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is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea?

YES, wait until your married. Be responsible. For your sake and your childs(that's what sex leads to). If you have a kid at 13, it probably won't live and if it does, it'll have problems for the rest of it's life. Just don't do anything until you're fully grown and married.
hope i helped!

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13/f. I have been going out with this dude *Jay* for about 3 weeks, and he never ever talks to me at school. we talk on the phone a lot, but never at school. and the reason why he doesnt talk to me at school is because he "likes me too much" but i dont know if that is the truth. I am the shyest person around, i wont even say a word to the teachers or my friends...how should i take things, i say to him and smile at him at school all the time. but he never talks, he doesnt even say Hi, just one simple hi. what should I do...

He's just seriously shy. He just doesn't want to take the chance of saying something stupid, or something that'd offend you. Don't be scared to go up to him to start a conversation. He'll probably be happy that you came up to him so he didn't have to get up the nerve to do it himself. After a while, he'll probably get used to talking to you and come up to YOU. Just dont be afraid to make the first move and be yourself. Hide your shyness. Hope i helped!

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I love to draw but the only problem is that I never know what to draw.I need some ideas on what I can draw!And if you name something that is very colorful and takes a while to color than I will rate you a perfect five!!!

sunsets and water falls.
They're fun to draw and VERY colorful
hope i helped!

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Hi, im 13 years old. Well i think im fat, i weigh 90 pounds. All my friends think im like one of the skinniest people in the school, but i dont think that, so i decided to not eat, except for a small dinner because my mom would make me eat dinner. People try to like put food in my mouth for me to eat but i wont let them. In 3 days, i lost already 2 pounds. People think im anorexic. what should i do?

Sorry to tell you, but you are anorexic. You HAVE to eat! Think of it this way: Would you rather people think of you as the "omg she starves herself. She's an anorexic freak" person or a normal person that has body fat like everyone. You're only 13, you're still growing. IF you become anorexic and mess your body up, when you a baby he/she won't be as healthy as they could have been.
i'm sorry to show you this, but this is what anorexic cases end up like :
http://www.cop.es/colegiados/S-02633/anorexia.jpg
go there
it's disturbing. Sorry
Hope i helped

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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ??

Just accept him. One of my best friends is gay too. Don't treat them any differently then you already do. It'll hurt them if you do. Hope i helped ♥

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I am a 13 male and i am really attracted to a girl but i dont know how to talk to her. I'm a little afarid of girls can u help.

Don't be afraid. The good ones dont bite. Just walk up and try to start a conversation. Maybe begin with "That's a nice shirt, it looks good on you" or something like that. I know you may be against it but girls LOVE compliments. Try to talk about classes you have with her (if any) and talk about how hard or easy the homework or a test was. Hope i helped!
if u need anything else, just ask!

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ok so I have alot of best friends - 3 main ones and me and my friend lets call her "Jackie" have noticed that our other friends lets call them "tia" and hmmm idk "kelsey" have been spending a heck of alot of time together and rarley even talk 2 me or "jackie" any more and every weekend "tia" and "kelsey" are always at eachothers houses and they cancel our plans to hang out with eachother and me and "jackie" are sick of it! but they are still our bff and whenever we try and talk about it they just say i dont know what ur talkin about we dont favor anyone

i still wanna be all of their friends I just want them to notice that me and "jackie" are still alive


what should I do


ill rate a 5 for trying


signed a confused friend

Sorry to say this but you might just have to wait it out. Your two friends are just doing some major bonding and you can't stop it. Just try making plans with your other friends and dont even try to include them. Try ignoring them and see what happens. Hope i helped!

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Hi does anybody know where a 14 year old boy can find a part-time job that isn't a paper round? Cos i really need the money.

I rate 5 for anybody who tries to answer

Mcdonalds, Krispy Kreme, Burger King, etc. But i dont know the age rules.

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one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?

Signed,

Freaked out Friend

NOT AT ALL! just go!

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

He's prolly just shy. I know there are a few guys i can't talk to for hours on the computer but in person, i ignore them. Try to come up to them and start a conversation. Things might be a little shaky at first, but after a while things will be good. Hope i helped! ♥

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i have windows xp and im using the regular Word processor that it comes with (not microsoft works word processor) just REGULAR WORD and i NEED to double space my paper but i cant find any possible way to do it, but i know there's a way. how do i do it? (dont say press enter cause that'll get screwed up when i print) thanks SO much!

highlight all the words and press control+2
hope i helped ♥

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Whats easier and the most fun for a beginner with no musical experience to start with, a bass or guitar?

thanks!

Bass is prolly easier, but i think guitar is more fun.
hope i helped ♥

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

Stop looking. Get your mind on other things. Then one day, out of nowhere you'll meet the man of your dreams. I know it sounds fairy tailish but it's true.
hope i helped! ♥

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Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.

Get the proactiv overnight mask. You put it on the affected areas before bed and leave it on all night. Wake up the next morning, wash it off and it's gone!
hope i helped ♥

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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?

Signed
Should I give up?

Never give up
most people give up and then the person starts to like them, lol
hope i helped! ♥

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I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?

The two week thing, it's SO romantic and most girls like that. But make Sure no one gets to her first!
hope i helped!

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anybody good with spanish that could help me?

depends on what grade you're in, i can prolly help tho. leave me a message in my box

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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian.

It just means Instant message

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do you believe in soul mates?

yea, i do. Everyone has a soul mate. Some people find them and live happily, and some pick the wrong person and live miserably. But everyone has someone.
Hope i helped!

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I like someone and my crush likes me too. Whenever he tells me to call i make up an excuse not to because i get really nervous. Hes getting sick of it what should i do ?

You need to tell him how nervous you are. It'll make him understand. IF you need help on what to say, leave me a message. I was in the same sitch as you and i handled it pretty well. hope i helped!

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