong with it. My eyes wander, and I'm sure my boyfriend's eyes wander, but unless me & him do something about it, then it's okay.
Anyways, tell him you're not ready for a boyfriend, and that you're always busy, so it will consume all of your time & you won't be able to hang out. Just tell him the truth, I think he deserves it. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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