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So I really like this guy.. I think he likes me too! I am 14 and he is 17 but he is really sweet and I saw him tonight and when his friend was givin us a ride home he held me the whole time and was warming me up. The thing is I think he miiiight like someone else but im not quite sure.. I am starting to like him though.. what should i do?
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Okay i can definetly relate to this because i am in the same situation.. except im 14 and the guys 18... not exactly legal... which is why we dont date...
My advice to you is if you DO date.. Keep it on the low. Be very secretaive and i wouldnt tell your parents if its something that they wouldnt be okay with because if they found out and didnt approve he could get into some BIG trouble and i mean BIg... but yeadefinetly keep close to him and if you think he likes another girl.. ask him about it.. thats what i did when i was doubting myself between me and my guy. We worked stuff out and everythings good for now... Just Listen to your heart and do what YOU want to do.. dont let anyone else make your choices for you...
Hope i helped...
***Kayla... ]
Wait until you know if you like the other guy. If you dont: Dating an older guy is NOT a problem. I've dated older guys and I dont think it makes a difference with age. If you do like the other guy: Try and figure out which one you like more based on how nice he is to YOU, if he does like you, and if he's like way too shy/wants to go 2 far with you. ]
AWwwwwww well keep on doing whatever your doing to make him like you but like ask him who he likes he may say you.. he may say no one meaning you..he may say noone meaning no one...or he may say the other person that he likes... but keep on flirting and everything and just wait a while maybe you two will go out ... hope I helped ]
1. Def. keep flirting
2. Ask him how he feels, although it sounds like he likes you
3. Build up the courage to ask him out! x3
Good Luck. Hope this works.
[♥]Allie[♥] ]
honestly...i think your too young to be dating a 17 year old but if you really like him play hard to get....a lot of guys wont tell you that cuz they hate it....i know i do but it drives them nuts...sooner or l8r he will reveal to you his real feelins....trust me been there done that....except mine wasnt a happy endin....turned out she wasnt who i thought she was but the fact remains she made it seem like she wasnt into me...and it drove me nuts cuz i couldnt understand why one time she all wants me and the next it seemed like i didnt exist ]
He sounds like a pretty nice guy, although the guys who seem like the nicest can be the worst. Do you know who this "someone else" might be? I would just suggest taking note of the things he does. Ask him trick questions about this girl. It might sound sneaky, but if you really feel that he's playing you like a banjo, then you should be doing sneaky things. I'm not saying stalk him or anything. You could maybe ask his friends what he does or says around said girl. And if this all turns out to be you just having a little low self-confidence or of being afraid that when you've finally found the right guy that he in fact doesn't like you, but you're wrong and he's totally loyal to you. You'll have no doubts what-so-ever. However, if he does like someone else, dump him with no regrets.
Love Ya!
blue_bunny ]
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