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i live in NY. i left from las vegas on thursday. so from 4pm their time(7pm NY time) to 4am Vegas time on friday morning(7am NY time) i was on a plane for that long due to weather reasons and we couldn't land. i got off the plane for half an hour to switch planes but i was basically on a plane for 12 hours. ever since i've had a terrible headache. its been about 3 days now and tylenol hasn't worked. is this headache related to being on a plane for so long or is it just a really long headache?

take alot of tylenol

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hey! so like EVERYONE says higschool is where you'll find your real friends and stuff, and i truly believe that! but even though i have plenty of friends, they are all freshman, just like me! and i DO like my friends and all, but I want to hang with like, older and newer kids, you know? Any way to find your TRUE friends? and get the upperclassmen to acknowledge you and invite you to stuff? Thanx!

Ok if you want to be friends with upper classmen you just have to act like yourself because theyre not gonna like you if your a poser or try to hard. When you put out a huge effort people will think your desperate for attention and try to stay away. So just be yourself and you will find kids in older grades who like you for who you are. keep it real...TRAV

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this guy i like has a girlfriend but always asks me to hang out and says he likes me back he tells me hes going to dump his girlfriend which is one of my bestfriends i like the guy alot but i dont wanna hurt my friend. should i wait a couple weeks until shes over him and then go out with the guy? -sincerely confused

Dear confused,
first of i think you should think about your friends feelings which it souonds like your doing then you should really think about this guy. Maybe after you think of the whole situation you can think of the right thing to do....even when they break up you should talk with ur friend and see if its allright with her if you can go out with this guy, just be sure not to let him get in between your friendship.

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this kid i like thinks im ugly and is soo mean to me but on the other hand he gives me looks that are flirty and winks at me all the time...i like him alot but everyone thinks we'd make an awful couple ..what should i do??

-in love

Dear, in love
I think by the way your talking u might not know this guy very well and maybe you should try to talk to him more and learn what he's really about before u say your in love.

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I dont know why but...some people at school say IM a loser, thats why some people dont like me because "sometimes" I am categorized as a loser..i dont know what to do....

Dear annominous,
The only thing I can tell you to do is try to hang it with some different people. It doesnt seem like the people who are calling you losers are really nice. Maybe you should talk to these kids and see why they call you a loser. I hope that these kids can stop being immature and respect you just for being one of their classmates.....Senseriouly,
Tony T.

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Hey i have a question... everyone in school say that i dress like a nerd but i dont know why, i like the way I dress. Do you think I should dress like them or should I wear what I do now,
Senseriouly...confused

Dear confused,
I think you should wear what you want to wear and not worry what anybody else thinks. I'm guessing maybe your not friends with some of these people who share those comments so maybe you should kind of hang around some new kids and im sure you'll find a good friend who wont judge you by what you wear
Hope it works out!,
Tony T.

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