im 14/f and i really like my brothers best friend. we are always flirting but i know my brother gets really mad. i wouldnt care what my brother thinks but we recently started talking more and gotten close..my brothers friend is 16..i dont know if i should pursue my secret crush on this boy or just back off?
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 5:58 pm: Well i would talk to your brother first about it and just let him know that you like him alot and you want to give it a try and that you want him to not be mad-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday January 2 2005, 3:49 pm: Follow your heart and do what you want to do but always remember that family comes first. Why don't you talk to your brother about this? If you ever do start a relationship with his friend, don't you think his friend would spend more time with you and instead of his friend, your brother? How would he feel about that? Just think about it and make the right decision. Hope I helped :)
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hiximchristine answered Sunday January 2 2005, 3:25 pm: I think you should persue it! i mean if your brother gets mad..then thats his problem. He should want you to be happy. i mean if hes just lookin out for you then thats a different story.Just see what happpens and if thing get serious then go for it! [ hiximchristine's advice column | Ask hiximchristine A Question ]
x0xTinax0x answered Sunday January 2 2005, 3:18 pm: I would talk to your brother about it because if it bothers him you should just back off, becaue like you said, you and him have just started getting closer, and talking more. So I think it depends. But anyways, talk to your brother, and if he's fine with it, please make sure, and pursue your secret crush on the boy. I hope I helped.
MCalways answered Sunday January 2 2005, 2:48 pm: It all depends on what you want to do. If your worried about your brother..ask him why he doesn't like you hangin with his friend. Is it because it makes him feel wierd? or maybe he knows things about this boy that might hurt you in the long run! Talk w/ your bro. [ MCalways's advice column | Ask MCalways A Question ]
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