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Hey everyone! Well let me tell you people about myself ..I love giving advice to people. I've been through so much stuff and if you ever need me..im here! So leave me questions and i will get to you as soon as i can, promise! I'm 16, i love to dance, sing, act and i love to help people. Im a great listener& i love to hear whats goin on! so if anyone ever needs me, leave me some questions, or IM me HIximchristine! Thanks.

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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX

babe, ive been in one of those "online relationships" before and they suck..you might think you know this person but maybe you really dont, maybe hes just saying stuff that you want to hear..if i were you i would get outta that relationship fast! cause that could lead to bad things

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hey ok im on a diet and im afrid that if i lose to much weight i will look funny!! and i dont want my boobs to shrink or anything. and this is only the first day of it and its goin pretty good but im scared that soon ill get sick of it and quit i dont know what to do can someone please give me suggestions on ways to like stay on my diet thank * i rate *

okay, keeping a diet is not always easy. its wicked hard..for me atleast. Well i think you could just make yourself stick to it! Keep a journal, eat like a banana&yogurt for Breakfast then write it down in the journal, then for lunch have like a salad with a little bit of dressing if you want & then write that down in your journal, then for dinner you can have what ever you want..but healthy. Have like chicken and some elbow pasta(plain) with a side of carrots and then for drink have water or a diet soda! HOPE I HELPED!

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my bedroom tends to gets really messy.There is not enough closet space for all my clothes & not enough storage space for all my belongings. my room isn't that big and i need some ideas on how i could organize my stuff. any ideas are really appreciated. thanks so much!!


~~~Chelsey~~~

you could probably clean up your room..everywhere..and then buy a closet that you can put in your closet..like i have one, it comes with shelves and eeverythign and it works great..you could get that and organize your closet! and then maybe you could get cubes to put your clothes in and stuff.

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what are some good sleeping pills (probably presription) that are good for teens? yeah i DONT sleep. thanx

UHm idk, but you should ask your doctor, cause i take sleeping pills like as a perscription but i asked my doctor and she recommended me them cause i told her i couldnt sleep at all cause i have to much shit goin on in my head but tlk to your doctor!

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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.

if he likes you and you like him..i think you should tell him how you feel, i mean he wouldnt be leaving little hints that he likes you if he didnt. I know he has a girlfriend but if he wants to be happy with you then he should be with you.. the girlfriend should just back off even though she was 1st. But babe, just tlk to him..ask him what he thinks and then go from there!

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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?

I know you friend has a disorder but try tlking to her telling her to try to not be so compulsive..just to calm down! i mean try and work it out

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I had boyfriends and girlfriends at the same time. currently i have neither. i am 15 year old female and ive fingered,frenched,ate out, a girl and have had same done to me. BUT all ive done with guys is make out and a little fondling from him to my chest area. I think I kinda like girls more at times there more understanding besides gay guys there actually the best friends there caring. but a girl can be more sensitive. so since ive done all this stuff with a girl and little with a guy...im bi right? not lesbian? i want to bi and i feel for both genders. but ive done MUCH more with females. and i love it soooo much. ive frenched countless girls and more than once mainly and ive been eaten out 4 times. a guy has barely got far on me....so i dont even know what im asking in a way...am i a bi or lesbo.....is it wrong to be bi...and how can i be more pleasureful on eating a girl out and how can i show a guy im ready to go further but not have sex?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hun, i think your bi, not a les. i mean i know that you might like being with girls more than guys but you like both so you deff. bi. I mean try to be more intimate with a guy just to see if you like but dont have sex..just oral and shit and if you try things with a guy and you dont like it..then your deff. a les..but its not a bad thing cause boys with boys is beautiful and girls with girls is too so dont be ashamed cause everyone excepts everyone!

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okay so i know that i'm not like, overweight, but theres some extra fat around my hips and stomach, does anyone know any good excercises to get rid of this? ty so much!

idk what kind of exercises but you could try to concentrate on machines that just work your hips and your stomech..like do like crunches or something to work your abs and stomech and then youll probably loose that stomech fat and then for the hips you can do some leg ups-&-downs! it works..

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when you tell somebody that you "like them like them" , would (and or should)timeing be everything? because i feel thats how it's going with this one guy..

timing should be everything! I mean if you want this guy to be with you then you should time everything..i mean you dont always have to do what life gives you but like you should make plans to do something with him. Like you should go up to him and kiss him but make a plan at what time your gonna do it! HOPE I HELPED!

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What is a lap dance? And what is oral sex? My friend talk about that and i just sit and listen.. but nothing i understand.

A lap dance is when you dance and grind on a guys lap and do sexy things on top of him and oral sex is when you use your mouth..for like head for instance.

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Me and my mom made a dealy bribe about the PSAT; I read a big book on it and take a practice test, and I could get somethin special. She had been really adamant about not getting a second hole before (I'm 13), and this is the first time shes actually said that I could (I've done a bunch of bribes before that she held out on.) But also, she said, instead that I could get a new, fancy schmancy cell phone instead of a second hole, maybe even she would split the price on a laptop! (But that would be all my $$.) What should I do? lol
-Bribe schmibe

I think you should talk to your mom and tell her what you wanna do, if you want a new cell phone instead of a second hole (which i think is better than a second hole) then you should deff. should get a new cell! But you should ask her if can pay for the laptop so you can save that money for college..maybe she'll say yes. idk try it.

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i like this guy and i have for awhile. and then someone finally told him that i liked him and he said that he liked me a little. and then it became vacation and i havent talked to him in a awhile but i still like him and i don't think that he will like me @ all nemore. how do i make him like me? should i still like even if he doesnt like me?

well babe, if you seriously like him and he likes you then hes not gonna let stupid vacation keep him from liking you! I mean i think you should tell him how you feel when you get back to school and maybe then you can start going out, just make the best of it! and it will be fine

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im 14/f and i really like my brothers best friend. we are always flirting but i know my brother gets really mad. i wouldnt care what my brother thinks but we recently started talking more and gotten close..my brothers friend is 16..i dont know if i should pursue my secret crush on this boy or just back off?

I think you should persue it! i mean if your brother gets mad..then thats his problem. He should want you to be happy. i mean if hes just lookin out for you then thats a different story.Just see what happpens and if thing get serious then go for it!

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Okay, 3 of my very good friends think they're fat... and they're NOT!!! we're only 13 years old and they've been going on all these diets. They hardly eat anything at lunch! I cant convince them that they're not fat! I'm really afraid they're going to go anorexic or bulemic. I dont know what to do, or what to say to them to convince them they're not fat. I've talked to them MANY times about it, but they just dont believe me. It really bugs me that they think they're fat, cuz they're not fat AT ALL! please help me!

Bring them infront of a mirror, say "what do you see" then they will answer..if they say i see a fat cow or somethinn..tell em what you see and tell them they arent fat and then maybe they'll say "hey, im not, im not fat" ..hey thats just my perspective..thats how i would do it

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me and my step sister are extremly close. we met when i was in 6th grade, and now i am 13 and she is 20. i can talk to her about anything, and even though she moved back to waco whenever she vists we have the best times. but now she has a serius boyfriend and i dont think we are as close! i am getting along with him but feel like me and her are drifting apart. what should i do?

Your step sister is mature and responsible so you should tlk to her cause she will totally understand! BOYS COME AND GO BUT SISTERS ARE FOREVER! just remember that babe and tlk to her

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I moved to a new school in the 8th grade and i am now on 9th. I had really good friends but i let them go becuase they werent popular and i kno its sounds really dumb and shallow but thats how i used to think i really want to become friends with the popular girls and they arnt liek snobby or anythign they can keeo secrets and they r just as good as real friends. But i dont know how to become good friends with people anymore.

omg babe i can totally relate, this same thing happend to me 7th through 8th grade. i was a wreck cause i didnt know who my TRUE friends were which i really wanted to find. Its okay to try to fit in..but dont be a bitch or act all cool and shit. I mean you should try to be yourself and not try to fit in cause maybe your just born to stand out! Just find who you are and be happy with it. i mean im sure not happy but i do have a good life!

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I cant ever find the right guy for me. Most guys get mad becuase i always turn them down and they think i do it to make myself look to good for them. I just want to be with someone that i can tlak to and someone i find attractive someone who can make me laugh and someone who i can have a good time with. I cant seem to find anyone out there.

babe, your time will come! i mean there are plenty fish in the sea. You should just try to see whats out there, like see a guy you think is cute, ask for his number, call him, get to know him and maybe tthen that will lead into attraction and relatioN! hope i helped!

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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

i think going to prom is cool. i mean if you wanna go and have a fun time then go ahead but if you wanna wait then thats a good option too. but your prom is gonna be so much different from theirs so it would be okay cause you can still have fun both times! But i admit have your prom once..is pretty special so you should wait! but its your choice!

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i wrote b4 about how my friend gets really frustrating and annoying, and every1 told me that i shoulldn't be friends with her, but its not that simple. one, anybody who just outright says ur so annoying she doesn't take seriously and just thinks they're joking, even after they tell her they aren't, and two, if i just go up to her and be like: i dont think we should be friends, we dont get along, etc etc, that would be really mean, and i have most of my classes @ skool with her, sitting right next to her, and i wouldnt be able to do it anyway.is there some other option?

dropping friends is never really that easy. Once i had to, and i was just like "We cant be friends anymore, you annoy the heck outta me" i mean i wasnt trying to be a bitch but then she kept trying to tlk to me so i just ignored her and went my seperate ways. I mean yeah its hard when you have alot of classes with her but just try and keep it all together and just drop her without being a bitch..cause it would hurt her! So just try your best and if it doesnt go as smoothly as planned..then just think, you tried!

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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them?

okay, it sucks having friends like that and being treated like that! i can relate..ive beeen treated like that all my life. But if they do call you should say "Dont call me anymore, if you want my friendship back then you have to come to me and fucken tell me to my face! All of you not including me when we are supposed to be friends pisses the fuck outta me, im so glad i had friends who wanted to be my friend" And i bet they'll say something..this could lead to great possibilities! But babe just keep your head up and try making more better friends that actually keep you included! i mean you dont need friends that fucken treat you like shit! THE ONLY PEOPLE YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO NEED YOU IN THERES!!

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