about

hay ya'll

Well, im an only child, but I have lots of cousins ( 40 of em ) and I am a freshmen in high school, OH BOY! ( sarcasim, the international langue of the world ) I am a devoted christen and I am in chorus and FCA and I love to read.

Love Everybody,

*~Alexia~*

advice

i have a problem thats been getting to me for the past couple months. i cant be alone. like if im home by myself and not talking to any1, i have problems like i get worked up and upset and im not exactly sure what to do about it. i have asthma and do get panic attacks so thats basically why its a problem. my bf has been trying to help me, and when he talks to me i feel 1000x better, but he cant talk to me all the time and i totally understand that. any advice id greatly appreciate and i'll definately rate you.

thanks

I would try ,if your home alone, try to watch a movie and do wat I do, yell at the stupid people who do stupid things in the movie. If ur outside and alone, try having a conversation in your head. Like try remembering a conversation u had w/ your b/f a few days ago, or try talking to yourself in your head. I know it sounds retarded and stupid, but I have that same problem, I can't stand to be alone. I talk to myself in my head about things I'm currently debating in my life. It helps, it really does. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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The classic question.. No one will ever know the real answer but hey its always worth a try.
Im a blonde haired blue eyes 5'6 skinny girl. Everyone tells me im very pretty, im smart, and fun to be around. The problem, guys never ask me out?! I dont know why though? Ive had boyfriends in the past, and MANY guy friends but not alot of boyfriends. Whats the deal?! lol

How bout you do a Sadie Hawkins, ask the GUYS out. If you want to date a guy badly enough, ask them out! Go for it girl! Hope this helped.

P.S. - Don't seem so available, act like your taken.

*~Alexia~*

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hey
my best mate introduced me to dean through msn. we have never met but we have kinda connected. we have been through the same kind of emotional problems and the other day he said we should meet up and talk about things properly. i really want to as i need to talk about my life. but im scared because i dont like the way i look. i am overweight. do you think that will matter.
i want to meet him because wen we speak to each other its like we know exactley what each other mean. he helped me to get over self harming and a broken heart and i helped him to get over his thoughts of suicide and depression so we are very close emotionally, we just have never met.
do you think it would be a good idea?
thanx
xx
*emz*

I think that your weight should never be in the way of what you truly want. If he doesn't like b/c of it, then he's just as stuck up as any old guy. But, I think that you two should meet b/c you sound like you like him. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!

I feel the same way. Try getting extra long pads and wearing long shirts or tying your jacket around your pants. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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http://www.flashplayer.com/animation/imissyoudaddy_movie.php


Watch that,

It makes me cry hastaicalyy (sp), and i think its because my dad is never home and he doesnt appericate me, he pays attention to my sister. Today i asked him if i can have money to go to the carnival, he said ok, and he did but he left me for the yankee game, abd he only game me 20 *thats how much it is to get in* and i didnt get fed *i am a really bad cook last time i did i almost set the house on fire* so people have to cook for me, but he was out on his motorcycle and got himself food, and not me.

can you tell me why i always cry hastarically?

http://www.flashplayer.com/animation/imissyoudaddy_movie.php

^ link again


the sad one.... :*C

Dear Sad,

I think your sad b/c you feel left out, you want attention. I would tell your dad this. If he still does not pay attention to you, call child services b/c this is neglect. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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I feel really left out of everyhting lately. I feel like noone likes me. Any advice?

~Lonely Girl~

Dear Lonely Girl,

How about joining a group or something. That's a sure fire way to make friends. Also, go around school with a big ole smile on your face, people will feel more welcome to you then, and say Hi to people who like sit behind you in class. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

P.S. - I'll be your friend.

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My boyfriend's birthday is September 14th, and I dont know we're so alike and things like that but I still am so lost on what to get him for his birthday.

It's his 16th so I dont want to just be like "OH HERE" and hand him something stupid. Plus, Im gonna try saving up but i just hope im not limited on money and all that stuff. But yeah.. any ideas? HE LOVES MUSIC. Stuff like slipknot, system of a down, korn.. and all that. You never see him without his mp3 =)

ill definitely rate high for great helpers.

how bout :

homemade cd of his fave artist and songs
new mp3 player ( might b pricey )
tickets to a concert

Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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I heard that if you have six small meals a day, then you lose weight. If you do, what should you eat, and how often?

Thanks in advance!

I don't think thats intirerly true. Try 3 meals a day that are in the Meat, Dairy, Bread, Fruit, and maybe a snack like an apple or something. If you eat that and no sweets, you'll lose weight in no time.

*~Alexia~*

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OK...

My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.

Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!

She also wants an abortion.

First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am also REALLY angry with her about the abortion because I am really against abortion in about 90% of cases, this one included. She wants to kill her own baby because she thinks she'll get 'bored' with it too, and because she made a mistake. She is 'making up' for that mistake with murder.

Now, I'm her friend and I am SUPPOSED to stand by her whatever, but this puts me in a HUGE dilemma because I do not agree with what she's done and what she is planning to do (split up with her boyfriend, have an abortion, not ever tell him she got pregnant). I'm really really angry at her right now and I can't talk to her, but I know she really needs my support at a time like this. How can I push my anger aside, how can I ignore my own stance on abortion and help her?

I need to stand by her...she needs all the love and support she can get, even though she doesn't deserve it. I was very tempted to slap her and run off when I found out but I realised that it's not my place to forgive or condone or accept or hate what she is doing, just to be there for her.

Please help...how can I get over my anger and resentment at what she is doing and be there for her? And don't just say 'talk to her' - if you have to, help me out on what to say!

Thanks for any help and sorry for the length.

Why don't you say " It borthers me that you want to split with your boyfriend b/c your bored with him, your getting an abortion, and not even telling him. ", or something to that effect. But, it seems to me, that all you need to say is in this letter. With your anger and everything, just ask yourself what you would do in her situation. She's probablly scared to death, just like you would be. Also, try asking her "Why don't you consider adoption?" I know a lot of people who would adopt a kid right after she or he is born. Hope this helped. If this doesn't answer everything, email or IM me at historybuff4eva@aol.com

*~Alexia~*

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ok.. so i want to get a new pet.. but i cant decide what to get. i wanted a snake but my mommy said no. And now im thinking of maybe a turtle.. any sugestions?.. Ok here are the rules.. No rodents (moms rule) No cats.. (blech i hate them) No Snake (:-() No dogs (already have the best one ever) and no birds (they suck) oo ya and no fish (boooring!)
Thanks for your suggestions!
Oh.. and no rocks either.. i already have one :-)

how bout a chia pet, lol jk jk. How bout a turtle, like u said, lizard, spider, ferret ( its not a rodent I don't think ). Thats all I can think of. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Hi mi name is candace nd i want a new sn buti dont kno who it should be . I like soccer,pink,talken on mi cell,hanging with mi friends,being crzy nd just haviing fun. Please help me pick a sn thanks!

CrazySoccorChik
Micellizmifrnd
PinkSoccorGrl
Funnytiluhatme

thats all I can think of. Hope this Helped.

*~Alexia~*

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Hello,

First off - I am appauled that there is no reading or literature category. If you feel you need to put in "Home Decorating" then you should put in "Literature" - the few of us cultured folk have questions too.

I went to my local book store seeking a copy of the books - Ishmael by Daniel Quinn and Cats Cradle by Kurt Vonnegurt Jr. (not positive on the spelling of Vonnegurt)

The books all together were something like $40 - which is a tad above my budget for reading material at the moment. I was wondering if anyone knew of some site online (not an ebay kind of thing - something more focused on consumer happiness than general profit) where I could maybe find a less expensive used copy of each.

Im aware I can use Amazon or something like that - but i'd prefer something different. Please only post something that you have used, or know someone has used and walked away satisfied.

I appreciate the help folks.

I would try ( online ) doing a search or that book, cause I've seen ppl who have websites to sell ole books and stuff. If you can't find anything online, I would try the public library, Wal - Mart, Barnes and Nobles, Books a Million, etc. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

P.S. - Im also appualed that there is no Liturature section on this website. So, if you have any other questions about books, email me at historybuff4eva@aol.com

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Okay so my boyfriend and I had sex. And now I am worried that I may be pregnant. I won't know for a few more weeks however. I thought i had pregnancy symptoms like I was really hungry, tired, and bitchy but then I was thinking about it and I get like that a week before I get my period. However I heard that even if you get your period that you could still be pregnant. I thought that was completely wrong but I am not sure. So can you be pregnant even if you get your period? I know you start spotting if your pregnant but your period and spotting are different. SO someone please help me out.

In some girls, you do have your period when your pregnant. My friend want to a doctor and he said she wouldn't be able to have a baby, cause she has like no uterus or something like that. Any way, over a peroid of 9 months, she had her regular periods and everything, but then one night, she was having stomach pains and was screaming in pain when she had her child. So, you may or may not, but it's more common not to have your period during pregnancy. Hope this helped, and take an EPT in 2 weeks.

*~Alexia~*

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I need some help on losing weigh 4 high school. Since this is a rural I live on don't even think about saying walkin cause it muddy and always wet. But wat r some ways I can? Thank you oh yea I weigh 200bls and i am 5'7

I would try some simple exercise routines at home, and sometimes those found in magazines. If you took gym in a little grade ( K - 5 ) then I would use those. All of this you can do in the privacy of your home and bedroom. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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I'm a figure skater and since i'm competing again I want to cut my own music but the thing is that I dont know how and was wondering if anyone knows how to cut certain parts of a song out? I would ask my coach but she's out of town and I want to be able to work on the program myself and show her. Please and thank you

I would ask a friend who has a Windows Media Player. On that, u can cut, add, and paste together songs and stuff. Hop this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

Any age where you feel comterable french kissing. Trust me, I havn't french kissed, im 14, and my friend hasn't either, she's 22. So, when you feel comterable enough with ur g/f or b/f to not just kiss anymore, then you are ready. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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okay, im not sure if this belongs under illnesses, but... my friend has cancer, he is 22. well actually hes more of my boyfriends friend. well today he called me, and he told me that he just got out of the hospital, and he had a mini- stroke... well first off... whats a mini- stroke? isnt a stroke... a stroke????
well, he asked me to do a favor for him since he can barely talk (( his one side is completely numb )) but, the favor was to tell my bf about it... ok, so i can do that... but im just afraid of how my bf will react... i mean this is my bf's hero... and i dont know... i honestly dont think this guy has much time left... and i dont wanna tell my bf that, cus thats just rude, and im sure no one wants to hear that.
how do i tell my bf about all this, and what do when he reacts... what do i say to him? i know he'll start crying... and plus... when our friend does "go" how do i handle that... i have to cope with it myself, and try to help my bf with it. and when im under that much stress, and when someone i know passes away, i dont get upset, i get mad... and i dont show my feelings because i try and help everyone else first... and myself last. but i will eventually let it all out, and its 10xs worse... im just confused... im not sure why i do this, and if i do... everyone will be worried about me... and i dont want that to happen either.
please help me!

First off a mini - stroke is like a regular stroke, but it doesn't cause a lot of harm and not a lot of damage to become a regular stroke. Second, he asked you ( as prob. his dying wish ) to tell your b/f. There is no easy way to say anything of this magnatude. So, I would just take your b/f asside and calmly tell him what he wants you to tell your b/f. Thrid, When your friend does pass on, maybe try and have a little memorial service in your friends honor. Nothing fancy. I had one for my grandmother with just her picture and a prayer. Fourth, the thing about you helping everyone else before yourself, I did the exact same thing. So, what I would do, is after like three days of his passing, I would take a few minutes to reflect on what happened and let all the emotion out. Hope this helped and my prayers are with you.

*~Alexia~*

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okay well im 13 and all my friends (they're 13 to) have like huge or big breasts and i feel left out cuz like i only have alittle of them and like i wear a bra n everything but like it still looks like i dont have anything... what can i do?? is there any way to make them grow faster!!>>>well I RAT HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! MUAHH!

**please help**

Sorry but no. Breasts don't all come in one size. When I was 13, I got my breasts, and they are big, but everyone at my school had the smallest breast you ever saw! So, I kinda know what you are going through, except that people would always ask me if I had breast implants, but that was the moronic part of our school that did ask me that and I'm getting off topic. I'm really sorry, but nature will make your breasts grow at a normal pace. Hope this helped.

*~Alexia~*

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OK, I sport knees or thats just what I liek to call them mt knees are not try but they just like dak and rough and not smooth i try putting lotion on them but that dosent take it all away what else could i do?? I'll try anything!
PLUS I RATE

I would try like that Coco Butter they always advertise on TV, or mosterize. Hope it Helped.

*~Alexia~*

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should a person with diabetese drink any kind of alcohol beverage?

If it has an large amount of sugar, they really shouldn't.

*~Alexia~*

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