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Ughh!! Im confused


Question Posted Friday December 2 2005, 4:30 pm

Okay like 2 weeks ago I met these 2 boys when I stayed after school they are best friends and they are about my age. And one is pretty cute and the other is ya know... -not my type- and both of them like me I know it might be mean to go for the cuter one but I dunno i would feel bad. And on a different note. I dont know if I should play hard to get with the cuter one cuz believe me I wish I could just kiss them right there and but I dont want to feel to "easy" to him because my school has a HUGE reputation of gossiping all this crap to other people. And if I seem easy the whole world would know..ya know? I dont even know help me if you can

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Kristen03 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 7:39 pm:
Crushes are always confusing. Sounds to me like you don't really like either one of them, you just think he's cute. If you DO like him, then go for him. Who cares what anyone else thinks, it's your life and your decision..do what you with with it. If you want to kiss him, forget about what people say. Kissing isn't bad anyway, now sex..that'd be a little "easy".

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glamoourgangster answered Saturday December 3 2005, 6:57 am:
go for the one your heart chooses.even if its the cuter guy...aw cmon who doesnt like a cute guy?then tell the other one your srry that you dont share the same feelings,cuz you dont wanna play em both

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elliajean1214 answered Friday December 2 2005, 7:20 pm:
Dont go 4 the 1 thats not ur type. Youll probably regret it later. Go 4 the cuter 1, but dont play hard 2 get or he wont take u seriously. But don't necessarily be easy, go kind of somewhere in the middle.

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Razhie answered Friday December 2 2005, 7:20 pm:
Stop worrying about what other people think.

Maybe you'll hurt the other boy's feelings, but that doesn't seem to me like a good enough reason to not go after the guy you are interested in.

As for playing hard to get: I don't know why girls think that is a good idea. Teenage guys are a dense as bricks, play hard enough to get and they'll never even notice you are there.

Besides, there is no reason to be sly about it. Be yourself, joke and smile and make it clear you like talking to him. Be straight up about liking him, take a risk (it isn't even much of a risk if you already know he likes you) and do as much as you are willing to do and let your school say what they will.

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