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hey im 14 and well my mom doesnt really let me go out shes very picky and i was wondering if maybe anybody knows ways to go out with out making it obvious. (link)
Just make a group date w/ your date, your friends, & your friend's dates. Then you can tell your mom that you're going somewhere with your friend, and you won't be lying but you'll still have your date. Then when that gets old you should probably tell your mom how you feel and maybe bring your boyfriend/date home so she can see that he is nice. I hope this helped!


In a few weeks, I'll be hanging out with a bunch of friends, including a guy I've been liking for awhile. I doubt he has any idea of my crush, but it's about time I let him know. My best friend's boyfriend is his best friend also. How do I make a move finally and see if he has a reaction? I don't wanna seem desperate or set myself up for a big rejection. (link)
just smile at him and start talking casually. when you think youve chatted enough then ask if he's seeing anyone. if you dont just jump right into the conversation asking if he is then you wont seem desperate.


This a strange sort of etiquette question that has been bothering me from a while now…

I have a close friend and we live in a large metropolitan city. Whenever we are walking on the street she will do absolutely anything to walk as far away as possible from a homeless person. This really grates my nerves.

If we are walking side by side she will move all the way over to the curb, even if it means crossing in front of me in order to be 6 or 7 feet away from the homeless person (and a few feet any from me as well, since I continue to walk in a straight line). She will move back to me after they are a few feet behind us. I find this unbearably rude and downright heart breaking. She often tries to convince me too cross the street if she can see a person down the road on our side.

Now if they were yelling and screaming I would understand, but these are unfortunate souls who are simply huddled against buildings for warmth.

This is really upsetting me but some of my friends say it is just her irrational fear and I should respect it. But it makes me not want to go out with her, as we live in the core and pretty much walk everywhere. Am I wrong to be upset and/or how can I make her stop this? (link)
tell her that she should not be afraid of them. you are right, if they are acting strange you should back away a little, but if they are just sitting there doing no harm there is no reason for her to step away. just let her see that they are just people in the world trying to survive and that there is nothing wrong with that and she may calm down around them. and sorry about "my" first answer... apparently my friend has been getting on my account and answering questions.


ok i got off my period 2 days ago and i after that 2 days i started bleeding a lot more is that normal (link)
its totaly normal hun.


Since last year, my brother has been extremely protective over me with guys. I didn't know what caused him to suddenly change until his best friend told me that ht thinks that I'm a slut.

Apparently there was a rumor running around school last year that I did not know about.

I can't live with my brother thinking that about me it's really weird. The other day he had some of his friends over and I was hanging out with them because I was bored and they were talking about sex and stuff. One of his friends asked me if I'm a virgin. I said yes and that I've only made out with guys (which is true).

So, with that I thought that I had taken care of what he's heard of me and that he then knew that I'm not a slut. But, it didn't help. He didn't believe what I said!

How can I make it clear to him that I'm not?
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have your guy friends (or boyfriends) over and let your brother see that you're not a slut. once he sees you with other guys and you're not doing what he thinks you're doing, he'll probably stop thinking that.


My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me? (link)
santa IS real! he may not be a person but the spirit of santa always exists! my parents said that there wasn't a santa but i still know that there is! just remember that ur NEVER 2 old 2 beleive in him, just ignore what the other people say.


okay well im having my friends over for like a small thing for my birthday.Were going to the movies then back to my house, do you have any suggestions on what to do for about 6 girls that are 14 and 15? i would really appreciate it if anyone could help me out, could you guys please help me by friday (thats when my party is happening) thank you!

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Truth or dare is always fun! Watching TV and movies is pretty good 2. And also prank calling! If u go 2 www.ebaumsworld.com and click prank calls and then go 2 soundboards there is a huge list of celebrities and their saying 4 prank calls! Also even if there arent any boys there, its always fun 2 dance! Plug in an ipod 2 a speaker system and have fun that way! I hope your partaay goes good!


Okay like 2 weeks ago I met these 2 boys when I stayed after school they are best friends and they are about my age. And one is pretty cute and the other is ya know... -not my type- and both of them like me I know it might be mean to go for the cuter one but I dunno i would feel bad. And on a different note. I dont know if I should play hard to get with the cuter one cuz believe me I wish I could just kiss them right there and but I dont want to feel to "easy" to him because my school has a HUGE reputation of gossiping all this crap to other people. And if I seem easy the whole world would know..ya know? I dont even know help me if you can (link)
Dont go 4 the 1 thats not ur type. Youll probably regret it later. Go 4 the cuter 1, but dont play hard 2 get or he wont take u seriously. But don't necessarily be easy, go kind of somewhere in the middle.


Hey Columnists,


OK, here's the deal. I am 13, and I am in 7th grade. My best friend,(9th grade) has been my best friend sence we were like 2 years old. When I was in about 2nd grade, my friend(4th grade), her brother(5th grade), played "Truth or Dare." What we did was dare each other to get naked, and then he would touch us. Well I have had a HUGE crush on him sence I was in 1st grade. This guy is in 10th grade, and on the computer he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare with him again, but this time just me and him and i can't tell my friend. I said I don't know and signed off. I know that was him on his screename becuase he asked me in person, I pretened I did'nt here. I want to do it, but I can't let my friend know and thats very hard for me...becuase she is my BEST FREiND! Should I do it? or not? THANKS! (link)
yea defenitly DONT do it. hes just trying 2 take advantage of u... trust me


Ok. So i just got six new babie jack russels from my brother's dog. The only problem is I don't know what to name the one we are keeping. It's to young to determine if its a boy or girl so plz give me both! I'lll rate 5's on everyone if you follow the guidline. Here's the Guidline...example names:

Boy names Girl names

Spot Ginger
Bingo Sugar
Grizzly Lady
Flash Lassie


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Thank you so much for all your answers. Plz give at least 2 names for both. I appreciate it greatly!!!! (link)
girl boy

sweat tart twinkie
daisy home skilly
muffin homie
dayma rico
aly parker
missy jake
stella mitch
libby melly
sheala jackson
kelly astroid
britney timmy
sparkel babe (the pig)
sprinkel robby
margarita! pedro

ok i can think of a lot more but i hope it helps

ps... u can also name them all under a catogory examples: letter of name, candy, flower, nusrey ryme, deserts, ect.


i am not sure what kind of litter to get for my new cat can somebody help me... (link)
Fresh Step Crystals is the best and it hides the smell best.


i love my parents a lot.
but sometimes they're a bit overprotective. i'm the oldest and "theyre first baby" so they dont want to "let me go."

well, sorry mom and dad, but this is starting to make me upset and annoyed.
how can i get my parents to "let go" a bit??

thx - please HELPP - i rate high (link)
If you're going somewhere then tell them where you're going, what you're doing, who will be there, and what time you will be home. Let them know that you are maturing and that you need some more privileges. If you tell them that in an adult manner, and not like pleading or begging or getting really mad, they will see that you ARE growing up. They will most likley learn that you're not a baby.


i love my parents a lot.
but sometimes they're a bit overprotective. i'm the oldest and "theyre first baby" so they dont want to "let me go."

well, sorry mom and dad, but this is starting to make me upset and annoyed.
how can i get my parents to "let go" a bit??

thx - please HELPP - i rate high (link)
If you're going somewhere then tell them where you're going, what you're doing, who will be there, and what time you will be home. Let them know that you are maturing and that you need some more privileges. If you tell them that in an adult manner, and not like pleading or begging or getting really mad, they will see that you ARE growing up. They will most likley learn that you're not a baby.


I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I want to get him something great for xmas and I want to make him some stuff to. What can I do (take him somewhere or something), give him, and make him? Give me as many ideas that you can! *by the way he is a musician (guitar bass and keyboards) and he loves video games and stuff for PSP and DS if that helps* Thanks in advance! (link)
For something to make him: Write him a song and see if he can make music to go with it on one of his instruments.
Take him out to fancy dinner at a nice restaurant.
And if there is a Videogame that he's been eyeing, get him that and maybe some other games like it.


Ok, i have a major problem! My best friend started goin out w/ this girl at the beginning of this school year. The problem is, he's not aloud to have a girlfriend. His parents obviously don't let him hang out w/ her outside of school but our families are good friends so i hang out with him every weekend. His girlfriend is incredibly jelous and despises me. She's told me that if i hang with him that she'll "dump" him. He's so happy with this girl and i don't want him to be sad. This girl and i are constantly fighting over the fact that me and him are nothin more than friends and that he luvs her. Well, recently he said that he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore becuase his girlfriend said that he can't! Understand that i luv this guy like the closest brother ever and i've cried myself to sleep every night. what do i do? we're only 13! (link)
try to talk to him in person about this, because friends will always last longer than a bf/gf. it seems that his gf is trying to take over his life, and you should let him know that. and also maybe try to be nice to his gf, and she will most likely see that you are a nice girl that wouldn't steal her bf. if you cant talk 2 ur friend in person, give him a note or call him.


i am going to the movies on a double date next saturday and i was wondering what movie we should see. We want it to be romantic and not scary enough to give you nightmares but scary enough to coudle up with your boyfriend? ALso it has to be long because i never see my bf so i want it to be a long movie where i get to spend time w/ him. I rate P.S if it helps we are going to rockville cinemas 13 in rockville (link)
well its not scary, but you can still cuddle up w/ ur bf: just friends looks really good and its very funny.


i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP. (link)
bitch-slap him until he apologizes lol jk. just ignore him and he will probably apologize, but dont go liking him again if hes an ass now. he might say that hes changed but dont believe him.


Everyone is asking me what I want for Christmas and I just dont know so could you help me out? I'm a total girlie girl. I already have a cell phone and TV and dont want my own computer.

I rate 5's for anyone who tries even if I don't like what you say, I just want some options.

OkayThanksLoves..Bye! (link)
Ask for an ipod if you want one. Also tell people you favorite stores, what type of clothes you like, and other things like what kind of jewelry and makeup. Or you can ask for money to get you a good ringtone for your cell or DVDs for your TV.


So I really like this guy.. I think he likes me too! I am 14 and he is 17 but he is really sweet and I saw him tonight and when his friend was givin us a ride home he held me the whole time and was warming me up. The thing is I think he miiiight like someone else but im not quite sure.. I am starting to like him though.. what should i do? (link)
Wait until you know if you like the other guy. If you dont: Dating an older guy is NOT a problem. I've dated older guys and I dont think it makes a difference with age. If you do like the other guy: Try and figure out which one you like more based on how nice he is to YOU, if he does like you, and if he's like way too shy/wants to go 2 far with you.


Me and my boyfriend broke up because I thought he was cheating but we worked out things and are back together but how to I tell my mom that we are without her getting mad? I'll rate high! (link)
Prove that he wasn't cheating when you do tell her. Maybe you thought you saw him with another girl at the mall but it could have been that the girl was hitting on him, not him hitting on her. If your mom does get mad though, don't break up with you BF again. It isn't your moms decision.




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