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uh, i'm 15, loud, proud, and pleasently plump.
advice
My Hermit crabs have been acting funny lately! One of them is running around with no shell and the others havent came out from under the sand for weeeks.. is this normal for them?
if anyone has any good sites with information.. they are guarenteed a 5
the one without a shell...is looking for a bigger one...and the other ones are probably sleeping...depends on what part of the world they are from.
I'm fourteen and I hang around in a group of five girls. Let's call them Sam, Lisa, Hannah and Natalie. Individually, they're all fine, but when we're in a group then Sam, Lisa and Hannah turn totally bitchy to Natalie and I.
Natalie agrees with me about this but she won't stop hanging around with them as she's scared of what they'd do.
I'm not strong enough to leave my group of friends completely and although I have told other people about this, none seem to offer useful advice.
I'm finding myself being jealous of everyone else because they have better friends than I do.
Please help.
lose 'em. don't put up with that crap. it's not worth it!
im 14/f/bi- since yesterday, it has been exactly 4 months since my ex Christina and i separated. she is still one of my closest friends though.i found out two weeks ago that she still wanted to be with me. Me and her started getting all close in her room, then she asked me back out. So me and her went back out, but then she broke it off because she said she needed some more time to think. A couple weeks ago i was going out with this one girl Geanna. Geanna and Christina also went out with eachother but a month and a 1/2 before me and geanna started dating. Geanna and i only lasted about a week. She told me she broke up with me because she didnt want to come between me and Christina. A couple days ago, i found out that Christina and Geanna are going back out. i dont know what to make of all this. Can somebody try and explain to me what just happened?
they are trying to screw w/ u. No one should deal with that crap...lose them both...look for another. move on!
I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do?
well...if you really wanted to help...tell someone...call the police...no one should worry about college tuition when it comes to rape! good luck.
k so last year i was really obsessed with pink and i re-decorated my room so that it is all pink and like green (way more pink though) i really like the colors orange and yellow but my parents said that I can't paint my walls another color for at least 3 years! also i probably shouldn't get a different bed spread because for 3 years in a row i have gotten a new bed spread so i think it might be getting a little ridiculous! if you have any ideas of places to get good decorating stuff that is orange or yellow please tell me (and please be specific cause i rate really well!) thank you so much
...e-bay...
now im not blowin my own trumpet or anything, but im a pretty good singer. recently i entered this singing competition, but im getting really neervous about the first heat. i hardly ever sing in front of people (except at my singing lessons) and im getting really nervous - its on the 24th of jan and i dont even know what song im going to sing! can anybody help with calming down about this, coz im really scared im going to do REALLY badly on the day!
i'm a fellow singer as well. all i cansuggest is that u avoid anything that causes allergies, because that can cause your throat to close up, and u wont be able to sing. lay off the cafine, it hurts your vocal cords. also, drink hot tea w/ honey the night before, and morning of. it will help clear out your throat and help you sing. make sure you warm up really well before you go sing, and you should be perfestly fine. good luck, and have fun. please rate me!
I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!!
um, it sounds like she is trying to take advantage of you. don't let her do this to you. if she really is taking such advantage of you, well then i'm afraid to tell you, she really isn't your friend at all.
good luck.
my relationship of 5 years is going down the drain. we have a one and a half year old. today he got upset because he could not find me. he was at work and i went to school to do some papers. when he got off of work he called me a bitch and a whore and he did not believe me that i was at school. i was about to go back to school for class so he hid my makeup, messed up my hair, and threw laundry around the house. then he followed me to school with his bright head lights on. my son was crying and i told my boyfriend to change his diaper and put him to sleep while i go to school cuz he was fussy. his reply was he was not going to do shit. i am stuck as what to do. i do not work much cuz i am a college student. is it ever ok to tolerate this kind of behavior. it is becoming regular. what should i do and how can i do it? i am bad at making decisions, especially the right ones. thanks for listening.
omg. okay, talk to him. give him ONE last chance. if he loses it, that's it. pack up your son, and get out of there. he could really start doing more than just emotional damage. he could attack you, or worse yet, your son. god luck, i hope u get through this safe and emotionially unscarred.
im almost 15 and theres this guy thats 19 that ive reallly liked for a while. i dont know how to get over him, and he already left for college.....
i dont really know what to ask but if anyone has any advice thatd help
thank youuuu
did he like you back? because unless he did, your feelings were unnessicary. all you can do is let time pass, and you will get over him. there is unfortunately nothing else you can do, time must run it's course.
My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for a little over 2 years. I know he really loves me, and I really love him too. The thing is, is that he has always had a fantasy of having a 3-some with me and another girl. He said it's only going to be a one time thing, and that the other girl isn't going to mean anything to him- it's just his fantasy. I understand what he is saying and I want to do this for him, but I know I would feel REALLY uncomfortable doing it and I'm not quite sure I could go through with it. I keep telling him I don't really know if I want to- but he keeps bringing it up every now and then. It makes me feel bad when I tell him no. What am I supposed to do, or what should I say to him?
wow. that is, well, very hard to answer. if he is having fantasies, i really dont know what to say to that. who is he having fantasies of? is he forcing you to do this?
My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS!
u just need to be in close proximity to him. thats ok, just so long as u dont get too clingy or needy. maybe he just isnt good at expressing himself until he is around you, maybe you inspire him. idk, talk to him, let him know about your feelings.
My guy friend and I just started liking eacother..( begining of thanksgiving break )..and we just told eachother * which is something I like NEVER do * but I am so afraid that he'll just change his mind..and I'm gonna feel SOO weired on monday at school. Ahhh what do I do..we're not like BEST friends but we're pretty close..and I've never felt this way about another guy before. Please Help!!
ok, he likes u, u like him, whats the prob? granted, it is weird at first transitioning from friends to something more, but if u really care about him, it wont matter.
15/f
Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!
it hurts.
like hell.
i'm sorry, there is nothing u can do besides take tons of tylenol.
but dont overdose.
that would be bad.
colors?
doesnt really matter.
i cheated on my bf, i know bad thing big mistake and i told him i was sorry then we were ok .. but then a few weeks after we broke up and were still friends but now 6 months after he hates me, talks bad about me alll the time and says i did alll this stuff with the guy i cheated on him with but i didnt and i dont know why hes sayin these things, he should just get over it, after all it was 6 months ago!! .. but he wont he keeps on talkin about it and now were not friends anymore .. but i still want to be his friend and be able to talk to him and stuff but how can i when he hates me and doenst even wanna talk to me
hmmm, i dont know y u cheated on him, or y he was ok with it, but it seems like he is finally letting his real feelings show. talk to him, and if he wont talk to you, have a friend talk to him. find out what is bothering him so much
ok, i'm really good friends w/ this guy. we get along great, and i know there's potential for us. however, he is EXTREMELY attractive, and i feel like he flirts alot. does he have feelings for me, or is he just a playboy?
ask him how he feels.
Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.
ok, you have to ask yourself, " why did we break up?" if you see the reason you broke up could occur again, drop him. no matter what your feelings are, never set yourself up for heartbreak.
okay well theres this guy that i rlly rlly rlly like but he's a grade lower than me and hes moving at the end of the year
wow. hard question. ok. maybe get a friend to casually ask, or one of his? but really, in this situation, the best thing to do would be to just be honest. tell him how you feel, and see how he feels.
Okay theres a boy I like lets call him TS and hes goin out wit one of my best friends, EC! Ts seems to flirt wit me and everyone sais we look like we are goin out. I dont understand!!!!! The problem is that I set them up and EC knows that I like TS. They barely eva talk but I have three classes with him. We talk all the time. Im really hurt because im the one who has to pass notes bac and forth ( there arent too many either ). Wat should I do? Should I tell him? Should I stop helping them?
Im desperate I really like him PLEASE HELP!
wow. i've been through this. i'm sorry, you missed your chance. if your friend is going out with this guy, then you can't make a move, no matter what TS does. sorry.
Hi, i asked this kid to a football game 2nite and my friend who was wit me, sed he looked sorta excited whjen i asked him, he sed he didn't know if he cud make it to it or not and i was like ook ad then jjust forgot anout it hten at the game tonite, i saw him there. Do you think that he was perposuly ditching me? or he really wasn't sure if he culd make it, and he had no way of reacing me when he realized he could go? He didn't have my # or anything either.
hmm, thats a difficult question. perhaps he was waiting for you to call him, or he decided to go with a bunch of friends instead. all i can say is, talk to him, see what he says, if you feel he is being dishonest, ask some ppl he hangs out with, if he ditched you, they would know.
how do you know if you are in love with someone?
female 16
hmm, if you are in love with someone, it's not physical. not about sex, or kissing, or anything like that, that's lust. love is when that person lights up your life, you always want to be withtthem, the empty hole that was in your heart is finally filled.
that's how u know.