For some reason, I am only attracted to older men. I'm 19/f and guys my own age are just so unappealing to me. I'm working full time and I'm also in school full time, so it's possible because I'm around older people so much that I just don't relate to guys my age anymore. But is this weird? My last two boyfriends were 22 and 24, respectively. And I've been talking to this 30 year old I work with and I just don't want people to think it's weird that I can't be with guys my own age. Anyone have any opinions on this? Can anyone relate?
Thanks!
well damn. 80s music? you're quite the rare one indeed. Dudes are like whisky. when it first comes out of the still, it's immature, tacky, and unrefined. let it age for a while, and it turns into a delightfully mellow after-dinner drink(and for some of our friends, a morning eye-opener). I was a Jackass for a pretty solid block of my post-high school life, and now, I'm a bit more refined and mature(or at least I hope).
I've dated chicks in a range of 8 years older to 7 years younger than myself. While a younger woman certainly livens up the party, after going through a few of those, I left the phase for two reasons, one- they're for the most part, more illogical and insane than the average woman, and two- explaining how everything works gets really annoying. Though it is nice to have a neat little vixen for arm candy, does an older chap like myself really want to go dancing every weekend? I think its all about finding a person on the same level of maturity as yourself.
-Gunner
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I just want to know. WAY DO DOGS get STUCK when their having S....?
its in the overall engineering of their "components". dog penises are designed to get stuck in a bitch's vagina. the phenomena evolved to ensure proper insemenation of the bitch.
-Gunner
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how to ignore your boyfriend
thats like asking how to water the lillies. you just do it. as to why you would want to do such a thing...
-Gunner
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I hit my head on a fluorescent light bulb and it shattered everywhere. My head really hurts because I hit it really hard. There wasn't any mercury on the floor or anything but no I'm really scared that I might die of mercury poisoning! help!
no. you will not die of mercury poisoning. to do so would require drinking an entire thermometer's worth of it. and not that little thing you use when you have a fever, no, I mean the giant one that you see in a science lab.
-Gunner
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I'm a 19 year old male of mixed race. My life has been a nightmare starting with my childhood. I was beaten by my religious fanatic father regularly, and was molested by my babysitters 12 year old daughter at the age of 7. Every close friend I made from kindergarten to elementary school moved away. I began setting fires and choking dogs and hamsters from a young age, and have always wanted to kill people. I have been bullied throughout my life for various reasons, and at one point planned on shooting up my high school. I was kicked out of 2 high schools for fighting and subsequently attempted suicide twice. I have been to psychiatric hospitals and have been in counseling for years. I seem to only attract emotionally abusive women, and my friends always betray me. I see no value in human life, and could easily torture anyone to death, even my whole family and feel nothing. I don't have any emotions and I don't think there is nothing I can do to change at this point. What should I do?
well, you can't exactly fix that with duct tape.
consider doing an audit of yourself. what do you like about being you, and what do you not like? based off of that, change your behavior. you're not going to be able to change the fact that you're a psychopath, but you will become whats called a functioning psychopath.
its all about self control at that point.
-Gunner
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ok im a female and only 18 but i do know a little about cars well just really mine and my parents' but yesterday i went out to warm my car up for work and it is parked on a hill, on the side of a street, and when i parked my gas light was on but i should of had enough gas to warm it up and gets down the road for gas but after it warmed up for maybe 5 mins it like stalled and my "check engine" light oil light and battery light came on.. now is it that im out of gas and just need some gas cuz of the hill or is there someone else thats worse wrong? I checked all the fluids and there fine. Please help me.
Sleepiesheep
you're parked on a hill. whatever gas you had left is pooled in your tank, away from the gas line. it's effectively empty. go get a five gallon can and put some gas in the car. once you have done that, try to start the car. those check engine lights should not come back on, depending on the car model, or actual condition of the vehicle. If the check engine lights are on after you start the vehicle, get it on level ground, shut the fucker off, leave it for five minutes, then turn it back on. if the lights are being caused by fluid pooling, this should fix it.
-Gunner
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The dogs leg is twisted and the bone was sticking out. They put bandages around her legs. will The shelter have to kill it? My brother took it to the vet today and she told him he would have to pay a lot of money to get the dog worked on and he doesn't have that kind of money. My brother had another dog we took to the shelter a while ago and they just killed it because they said it was too much money to take care of the dog. If we take it to the shelter ot humane society will she have to get killed?
yeah. but what are you going to be able to do about it? the animal needs serious medical attention, and y'all can't afford it. have some pity and bring it to the shelter.
-Gunner
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Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
sounds like this dude is just a jackass. don't play this horseshit game with him.
find somebody else.
-Gunner
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guys the top half of my body is normal and i like how i am, but the bottom half is weird. well i don't mean hips and all but i mean thighs, big thighs medium calves and big feet, i'm 10 and i am in like size 5 or 6. i feel bad about myself because some careless people that only think about themselves told me that i have fat legs and bif feet. please help i hate thinking of myself so porely, although i dont know if they just say it cause they think i'm better than them or they say it truthfully, do you have any suggestions???
calm down. you'll grow into them.
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I'm a 21 year old Indian female. For a few days now my past has been haunting me which includes the following: 1. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and he was a great guy and we were as intimate as is possible (which even resulted in something terrible which i think you can guess)so anyway we broke up a year back and now i feel very regretful about everything that happened between us...i mean at that time it felt right. The reason for my guilt is also the fact that in my culture and family such intimacy is not allowed, so every time i speak to my folks i feel like a criminal; 2.Since i was so sure of being with my boyfriend forever and i was the one who initiated the break up i have started hating myself as i could not keep the promise of commitment.And now i don't think I'll be able to handle another guy again. I'm really sad and disturbed please help me.
well, you can't go back and change the past, so learn to live with it. I've done some really messed up things before, but since I don't have a time machine, there's no point in me wasting my life feeling guilty about it. Same with you. move on, and it won't bother you as much.
-Gunner
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Every time I have to present something in class I get nervous standing in front of everyone. My knees shake and my voice starts trembling and changing. I had to present yesterday and my knees were shaking in front of everyone and my voice was shaking. It was embarrassing. I know most of my classmates, I don't know why I get nervous. I can't just pretend Im presenting to one person either. Sometimes I get so nervous people Laugh at me. I have to present something again on next tuesday, so how can I stop my knees and my voice from shaking?
PICTURE ALL OF THE PEOPLE IN THE ROOM WEARING CLOWN SUITS. thats how I do it. just look at them all.. they look ridiculous. self confidence can be had at the expense of others.
-Gunner
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and he loves to rub my belly and kiss it even talks to it ! I gain a little bit of weight but I'm not pregnant. Right before we'd go to sleep he'd rub it and says " I love you " and he kisses it. Is this weird ? Why does he do that ? Were both 18.
it's kind of strange, but every single one of us is strange in our own way. I do the belly rub thing too, mostly because when I did it while my ex was sleeping, she'd have a kicking fit in her sleep and thats just plain hilarious. its like blowing in a dog's ear, the reaction is so damn funny to watch you can't help but do it over and over. Though the "I love you" thing could be a little creepier than the norm.... but it depends how he's directing it- is it to you, via your belly, or is it to your belly in particular. or perhaps he's saying it to your eggs. in which case, he might be up to something.
-Gunner
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How is Karl Marx's theory of economic crisis relevant today? I understand we are in a recession and that has a lot to do with the theory but I dont really even understand all that much about the theory and how it applies to us today. I'm a bit lost. Please help! Thank you.
watch this-
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-e8rt8RGjCM
god, I love the british.
-gunner
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I need advice by people who have actually bought and have used Sean Higgins's book, "Wealth Without Risk". By watching the infomercial I am kind of convinced, but I want the opinion of a person who has actually bought the book. Please help me out.
I don't have to read the book to tell you it's a crock of shit. first off, there is no such thing as a free lunch. the title itself is completely preposterous. on top of that, its an infomercial that is aired at 2 in the morning. nothing good happens after 2 in the morning. I would trust the 1-900 number offering "wild erotica" before I trusted any one of those "get rich quick" schemes. because all you're doing by buying into that shit is helping the tool who wrote the book, get rich quick.
-Gunner
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Hello! So, I've been looking for an older convertible that is in good condition, oldest around 1970, included with air bags and seat belts. Pretty much ready to hit the road without falling to pieces. And that is for sale in New Jersey, or in neighboring states. Price is not so much an issue as I'm more concerned about it being safer rather than cheaper. But the lower the price, the better. Though, I have been having trouble finding such a car. If anyone knows any helpful antique car sites, antique car shops in the area, or know of a car that fits the description, that would be phenomenal.
Thanks! xoxo
PS: Sorry for being so picky!
you're not going to find a 1970s ragtop with dual airbags, or airbags at all. your best bet is to find a 1990s mustang or some crap car like that. you're going to want to read up on cars before you go looking around for starters. second- why in the hell would airbags make a difference in a ragtop? you're going to die if you get in an accident with a convertible that requires airbag deployment. the only thing an airbag will do in that situation is keep your corpse in good enough condition for an open casket funeral.
Now that that's been covered- I suggest you consider going on craigslist and searching for a car. given your requirement for both safety and wind in your hair, I'd suggest an early 90s SS Camaro with a T-Top. that way you still have a top frame support. or a pontiac.
But I suggest you just pick up the first reliable beater you find. why, you ask? because its going to cost you less in the long run, and convertibles suck in the winter- its cold as hell, they leak, they rot out.... not pleasant.
here's some cars for you to check out-
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2554143427.html
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2559122195.html
(this honda is a fast little critter with a lot of performance parts and entirely new engine- if you can drive stick, check it out.)
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2536506822.html
The mileage for this vehicle is ridiculously low. check it out. but if you plan on buying it, check all of the rubber hoses and belts(vehicles with ultra-low mileage tend to have dry-rotted rubber due to lack of use)
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2569619462.html
another sporty little honda
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2560998610.html
now, when people put in ridiculous subwoofers and shit like this, half the time they're the kind of person that ignores the maintenance on the rest of the vehicle. be advised.
http://cnj.craigslist.org/cto/2557944251.html
nice looking toyota with a sunroof. Toyotas are extremely well-built (that recall was the first they ever had), and I've seen this particular model being driven up mountains.
craigslist goes on forfuckingever, go check it out for yourself.
-Gunner
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I was recently pregnant. And I had a miscarriage. About a month ago... And my fiance and I have had sex twice since then. Last week, and well, tonight. I was wondering if it was possible to get pregnant so fast again. because my hormones are all over the place. I'm SO horny 24/7 now. And I haven't been this horny, EVER. Like it's constantly on my mind. And I can't stop it from being there. I basically attacked my fiance tonight. We haven't been seeing each other much for the past couple months, but I don't think it's anything to do with it because I was never this way even when we stopped hanging out as much because of his work. Any advice?
perhaps this is your way of coping with the miscarriage. perhaps its just pent-up from not being with your spouse as much as you'd like. either way, there's nothing wrong with it. have fun.
-Gunner
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I kind of accidentally meet a very kind male, he is 47 and I am a female 55. I was moving and he just took over, which was a Godsend. Later that evening we met downstairs and started talking. We ended up going into his apartment and in conversation, he had left his bra and dress out which later he admitted was not an accident, he said he enjoys crossdressing. I am just so excited, and to admit quite sexually excited about this. I want to help dress, buy wigs, false eyelashes, ect. ect. ect. How far should I go and generally what are the odds that this could turn into more?
damn, sound like you found the guy for you. next time you see him, ask him if he'd like to go shopping and dinner afterwards. the odds are well in your favor of this turning into more. unless he's gay.
good luck!
-Gunner
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I'm 23/female. I got out of a serious long term relationship recently, and am trying to date, but take things slowly. I don't want to have sex till I'm serious about someone, and I really don't think this is such an antiquated concept
I am occasionally somewhat naieve about men, as I'm bisexual and mostly dated one woman for the first part of my life, and then one guy for a long time.
What I want to know, is it natural for all guys to try and push for sex?
I went on a few dates with a couple different people, and even after I said "We arent going to have sex and I don't want to at this point" as we were kissing, they still try and push it in that direction. I slept with neither, obviously, but both situations got a little out of control, from my perspective of things.
Does it make a guy a jerk to push for that? Or is it just natural? I really don't want to have sex for the first few months of dating.
the dude's a jerk. any dude over the age of 22 that pushes for sex like that is a douche. yeah, I am making an exception for younger guys because they're jacked with hormones and are still figuring out 1-what to do and 2- how far they can push the issue and get away with it. any guy older than that is either going to respect your wishes, or prove himself to be a selfish piece of shit. Me personally, I just don't bring up the issue, I let the girl I'm dating broach the subject. to be honest with you, I see no point in pressuring a girl, because if it does turn into a long term thing,it's just a matter of time, and I am a very patient man. Or, look at it this way, say I nail a chick on the first date, knock her up, then discover that I absolutely HATE HER SOUL. That's an 19-years-to-life prison sentence.
enough of that tangent- Bottom line, thats not normal, nor is it socially acceptable.
-Gunner
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Hi I'm a guy and recently I had sex with two different partners. With the first girl, we used condoms and I got blowjob and sex afterwards. However, with the second girl, being drunk, we both gave oral without condoms and used condoms after for sex. From the looks of it, she gets around pretty often. And it's been about five days since I had sex with her and I have a very small red bump about quarter of an inch below my lower lip. I'm still pretty young so sometimes i get pimples, but this seem to be bit different looking than pimples. Could this be herpes? If so, which type of herpes could this be? What kind of things should i avoid doing for awhile? And would there ever be cure for herpes?
yeah, I've had this scare before, damn zits... wait a few more days, and if its still looking wierd, get it checked out. you should probably avoid doing anything involving another person until this whatever it is gets resolved. and as for a cure- there isn't one. valtrex and shit like that will keep it under control, but you're stuck with it for life and its still contagious.
-Gunner
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Under 21 / f
This is a little about my past 4 years. I basically have not been sober for longer than a day or two in 4 years, whether it be pot, pills, shrooms, salvia, drinking,..etc. For the year 1/2 Ive been drinking everyday, quitting everything else. I think Im an alcoholic. Very 'functioning', but I do love to drink.
Now, I quit drinking because it was beginning to be a major problem. Im no longer friends with people, I got taken advantage of, binge drinking when Im out, and Ive been drinking every day. Ive taken the first step of not drinking. But now what?
All of my friends with an exception of a smallll few drink. My band drinks. Everyone. Im at a weak point where I dont want to perform at bars or chill with everyone drinking yet.
-Would AA really be helpful?
-When does the craving subside?
-From anyone with an addiction, is it possible to be around it and stay strong?
-Also I need help finding out how to have fun. I live in Palm Beach, Florida if that helps.
Im a good person, but I want to be the best person I can be. Please help:)
yeah, AA is helpful. My parents have been sober for... 23 years? 1988, yeah, that sounds right.. anyways, I've been going to AA meetings since literally before I can remember, and I have seen a lot of people change their lives for the better through AA.
As for the cravings.. that doesn't stop for a while. it may fade, but that shit's still gonna be there. the wierdest part of it all, is the drunk dreams(you're having a really vivid dream in which you are drunk). I got those after I stopped drinking (the postwar bender was pretty rough), and a lot of my friends in the program have had them too.
as far as being around drugs and alcohol, try to stay away from it whenever you can for the first few years. its a pain in the ass, but its worth it if you want to keep your sanity badly enough. best thing you can do is make new friends. yeah, that sucks with your band, but at this point, you don't need that shit in your life.
and as for having fun- being sober doesn't mean being fun-free. hang out with the people you meet in AA. when you find the right ones, its like hanging around with a bunch of stand-up comedians.
http://www.aa.org/lang/en/central_offices.cfm?origpage=373&cmd=getgroups&state=Florida&country=United States
if you don't already know where to find them...
good luck.
-Gunner
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