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Four years ago I dated a really cool guy, he was all over me calling and going out for 4 months, then he just didn't show up for dinner one nite and we only spoke once briefly after that, he said he didn't need anyone worried about him. (He's a serious workaholic) but over the years i've run into him at a couple parties of mutual friends and just two weeks ago we ended up hanging out and i've been seeing him again since last, last sunday. He's being a doll and has picked up right where we left off! I'm pretty sure that, that is just his style - dates for 4-6 months then it's adios. I'm having fun, but trying to keep a step back, because it's inevitable that the same thing is going to happen. Do I just have fun for however long it lasts? (link)
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If you do that, you need to realize that he is going to do the same thing in 4months. Don't set yourself up to get hurt. As long as you understand that and are prepared I don't see why you can't enjoy yourself!
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hi
i think i might have mild depression.
i have bn reading about it on the web and most of the symptons match up to wat im feeling so does this mean im depressed?
i just feel so lonely n isolated in my own little world and i cut my self sum times.. not so it bleeds though just enuf to make the pain disapear.
can some one please tell me wat to do because i dont want any one to know, especially my family because i dont exactly get on with them. my friends wont help either..
sorry its long.. i rate 5's (link)
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Hey. I've been there. I use to cut really bad. You need to stop NOW. Dumb as it sounds you get "addicted" to it. Find another outlet for your depression. Also, depression isn't something you should let you get you down. I've been battling with it for months now. I've had no help except from my BF. You don't need meds, or shrinks to help you with this. you need to talk to yourself. find out why you feel this way. if you dont know why (as i didnt) find something that makes you happy! try keeping an online journal(www.livejournal.com) or a written one. It isn't something to be ashamed of. a lot of kids have most syptoms of depression, its just all in how you deal with it.
(if you want to talk more just IM me on horsesare666es)
and dont let the dumb people on here get you down. cutting is more common than u think(but that doesnt make it okay)
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Okay what's the dIfference between a Four-stroke and two-stroke? AnnD..for the sizes (300, 350, 400, 450) the smaller the number, is that the smaller the Quad? Or does it stand for something different? ThNx soo much!! (link)
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2 and 4 strokes is mainly about the engines. 4strokes are coming more popular for many reasons but its mainly engine and internal stuff. and yes, the sizes you are right about that. same in dirtbikes, a 50 is like knee high and a 450 is huge. its the same for quads. (a 300 is smaller than a 400) and such
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hi, well i have been very confused lately on my sexuality. i've always been dating guys and shit. but this year, i think i've been atracted to girls as well. i mean, im still atracted to guys, but i think i am to girls too. i've made out with alot of girls, but that was for like fun and shit. but now i really think im attracted to girls too. am i bisexual? and if you have rude comments, save them for your self. (link)
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Oh hun, but it doesn't matter! Knowing your sexuality isn't a very important thing. It won't change who you are! People ask me all the time, i change me answer all the time. Half the school thinks im a lesibian. i dont know if im even bi and i've dated girls too! but it really doesnt matter! if you really need to know, its gonna take a few years of exaiming yourself to find out.. no one else can tell you if you are, only you can
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i am in middle school and i am a girl so here are my questions that i have for you. there is this guy at my school and he likes me and i like him, but he just does not want to hook up with me. why is this? he doesnt even talk to me or anything. what should i do to make him talk to me? i want to flirt with him but i just dont know how. he is the shy type and that is why we never talk to each other at school or at pratice. what should i do? how do i make him like me more and how do i get him and i to flirt with me again? (link)
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BEWARE:
I also knew a guy like this, turned out he never liked me and just said that. make sure ur guy in telling the truth, then do wat the other people said. group hangout and such. just double check so u dont get hurt.
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ok like all the guys and some of the girls at my school are really mean they tell me all the time that im ugly and that i have no friends or life and that no one will ever love me and this other group of kids at lunch came up to me and told me that they thought i was ugly and then laughed right in my face . i wanted to cry so bad .and all my friends tell me to just ignore them but thats easy for them to say because they are popular .and ihave already told the principal and he said that there was nothing he could do and i just want another opinon on this. (link)
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Screw them. You WILL find a guy/girl to love you someday. The principal really can't do anything, but you can talk to a school cousnler and such. At my school, visits to the guidance office is a regular thing. people like that, are insecure, little badwords. (ha i didn't know if i should say it on the site). Even if it seems like they are so ever high and popular, its because they're so lonely they surrond theirselves by people and are forced to show off to keep those people in tow. don't worry about them. School may seem hard. But it gets better. you said you had friends who tell you to ignore it. be thankful you have freinds who CARE about you. why do u need those "jerks" anyways? dont get down on yourself. your beautiful, and one day, the perfect guy will see you and fall in "love". goodluck with life!
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Hello all~
Thank you for taking the time to read and answer this. I wanted to know if there are any cool websites that can give me cool poems, away messages, random facts, or anything worthwhile. I am on the computer a lot and would like to find sites that are new to explore. Thank You Very MucH!!! 15/f (link)
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www.iconator.com
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ok sry this is long
here it goes...at the beginning of junior high (7th grade) there was five in our group lets call them k,j,b,a,and s (a is me) lol
that year we were unseperable i was the crazy stupid blonde k was the smart one j was the hyper one b was the one who kept us out of trouble and s was the drama queen we sometimes fought (mostly s fault) but it never tore us appart (we were the second most popular group) but in 8th grade things started to suck see k has a twin sis who is like the most popular girl in school (well almost).... me j and b started to hang out by ourselves because s and k started to hang out with the popular girls they left us out of a ton of stuff like parties.. we barley do things with them...now j and b have been kind of leaving me out and i dont know what to do it makes me feel really bad (they always make fun of me) i know if they make me feel bad they really arnt my friends but they are and if i didnt have them there would be no one else to hang out with theyve just been rude lately and i feel if i tell them they will make fun of me so what im asking is do you think there going to ditch me like s and k did us? (link)
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I really don't mean to be the one to bring the bad news. But yes, its a possibility. That exact thing happened to me. I had two VERY close friends. In 8th and 9th grade we began to fall apart. I still talk to the one a lil n hang on weekends, but the other one never. But now i have new friends. They are more than i could ever ask for. I dont mean to rant on about myself, but this isnt necessarily a bad thing. ur not going to have the same five friends for life hun!! Just dont change urself for them. you;ll find new friends. even if it doesnt seem like that now
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Hi im Jess i love soccer very much and i enjoy it until my coaches ruin it. If i make one little mistake they yell alot. I hate when they do that because im having a great time until they come along and ruin it what can i do to avoid their annoyance to me. thx i rate high
love Jess (link)
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I know this sounds school coulsner ish. But your letting them ruin it. I get more motivated when my Coach flips out on me, I want to be the best possible player. When he yells, I yell back and go back and do exactly what he told me to. believe it or not, they can help you get more agressive and be a better player. you just have to have thick skin. gl!
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Hi im Jess i am 13 years old and i have a boyfriend that is the greatest. Well sometimes we have these little fights over something stupid and we usually brake up cause we were imature. Anyways now that we sorta grew up i was wondering after getting in a fight what can we do just to get past this problem so it wont result to an other brake up? plz help i rate good.
~From Jess~
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If you fight a lot, that's probably a sign. My old BF and I fought constanly. We finally broke up and were happier that way. But if its only little fights everyonce of a while, try to be more understanding, or learn to drop it. but don't be like
"FINE! I DONT CARE!" That's not cool. LOL. Simply tell him you don't want to fight. Start a different conversation. But be cool about it. Hope i helped!
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Hi im Jess i really need to know how can i get more aggressive in soccer because i love the sport ive been playing for 9 years and i just cant seem to get aggressive. Ive heard people say i need t get more aggressive but i dont know how so if anyone has any ideas plz let me know. Thx
~Love Jess~ (link)
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I love Soccer to, mainly cause the contact. Before you go out on the field, get yourself pumped up. Have it so your going to explode if you don't get that ball. Don't let anyone get in your way for it. Just get yourself really hyper and ready to go.
besides, A little pain never hurt anyone. So don't be afriad to get in there and rough it up! Gl. Hoped i helped!
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Ok,I'm a guy that has always liked women's clothes.And am finally starting to go out dressed,but I really need some help with fashion....like what are the best placeses too shop and what are some clothes that I should have to start a basic wardrobe?? I already have a few skirts....black,gray and deninum. What will I need for spring and summer?? also what about shoes ? (link)
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*worships the ground u walk on* if i was a guy.. I'd so be gay. lol. N i'm really glad when i checked the asnwers i was afraid people were gonna be asses. but they werent. *worships the other people* n yeah, abercrombie i'd say would prolly be a good bet. couple of my gay friends go there n like it a lot.
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I need help for hair... i want to do something kwel with my hair like an messy bun.... but i cant.... does anyone know how to do an messy bun!!!!
i rate 5 if it works!!!!
Also my hair is really thick!!!
HELP ME !!!!! (link)
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with my hair that is thick also, i put it into a fairly low ponytail. twist it so it wraps around the top of the ponytail then just wrap another hair tie around it twice. really hard to explain online. but if done right... it does produce a messy bun lol. hope i helped some!
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Okay, I'm 14/f and i love boys to death, but lately i've been very attractive to my best friend and she's 13/f.My friend and i have experimented 3 times and we've both liked it. When we get intimate with each other we never think of guys either it's strange. I'm not attracted to any other girls. I feel that if she doesn't like me back when i tell her how i feel about her i will get over it and go back to guys again. I've never had a liking for woman just my best friend. Does this mean i'm bisexual or i'm confusing my feelings with "FRIENDSHIP LOVE." Help a girl out!! (link)
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YOUR 14! You don't know if your bi sexual. Or straight. I've dated girls and guys. "experimented" with each and I STILL don't know. For most of my friends it took them a couple of years exploring to figure out their sexuality. i've only felt strong sexually feeling for a few woman. as i've only felt strong sexually feelings for a few guys... Ur 14... Don't worry about it. Just take ur life slow and see where you are in a few years then examine your sexuality.
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I was just wondering, I'm only a freshman, and I'm only 14 but I already have an idea of 3 colleges I want to go to, UNC chapel hill, Appalachian State, or Meredith. I was wondering, I know I have to get super good grades to get scholarships and stuff, but how do I go about getting them, and what scholarships are available, or where I can get information on how to get a scholarship. I want to start working towards getting better grades now so I can prepare for my future. If it makes any difference I want to be a teacher.
If this is confusing then sorry, I pretty much just want information on scholarships grade wise, I live in NC, but I don't think that matters. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Scholorships...My parents are on me as well to get them.
Grades and SAT scores are VERY important. Also, take every honor and AP course that comes your way. Join sports, after school acitivities and get some community service hours (ones school hasnt forced upon you)
College will want to see a high GPA, high SAT, after school activities, good behavior, and such. As for info on certian scholorships, when applying to schools you can be awarded a private scholorship for that school. you can also get scholorships through your school for the community college and such. Ask your guidance cousler for more.
hope i helped. good luck.
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well im really trying to lose weight and my friend told me to run a mile 5 days a week then next week run 2 miles and so on if i did that up to 10 miles how long would it take me to lose about 45 pounds? (link)
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WEEE! I run too! Well, running 10 miles is a lot :). I run 1.5 or 1mile every day. Trying to get faster. If you add in 25 crunches, and 25 situps you'll loose weight MUCH faster.
also, get in pushup position. then, instead of putting weight on your hands go down so your fore arm is on the ground. hold for as long as possible. if done right its an incredible workout for your abs!
((run up hills as well to get a better shape))
Eating whenever u are only very hungry, and eating right will also help. If u only run it will take longer.
:)Hope I helped.
Have fun running.
PS. I listen to really bouncy fast music turned up loud to get my hyper and ready to go. it helps pass the time.
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hey i am going to formal soon and i got a dress and its really long down to the floor and stuff but soo pretty. and so then i find out everyone is wearing like shorter drsses like to their shins but mien is past the floor so wat do i do? i dont wanna be over dressed but i love this dress... wat wud u do (link)
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WEAR IT! if you like it and it's pretty wear it! Be different! LOL> go have fun. You dont want to look like everyone else...stand out a bit. look ur best
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wow okay well im 14 and im not OVERWEIGHT but im on the high level of where people my age are suppose to be i mean im not skinny but im not fat like ...i just got a little gut.but im in a lot of active thigns..over summer...but during winter i dont do any thing and i hate it ..im usualy on 3 softball leagues and then voelleyball so i loose weight from there..any idea's? PLEASE ... (link)
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CRUNCHES! n situps. Wonderful things if you just want to work on your gut :) If you ca run after school. *It's not that cold out after you run a mile* just make sure to stretch. And do the whole "eat right" thing. But crunches are wonderful for your abs and guts if done properly.
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So my mom and my dad fight constantly and they are kind of alcholics...I always find myself crying myself to sleep and wishing that i had different parents...But neway..one night my dad locked me and my mom out of the house and it was so bad that my mom had to call the police on him....I have never done nething to my dad to make him treat me this way....This may sound horribe but im actually terrified of him...What should i do...please i need advice really bad bcuz this is something that has been bothering me for awhile and i never really had the guts to talk to ppl about it......HELP! (link)
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You need to call Social Services. This is a serious issue. You need to get out and away from your Dad ASAP. I've had friends who have this problem and it clears up once they call them and get away from the abuse.
I do not know the number but tell your school cousler. they will know.
find a friend where u n ur mom can stay at. get away.**even if ur mom loves him n feels guiltly u need to convince her this is the safest thing for u and her.**
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Is there anything i can do for a sore tailbone? Plz Help! (link)
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Sit in those little inflatable tubes little kids use in the pools. NO really. I lived in one for like a week when i cracked mine. then bruised it. then bruised it agian. Use your arms to get up like pick urself up with them.dont like psuh off with ur backside...
no realy...the little donut thing is a miracle for a sore tailbone
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