Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
Gender: Female
Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
Occupation: Student at WHS
Age: 15
AIM: jazz82289@aol.com
Member Since: September 25, 2004
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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust? (link)
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GO FOR IT! Your'e young, guys are stupid, and they make mistakes, but make sure you tell him how he hurt you, make it known!!! But why not go for it ???? I mean even if he does hurt you again, it's ok love is all about the pain, and the fighting, that's what makes it so beutiful, just do it.
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ok, i dont want to come off like slutty or anything...but my b/f and i have been together for about 2 months now & all he's done is given me like lil kisses(no tongue). like he's pretty touchy feely and all but i mean its been 2 months & we love each other so much and its been nice, but i'd like there to be more..like we've talked about moving further and stuff but when we're alone 2gether nothing happens! he's only had like 2 g/fs & he's only kissed and got head b4..which he knows i will NOT give him head..but anyways lol, how do i get him to losen up and like actually make out with me & relax .. i love him so much & i know he loves me, but sometimes itd be a lil nice to have a lil more physical in the relationship..know what i mean?
thanks,jessica (link)
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I have the same issue, only i have been involved with this guy since the seventh grade ( I'm in tenth) Why don't you make a move, the guy doesn't always have to, YOU take it a little further and see what happens.
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I have this friend and we hang out a lot. The problem is that he has a girlfriend 2 years older than him and im only one year older than him. They have been going out for about 3 weeks but he hangs out with me more then her. He always asks me to hang out on a day and then he asks me to walk to her house with him and hang out. He is always him self around me but he doesnt really be himself around her. What do u think is goin to happen between them and me and him. I would hate to ruin ne thing between them but he is always with me atleast a lot more than with her. and when he is with her, he always asks someone to go with him, usually me. What is this all about do u think? (link)
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You are probably like a comfort food to him only a person lol try talking to him about it, tell him your feelings, maybe he's feeling the same way. But I dunno about the whole going to her house, try bailing on him once or twice and see what happens,ask him why he wants you to go with him, see what he says, good luck babe!
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I'm not the type of person who belives in going out and looking for a date. I belive you should become friends first then see if you can take it futher. I just recently feel for a close friend, and she turned me down. For some reason im taking this one really hard. What can i do to get over this and move on? 18 m (link)
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Aww, sweetie I dunno, everything happens for a reason, remember that, that just shows that you two weren't meant to be, make it known you are available and then just try to think about her as much as possible, the more you think about her the more sick of her you will get, just let it out babe. Hope I helped
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ahh..homecomings next saturday..and all my frens know how to dance.."BUT ME" and like i can shake my hips and all thatbt i cant move my booty to well and i never know what to do with my hands..SOMEONE HELP i needa learn how to shake my thang and notlook stupid doin it ~! (link)
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Get with one of your best friends, then watch BET (black entertainment television) and mock what they are doing, but make sure you have your friend there so he/she can tell you if you look stupid,then when you get to the dance just look at what the black girls are doing and do it.
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i have STARIGHT eyelashes..and i use a eyelash curler everyday and then use hella mascara and then i have to curl them again jus to make em pretty...anyone have any easier techniques? whatdo other gurls do with super straight eyelashes? and mascara that works great for this? (link)
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Try the red covergirl one, it works hella good, but first comb through them, then take a mascara wand that HAS NO MASCARA on them to make them a little more vulnerable, then put the mascara on, maybe pounding mascara on is your problem. But try that, if that doesn't work, add the eyelash curler, I hope I hepled xoxo
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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx (link)
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No they can't. Good luck sweetie
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Alright there is this boy in our school(i've had questions before hez the one who got stung by a bee) Well I really really really like him! More reallys but I wouldn't get this posted if I said them all but anyways he is truly my best friend out of anybody he is my best friend! And all my friends like him but nobody knows i like him(except you guyz)! All my friends like him too which is a huge problem but I tell them I like this other boy which i kinda do so they won't know but this boy got a bee sting n nobody cared but me! NO BODY DID! And I was confused why they didn't if they like him! But anywayz I just don't know how to tell him like i'm not that kinda of girl who would ask a boy out or what his s/n is...now if i talk to him on the phone i would ask him what his s/n is...But how do I get him to ask me out or call my house? (link)
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Ok, I dont' suggest sniffing his crotch and humping his leg. The truth is you can't force him to do so but you can persuade him. You don't need to dumb yourself down saying you need help to get him to call you. Just be yourself and one day open up a long, deep convorsation, and MAKE SURE you guys won't get to finish it, that way you could be like "I really wanna talk to you more about it, so here's my number, call me." If he doesn't call you right away it's cool, but don't be absoulutely heartbroken if he doesn't like you, it's cool, I promise he's just a guy, remember EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON
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okay..theres this boy i like, and he and i are getting pretty close, and i think he likes me..and we were hanging out..and he told me one time he puked his food up on purpose..cause he wrestles and he wants to be in a littler weight class...but he told one of his bestfriends...that he does it often..and im mad that he lied to me and im sad cause he could get sick..but he doesnt know i know...and i dont want to say sumthing to a counsler or hed get kicked off the wrestling team for cheating, and im afraid if i say sumthing...he will get mad! and i really like him alot and i dont want him mad, but im prolly gunna talk to him about it what should i say? (link)
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Oh my goodness, that's awful! Try telling him what that does to his esophogus and his intestines, get some pictures off the internet that show what happens to people who do that. But then tell him that you are upset because he lied to you, but you are more concerned about his health than anything. Tell him that you are concerned because you care about him, not because you want to control him. Good luck!
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OKAY i just got the sims 2 game and im like sooooo confused!!! when i want to buy items it will let me do it except it won't let me click on the appliances icon and the plumbing icon so therefore i can't have food in a refridgerator and i can't have any bathroom stuff! yea i really need that in its house!!! so if you have any idea why it won't let me click that icon that is like faded just tell me please! im pretty much desperate now!!! I"LL RATE ALL 5's FOR ANYONE WHO HELPS ME OUT!! thanks a bunch! P.S. i don't think my game is messed up or broken so don't tell me that (link)
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Try uninstalling it and then reading the manual, I PROMISE you will find it in there, I don't have the Sims 2 but I have all the other ones and I had that same problem for hot date, and they don't just put the manual in there for nothing:) Good luck sweetie!
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Well I really really like this guys and we are like "talking" you know or w/e. Well his sweet sixteen Bday is coming up. I was wondering if I should git him a gift? If so, what are some good ideas? He likes football and soccer and he loves bands like Blink 182. Thanx!
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Yeh sure, why not! Get him like a Soccer ball that has the guys from blink on it. Get someone you know who is a good artist to paint it on there for you. You'll stand out from all the rest of the presents
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okay, i've been with this guy for a while now and our realationship is pretty good and stuff, but...i somehow want him to show more affection towards me; like more touching or even just talking to me or w/e. He touches me and stuff so its not like he stays completly away, but its always not when i want it. I guess i just kinda hope for the 'fantasy relationship' but i think that maybe his ways could be changed. Do ya'll have any ideas on how i can get him to show more affection or w/e? please help, and dont just say talk to him about it :o) Thanks, i rate! (link)
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Tell him what's on your mind babe, Communication is the key, keep it subtle. Tell your friends to tell him. Write it in your journal and then leave it out for him to see. COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
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I have a (suposivly common) Problem with my ovaries in which pin head size cysts on them cause irregular periods. I havent gotten my period in nearly 6 months. I had several MRI's done, and i saw a OB/GYN. Next week, I am going to a specialist at the hospital to consult about the problem, but I'm scared that they will give me an exam, and if they do, they will find out that I am no longer a virgin like my mom thinks! I'm incredibly scared, especially because my mom would killll mee if she found out. I regularly engage in sexual intercourse, and I'm afriad that if she knows, my trust will be ruined, and all hell wil break loose. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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You probably should have thought about this before you became sexually active,no offense. But obviously your mom shouldn't trust you because she trusted you not to have sex, and you did, and you do it regularly. When you aren't married, nothing good comes out of sex. I know you are scared of your mom being mad, but I would be more scared of having something like Herpes, AIDs, HIV, STI's etc. Not my mom being mad, because in the end she's the one who is gonna help you, no matter what.
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Okay I asked the question about being 13/f and my breasts hurting size 38c. Well today i was noticing that my right breast kinda feels like it has lumps in it. I think I might have breast cancer. But I am confused. If I do I don't know how to ask my mom to take me to the doctor to find out or even tell her that I think I do. (link)
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Everybody has lumps in thier breasts whether they have cancer or not it's just apart of the boob thing, I wouldn't worrry about it. But still talk to your mom, and just get a check up, you should be going in for annual check ups anyway. I wouldn't worry though. Good luck!
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I am doing a play for my school called "guys and Dolls" I really want to try out for the role of Sara (if you know which character is) and she is a lead role. People say I act very good and there a lot of people trying out for the school musical. I am just not that used to not getting a role in a play at all. It happened once and I am making a vow never to not get a role again. And I know thats the way life goes but you know I have a dream and I don't want it to start breaking, especially now, I'm young. Plus my ex-friend is doing the play too and what if I get a role where I have to read dialogue with her? Ya know? Me and my Luck! lol
x0x surfer girl x0x (link)
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OK, i'm an actress, I have been acting for about 7 years( I'm 15) One thing I have learned is you don't take your everyday emotions on stage with you, you can't give your all if you are worrying about what your ex friend is thinkings. Second you don't worry about other people, practice, try out for the part you want and go for it. Don't worry about the other people and how good they are, they may not be what the director is looking for. Focus on being Sara, not surfer girl. Don't worry, being an actress, you aren't going to get every role you want and it's ok, it's part of the dream babe.
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I broke my wrist lyk 2 years ago and sometimes it totaly gives out on me is that normal?
-kla
Ps.I wear a brace to do tumbling.
and im 13 so i was 11 when i did it so ya! (link)
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I hurt my ankle about 4 years ago when I was in sixth grade, now I'm in 10th and it still gives out on me, and i wear a brace. It may not have healed properly. Try talking to your doctor, they know like everything. GO TUMBLING!
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:( (link)
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Oh my goodness, they are lil ****** if they are being mean to you for that, DON'T KILL YOURSELF!!!! Because then you will be just as low as they are. Try telling them how much it hurts, take it to your boss, and i know it sounds hard but try to even maybe get a new job. Maybe it's a sign. Everything happens for a reason. Do you have a mate???? If you do turn to them and while you are at work have that reassurance that you are with them and that's all that matters. If not, find one, try focusing on that
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well this girl goes to his school..which happens to b a private school..which me on the other hand im in a public school..so i have no clue who this girl even is...-thx (link)
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You not knowing her has nothing to do with it because if she doesn't like him she doesn't like him. Try asking him about her, see what he tells you
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okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him? (link)
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Tell him that you feel the same way, and pitch the idea of maybe trying to go out and not changing anything, but being prepared if it doesn't work. That way you don't set yourself up for heartbreak. Good luck, give "jon" a hug for me!
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I go out wit this guy but i like another guy too i dont know what to do ??? (link)
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Break up with the guy it's not fair to him. If you like one better than the other try finding something that really turns you off about him, like he picks his scabs or something, you won't like him anymore I promise lol
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