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Thank you.
Gender: Male
Location: Canada
Occupation: Cook
Age: 18
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17/m If i'm a virgin, how long will i last my first time
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It varies from person to person (like the other guy said) due to habits, however, I would like to add that masturbation can cause you to last longer. I know this from personal experience. Ever since I was 12 I've been a chronic masturbater and I find it hard to have sex for less than an hour unless I haven't done anything in a week. So remember this, everyone is different, always look for ways to better yourself.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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i want to read some manga books about love and stuff but i heard they're gross and talk bout gross stuff and all that is that true
-and would i find it at a library or do i have to buy it
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If your looking for love story manga there should be plenty of it at the local library. My recommendation, look up titles on the net and read about them or read them from your library first if you feel compelled to buy it. ask a friend or 2 if they know of any titles and hope for the best.
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I'm 15/f and I weigh 115 pounds. I'm not fat, but abs and a less jello-y (if you will) butt would make me happy :). I walk my dog a mile everyday that's about it. Does anyone know any good workout schedules that I could go by? Or does it matter on what kind of person I am? (link)
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Hi,
I'm 17/m and in the last 8 months I've lost 10-15 lbs and completely toned from the waist down. The trick? Simple, run. Run everywhere, run to school, run to town, run until you can run no more. This will give you great legs and get your heart pumping. However, if you have a swimming pool or access to one then I'd suggest you use it as much as you can. I also found a pretty good website that can help with your ab situation.
Here's the link: http://www.fitnessgear101.com/workout-routines/
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i'm sure most people have heard about mike vick and what he has done. i'm sickened everytime i hear about what he has done to those poor animals. personally, i think he should fry. so here is my question, what should happen to mike vick? (link)
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I don't mean to be harsh but this isn't a very fair question. If you look at the people around you, you notice something about everyone, We're all different. The reason for mentioning this is that this guy, whatever he did will be judged by an assortment of different people. The previous columnist wrote that she "...would shoot a good dog over a bad person if [she] absolutely had to make such a wacky decision...." opposed to your saying "...he should fry." He is at the mercy of the public mass and I do not feel this question should be asked more than it has to be.
Thank you,
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i met this guy awhile back. and we recently started dating ( june 8 2007 ) but i liked for a very long time. and i had to go away for the summer, two hours from him. we talk every night on the phone, and on the computer all the time. but sometimes it isnt good enough && i seem to cry all the time over it. i can`t stand being away from him. he means so much to me. sometimes i call him and when he answers i start to cry and hang up. i even acciendtly said i love you the other night hanging up. well i dont know if i meant it or not. i care so much about him and would do anything for him, he`s my baby. well my question is..... is this love && if not, how will i know if it hits me && what it love.
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You have reached an important stepping stone towards love. I hate to sound mean and I'm not trying to hurt anyones feelings but you have come to the point of Obsession. That feeling you get when your away like your getting ripped apart every second your not with the other person. If you can make it through this you should be able to reached the enlightened state that we all call love.
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Ok well I don't get what chastised means.
I looked in the dictionary and it says to discipline and to criticize severely. Then it says to punish as in beating.
=/ I don't get what it means.. (link)
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Chastised - This is another word for punish. "The little boy was chastised for breaking the lamp"
heres a web page that may help explain it better
http://www.answers.com/chastised&r=67
(you may have to go half way down the page to get the better information)
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im 17/f. for the past 8 months or so i have had a huge problem with eating and eating and i feel like i have no control and i cant stop then i make myself throw up. i make myself throw up after eating a ton at least once or twice a day. im tired of it. i am 5'4 and 123 pounds and i want to lose weight, but i want to do it the healthy way. please help me. how do i get over this? i dont want my parents finding out so please dont say have them take me to someone. i just want a website that can help me get over it or a hotline to call or ANYTHING. please help me (link)
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847-831-3438 This is a national hot-line and the web page that links to is http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/yourchild/eatdis.htm#bul
Another suggestion would be for you to arrange a meeting with a school or regular counselor. If you do this then they won't tell anyone so theres no way your parents would find out.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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I was just wondering on some ideas of possibly getting money and cooking. Im a really good basic cooker and love making different types of breakfasts and lunches using different ingredients each time to give the things i make different flavors until i get that right flavor i like. I just want to know some possible things i could do to get some extra money and dealing with food and w/e else ideas you might have. thanks.
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I'm 17 m and just got out of university. While there my main study was cooking. In the time I spent I discovered that there are a few things that every kitchen is looking for.
First off, if you want to be around food, your going to need a food safe certificate to show that you know all about sanitation. Once you have that then all you need is confidence and speed and you will do well.
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When you have sex for the first time do you bleed? and if you do, does it get on the sheets, and how much do you usually bleed?
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There are many factors to look at when answering this question. Like the person before me, it depends on the girl, however it can also depend on the guy. If the guy is big (compared to how open the girl is) she may bleed, if he enters at the wrong angle she may also bleed (I found this out with my first gf) If it's your first time and your worried about getting the sheets bloody i suggest maybe put a towel down or a cloth you can throw away later. As for how much? Once again that all depends on the girl and the guy.
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So, usually I'm used to answering these type of quetions. but, I guess I need your advice. because i'm not sure how to help myself.
[its not as long as it seems, i just skipped alot of lines, PLEASE i beg you, read]
14/f
You know how some people will say, 'there having a bad week' and they either tell you, how they got grounded, or got a F on a big test.
Well imagine this..
Imagine losing your whole group of friend, because they ditched you, for a huge graduation dance, when they were all going out to dinner together, and they didn't invite you, and you've been friends with all of them for atleast 4 or 5 years.
So, right now, your probably thinking.. that sucks. but its not the end of the world.
ok now imagine you just lost your best guy friend, who you were like madly inlove with, but a couple mistakes, mess up your friendship, and you were friends with him for 4 years. not friends actually, best friends. like the kinda guy you tell everything too.
now, your probably thinking, that sucks even more. but you can always make new friends.
OK. now imagine, your dog, your dog, not the family dog, your dog, dies. and gets hit by a car, early in the moring before you going to school.
now, i bet your saying wow now this really does suck for her.
BUT. wait theres more. now imagine, before ALL this happened, you talked about switching schools, just to one person, but they told everyone. So, now that the whole school knows, you decide you gotta go and switch. because if you don't, it will most likely just get worse at your school and people will call you a liar.
So, now your out of your comfort zone, your in a place, where things are way different.
this didnt all happen over a long period of time, it happened to me in a week. 1 week. how would you deal with it?
I'm asking for your advice. In the beginning of all this when it all happened, I covered up my sadness, I smiled and laughed, like I always normaly would. But, its starting to hit me now, hard. I'm not smiling too much, and i find myself losing track of my grades. I'm no longer focusing, and starting not to want to do normal activities. Since I took a class in depression, I know these are early signs of depression. I want to stop it before I get worse.
But, I do not, do not want to see a therapist. My mom would freak. And it would make me feel uncomfortable around my family. So, thats a total noway. I'm strong when it comes to things like this. I can make it, if I just know how to. But, as of right now I don't. I'm normaly a A and 2 Bs [rarely] student. My grades have dropped tremendosly.
I need your help. Your advice will mean a great deal to me. Please help me in any way possible.
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Wow,
That feeling like the weight of the world is on your shoulders seems to be getting to you pretty badly. Feels like the whole world is falling apart on you? My suggestion, let everything in your social life go, concentrate as hard on your schooling as possible, sign up for a club or sports team. Then at the end of the day go home and take a relaxing bubble bath to help relax yourself. Don't be afraid to talk to an adult, like a parent or teacher. Try not to think about your old friends and open your arms to new ones.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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how can i relax whenim with a guy like i mean hooking up...i hve avoid every relationship becuase i dont know ow to make out !!! even kiss!!! (link)
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Let everything come naturally. When you are just starting a relationship you need to keep calm as much as possible. If you are nervous he/she will notice and might start to get nervous as well. As far as kissing goes, get comfortable, look him/her in the eyes, line your lips up with his/hers and move in. Sometimes its a good idea to only go part way and let your bf/gf go the rest of the way but if you feel you want to go all the way then its not a bad idea unless he/she isn't ready either then just laugh it off.
Hope i could help o^-^o
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what is 'feeling up'?
also how would you dry hump a guy? wouldn't that be a little weird? (link)
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Feeling up: When a man puts his hands up a womans shirt and plays with her breasts.
To dry hump someone you basically act like your having sex with them except with your cloths on. This also can be considered as having "dry sex"
If done properly dry dry sex can be extremely arousing and drive both the man and the woman to the extent of ripping eachothers cloths off.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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My friend Melissa met this boy Bob who goes to her school. They just started talking one day, and now they talk alot. The problem is that Bob doesn't really seem to be "at her speed". For example, he's already talking about them "doing it" and he wants her to come to his house. But Melissa's not ready for that stuff yet. What should she do? My advice is for her to tell him she just wants t be friends, but I'm not even sure whether she likes him or not. What's your advice? Thanks (link)
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The other advisors were right when they said not to let him pressure her. But consider it from her point of veiw, does she want it? Does she even like him like that? She's a grown woman now (although she is young) and should be capable of telling him what she wants and doesn't want. Me and my gf started going out a year ago and we had sex 1 week after we started going out, I've proposed to her and she's even accepted. I'm trying to say that there are some cases where it will work, however, that kind of thing doesn't happen very often.
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SO i like this guy, and he asked me to my high school's Winter Semi-Formal. Everyone has been telling me he'd been planning it for a while.
Everyone is also telling me that he likes me, and I can't help but wonder that also. We flirt all the time. And, he ASKED ME TO THE SEMI-FORMAL!
I really want to go out with him, so should I ask him out? The formal is Feb. 10, so should I ask him before then, or just wait and see what happens after? (link)
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In my opinion, wait and see what happens at the Semi-Formal. By all means HE should be the one to ask You out, not the other way around. As a man, i know how embarrassing that would be. So the best thing you can do is give him hints (Make sure there stong because he still is a man) that you'd like to see him again. After the dance ask him what's on his agenda and if he says nothing then tell him you'd like to get together again sometime. That should be enough for him to ask you.
Hope I could help o^-^o
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my friend smoked weed about a week ago and now she has to get a routine blood test *basic blood work to check levels and stuff* next week and we were wondering if it will show up and if it does will they say it to her parents when they answer the phone for the results. (link)
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weed will stay in your blood for up to a month sometimes longer so it will definately show up in the test. tell your friend to make it clear that she doesnt want her parents to know about the use of drugs and if they find out and she didn't tell them then that doctor will face harsh penalties. Hope I could help o^-^o
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right im 15/m/uk my gf may be pregnant if she is what should i do:| i cant tel my parents or im going to get disowned and she cant tel hers what should we do how can we get an abortion like behind our parents back i know that sounds wrong but please advice is strongely needed. (link)
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Before you start considering an abortion you need to find out if she actually is. I'm 17/m and I was sure my gf was pregnant but then she took a test 2 weeks later and it showed up negative. If you do find out she is pregnant and you both agree on abortion then make the appointment yourselves and just tell your parents that you need to stay afterschool for set amount of time. Tell them you'll call when you need to be picked up, just in case it takes longer than you expected. It should all go smoothly as doctors are not allowed to give out information on patients without suffering severe penalties.
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Hi im a 14 male and sometimes when i masturbaute all the sperm dosnt come out.It stays inside,like in the tube that leads up the the head and i have to pee to get it out,or else it starts to hurt bad like the blood circulation is cut off.Is that bad? Is there something wrong?
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If you feel that not all the sperm has come out try squeezing the shaft and stoking toward the head. If this doesnt work then consider asking a doctor for further advice.
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Hi i was wondering,for anal sex,do you put the lubricant on her or on the guy?
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For anal sex you can put it on both her and him, I'd recommend putting more on him though.
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16/f. how do i get birth control without my parents knowing? do i just go to the doctor and ask, or how does it work? also will my parents ever find out (like does the doctor tell them or anything) i just need someone who is experienced to fill me in. thank you (link)
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There are many kinds of birth control. If your looking for something simple like the pill or the patch then you can just buy it at the local pharmacy (no subscription necassary) But if you want something doctor approved my gf got the doctor to give her a needle and i think it was once a month (consult your doctor about that one) but as far as doctors telling parents goes, if you go to the doctors alone and your parents are told by the doctor then they can lose their job, even go to jail. A doctor is not allowed to give out any information as long as you tell them that you do not want anyone to know.
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Im 15. in 9th grade. like ALLL of my friends have had sex.. its so weird im like the only one who hasnt. Im perfectly fine with it, im waiting for a serious long relationship where im in love to do it.. but all my friends keep getting hurt, been very close to gettin pregnant. Guys around here treat girls like shit.. there's sooo lil guys that wont use a girl... but anyways, all my best friends who are jus tlike me like wanted to wait a long time to have sex, are having sex in like one month with there sweet talkin boyfriend, there boyfriends are just sayin thing sthey wanna hear to make them think they're in love. I know its not my business, but i loveee my friends to death, and i look out for them. cause im older than all of them.. what can i do, they're too young and ruining their morals over these fake playin guyss.... (link)
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There's not a whole lot you can do. If your too close to your friends they might get angry and try to distance themselves but at the same time if something goes wrong they might turn to you and wonder why you hadn't been closer. Try to give them advice and relate it to something they'd understand to show just how important it is. If something does go wrong then be there for them catch them before they fall.
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