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give hints or not?
In a few weeks, I'll be hanging out with a bunch of friends, including a guy I've been liking for awhile. I doubt he has any idea of my crush, but it's about time I let him know. My best friend's boyfriend is his best friend also. How do I make a move finally and see if he has a reaction? I don't wanna seem desperate or set myself up for a big rejection.
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You are right when you say that it is about time that he knows that you have a crush on him, but it sounds like you are getting a little nervous. Why don't you find things about him that you like and dislike, find out facts about his personality, (please do not have any of your friends stalk him...a boy that liked me once tried that and it scared the crap out of me!)get to know a lot of his friends so that you don't feel awkward around them and so you can hang out with him while he is with his friends. After you have acomplished one, a few, or all of these, begin to show your feelings to him...but don't get too carried away, you might scare or confuse him. After a while, if he shows affection or interest, ask him out to the movies, for a walk through the park, friendly picnic, ect... You need to understand that if he says no or gets awkward, don't get all down about it, your chance will come when you least expect it! I hope I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks a lot!
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just smile at him and start talking casually. when you think youve chatted enough then ask if he's seeing anyone. if you dont just jump right into the conversation asking if he is then you wont seem desperate.
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Hey what i think that you should do is to hang out with him and really get to know the guy, i mean he is only human. If your not sure about him then it might take a little time, If you really wanna make a move try talking to him for a little while alone and then see what happens. I mean you dont want to start things off too fast do you
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