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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do?

Your current boyfriend Steve, did you feel as strong about him before you two started dating? It all depends on who you felt more strongly about before you started dating. The one you felt more strongly about is the one you should stay with in my opinion. But this is not my descision to make, its all about what YOU feel inside right now. Search yourself and find the answer.

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i wrote to you a while back cuz i weighed 145 and only just turned 11. now im 137 but i didnt diet that much so i was wondering if this would be a good diet.

eat a bowl of rasin brand 4 breakfast w/ bananas
eat a salad 4 lunch & water
eat whatever my mom cooks 4 din ( i can't choose)
and run in the afternoons
and no snacks
and i only am aloud to eat non healthy foods on a special occasions like christmas or birthdays.

is that good and if you have some add ons i would really like that.

Yes, that is a very good start for a diet, and congratulations on losing 8 pds in about a week! Thats very good. Now that you are sort of getting used to the diet, it will be much easier to stay on it. Running in the afternoons is helping you alot. Keep it up!

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Hey,

I got a question man. I talk to some guy on the Internet named Iljag - he is in my gaming clan. THe guy is a total buttmunch. Sometimes i want to reach through the screen and whip his ass.

I am afraid that I might act on my aggression and will go to Louisiana and kick his ass. I really dont' want to do this.

Any suggestions?

mike

Balls in your mouth. :D

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i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared?

Only way you can be sure of yourself is if you are confident. Go into the 9th grade with expectations to meet new people and to make friends that will last a lifetime. Do not be afraid to ask people if you can sit with them, they wont say no. Build your confidence up over the last couple weeks of the summer and go into that first day of school with endless self-esteem.

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today after goin out to the mall n movies.. i realized i liked this one kid "casey" alottt.. it waz tha first time ive seen him since school ended.. because days when i go out he doesnt.. and when i dont go out he does. but i saw him today n ran up to him because we are like best friends. we started talkin n all dat stuff. he would always call me alot. and i found out he liked me but supposedly he doesnt anymore. but wheneva someone asks him about me he says "i dont like her anymore" but he has a huge smile on his face. we flirt alot but do u think he likes me or is it just a best friends thing?

I think you should ask him personally, instead of asking his freinds. Avoid calling him or IMing him because it wil give him an easier chance to flake the question off or change the subject. You should go up to him and bluntly ask him if he is interested in you in that way. That is the only way you will get a straightforward answer

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well it all started when i was helping out @ a summercamp, and every1 came over 2 my house 2 swim. and this 1 hottt guy was upstairs with me signing on as his sn. and so when he left his buddy list was on so i looked @ it (i know i shouldnt have) and so i noticed my sn on there but i am blocked, and i thought we were friends. should i ask him y he blockd me? what do i do?
madison

No, you shouldnt ask him why because if you did, he would know you looked at it. And if he knows that, then he will think you are a snoop and it would greatly diminish the chance you have with him.

Just treat it like nothing happened and act a little more freindly with him and maybe he will un-block you. Hope I helped.

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Does anybody know where I could find a site to host my .ini, .swf, .mp3, .exe, and .bat files? I need to upload these in order to get my RadioBlog working for my site. So, any of you Advicenators have a clue? Answers will be greatly appreciated.

I found one that is free, but only give you 1,000,000 bytes of storage (I think 1 MB) Which isnt much to host .mp3's. The URL is http://www.walagata.com/ if you are interested.

I also found some websites that give you a 5 Gigs of storage, but are around 10$ A month.

http://www.xdrive.com/

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dosent everyone like sex.. this kid i know said he dosent and i dont believe him becuz everyne likes sex.. what do you think

To be honest, it depends on how old you are. If you are anywhere between 1-11 you may think sex (and maybe even girls) is/are icky. This will pass, unless you are a freak :P

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I neva kno wat to get for my bf for special occasions. i mean iz not like u can get him cute little stuffed animals or suntin that he would get for u. so give me sum ideas of wat to get for him??????

~Caitlin~

If he likes caps, get him a nice baseball cap with his favorite college team or pro team on it. Also, guys dont mind getting sentimental stuff such as stuffed animals, if you give it to him, it will be special to him. And he will keep hold of it.

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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? Should I call him?

Your friend is showing some mixed signs. Either he is shy around you, and was just starting to warm up to you during the dance. Either that, or he is being extremely friendly for just a 'friend'.

If it is the first option, then show him some signs too, and he should gradually open up to you as you open up to him.

If its the second sign, then this guy is just a really good friend.

Hope I helped.

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I have gone through a 14 hour babysitting course at Baylor Hospital, I am certified at the heimlech maneuver and CPR. I think that I am fully qualified to babysit, and my parents say thatt i can. The problem is, I have only had one real job! No one asks me because I am short for my age, therefore I look young but I am very mature. How do I get babysitting jobs?
Signed,
Helpless

What I think you should do is go to some freinds of the family, and ask them if they need any help or know of anybody that needs help. Make sure they know that you are certified, because that will have a big influence if they choose you or not. Hope I helped.

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Hello. I'm Angie. For a few months now, I've been trying to decide whether or not I want to move with my father. I obviously live with my mom, then. And I've finally came down to my decision and I do in fact want to live with him. My mommy has known for awhile now that I've been thinking of moving with him... she doesn't mind it. My dad knows I've been wanting to too and he doesn't mind it one bit, so I'm finally going to talk to him about moving in this weekend when I visit him, but I don't know how to break it to my mom that I want to move with him.... What should I say?

I know exactly how this problem is. My parents split up when I was three years old. I visited my dad alot, but lived with my mother halfway across the country. I always thought about living with my dad, and I wanted to, but I never gathered the courage to break it to my mom and tell her. I knew it would break her heart so I lived with her another year until she suggested I go live with him to get a grasp on my grades. I agreed, and now I'm living with my dad to finish high school. Sometimes I wish I told my mom how I felt a year ago, but part of me is glad I didn't.

If you really want to live with your father, please do tell your mother about this. When you do tell her how you feel, theres a good chance she will be feeling a bit depressed. Tell her that you will visit her a lot, that should ease her mind. I suggest sitting her down and telling her after you eat dinner with her or something.

Hope I helped.

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ok...i was in a chat room for my school..and this guy imed me...and he was really sweet and cute//he sent me his pic and we started talking and now he wants me 2 meet him at the beach..but im not sure//wut if they dont even go to my school and wut if hes like a killer? he text messages me all the time and we totally click!! please help me b/c i think he might b the 1!!

What you need to do is get to know him alot better. Dont take any chances just yet. He couldve stole the picture or used someone elses. Dont trust him unless you are 100% sure he is who he says he is. And if he is, then by all means, go for it!

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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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Find a diet that is right for you and stick to it for a while. Also, situps are very good at toning your abdominal muscles. Also try some crunches, they'll work wonders! Hope I helped.

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i was just wondering if i'm to fat i just turned 11 and i weigh 145 pounds. i am about 4'11. can you please answer in an yes or know answer. and not rejectet it. i also have another question. i think the reason i eat alot is i miss living in mississippi. Is that possible to eat cuz i miss it?

145 pounds is overweight for 4'11 yes. According to the BMI charts, you are borderline obese. It is very possible that you eat because you miss something. I know how it feels satisfying to eat alot when you are sad. One way to fix it is every time you get those hunger pangs, shake your head and say no. Just saying no makes you feel better inside, its like your on your way to losing weight. Once you lose the weight you want, it is more than overly-satisfying looking at yourself in the mirror. I suggest find a diet that suits you and stick to it. Also you might want to try to start jogging or walking. Soon, you will be on your way to losing weight. If you stick to it, there are countless rewards you can reap from it. Good luck, and if you need any more tips, dont be afraid to ask!

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I was considering putting shrimp in my gumbo today, but I'm thinking 'hey, self, maybe shrimp doesn't belong in gumbo.'

So I was wondering - should I do it? SHall I shrimpify my gumbo?

It depends greatly on the other ingredients in the gumbo. If you have chicken in it, its a best bet to leave the shrimp out. But if there are oysters and crab claws, then shrimp will really add to the flaver of the gumbo. The flavors have to mesh together and compliment eachother. Hope I helped ;)

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i need to know how to make a good peanut butter and jelly sandwich

Here is how I make mine.

1. Get your bread out and set it on a plate (You may toast it if you want, I do.)
2. Get out the PB&J (I like crunchy peanut butter and grape jelly.)
3. Mix the both in a bowl. Mix it well! It may look gross, but it tastes lots better.
4. Spread it evenly across the bread.
5. Scarf it down!

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does anyone know like a technique to quit ciggaretes without money...im not legaly old enough to buy anything with nicotine and i really wanna quit but its a bitch..anyone know nething?? thanks for your time

Start chewing gum, my uncle quit by chewing gum every time he had a hankering for a ciggarette.

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How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll!

If you would like to tone up your legs, and not build up muscle in it, go running. Running is great for that sort of weight loss.

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well my dad and me where never close and when my parents spilt up i went with my mom i want to see my dad agian but i dont know how to act around him should i hate him or should i be nice? He told me he never loved me and i dont understand how you cant love your child..

Whoa, if he told you he never loved you and meant it, then you shouldnt give him the time of day. If he does not show you love, why then should you show him love?

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