about

hey everyone, i'm kaleigh.
i've been through alot, so feel free to ask me
anything, i'll probably be able to relate.
im not a shit talker and ill tell you straight out what i think, im no afraid of what people think of me, i'd acctually like to know, so inbox me and let me know.

feel free to inbox me or ask me a question.
ill try my best to help yah out.

advice

alright so i'm 13/f and ive been begging my dad to buy me a cell phone and he might. the thing is that i need one that comes with minutes, like if i buy a cell it comes with 100 minutes or whatever. i really want a razr phone and it HAS to be AT&T (Cingular) is there such thing as getting one like this?

im not sure if you can buy a razr that comes with minutes: i think they only come with plans: but im not positive:
good luckk& hope you find a phone you like :)
omg and did you know they just came out with a purple razr: pretty radd__ just so yahno :p lol

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I just turned 13 and well my bf is a little older than me. We have already made out. But I was wondering how far you think that we should go... considering my age.

Thanks.

how old are you talking? a year three years?
but anyways however far you are comfortable to go with him: but dont do anything that your going to regret this is something you definetly should think through: and if you guys decide to go anywhere if its not something you want to do or its farther than you want to go make sure he knows that& i wouldnt do anything with him unless you trust him: not saying you dont but yeah :p
good luck& hope i helped! :)

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hello..

im stuck.. right now im in a serious relationship, weve been together for nearly a year... and things are changing.. its like its me making all the effort, yet he goes threw phases, like one weekend it will be me he'l want to see,t then he wont want to see me for another week then go fishing or something, he says hes not bored of me or anything and he shouldnt be cause we only see each other 2 times a week.. and the other part to the story is theres another guy who i havent done anything with, yet he sends me roses and all that kind of stuff.. ive been with my bf now for a yr and ive never got anything like that.. i just feel like i need to be somewhere else to further enhance my carreer, yet the only reson im here is for him.. and i really do love him so i cant let go, but i just dont no how to make him see that hes not appreciating me enough or anything..

wat should i do..is it time for quits, even though i love him??

i think you should give it a little more time& if you feel like your still putting forth all the effort& hes not appreciating you then i think you guys would be in need for a break: like he said: its not boredom but he might just want some space for awhile
but the best thing to do it talk to him about it& see how he feels :)
&about that other guy: he seems like a sweet guy: if i were you i would definetly get to know him better! :)
good luck&hope i helped :)

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It goes like this.
This friend of mine has a five and a half long distance relatioship with some guy.
He came back 2 weeks ago. She found out he was exchanging emails (be carefull when you call me LOVE...cause you know...her!!!).
Well she decided to forgive him just cause she loves him REALLY BAD. Even though he presented a couple of lame excuses.
Unfortunatelly... his mother Hates her. She is like.."I give you 5000euros if you dump that bitch" and I am not Joking. She really said that thing.
Also...HIS friends hate her. You know how it goes...they hate seeing him NOT fucking other girls etc...so they told him that SHE has been cheating on him for 2 years.
The guy knows that a lie but chooses to believe it and starts hating her and ignoring her cause hey...its summer time..and everyone wants to be free on summer time right? Cause its mating season...
On the mean time...the girl has been crying non stop, she is not sleeping at all. She called him and he was like "Dont call me all in tears and screw up my Night Out" and hang up on her (What A Dick!!!).
So, his friends eventually OPENLY told him that they lied to him and for some reason* he decided to stay mad at her and asked her not to call him for a while.
*and by some reason, I mean that she has been running after him, crying, apologising (even though she made nothing wrong) and giving excuses (even though HE should be the one giving the excuses), and probably that makes him feel like a REAL man...like he is Wanted...he is flattered by that, you know what I mean?

What I want from you is.
This day one of them not talking.
Will he call her if she doesn t? Answer just YES or NO. Dont explain why you believe weather he calls or not.

Will he eventually realise what a dick he s been? I believe that YES he will. And that probably in the future SHE will be the one NOT wanting him back cause he proved how rotten he can be. She just cant see it now cause she is hurt and loves him.

Any advice I could give to the girl? She wont go out with her friends...she does not want to eat 5 kilos of ice cream...she does not want a girls night out...she does not want to get drunk...she just cries. She does not eat or sleep...just cry non stop. Waiting for her cellphone to ring.

he eventually should call: it might not be the first day she doesnt call_ if he still likes her just give him some time: maybe he wanted to take a break from it all and just be with his friends?
& what you suggested was a HUGE possibility: but for now you could try surprising her with something/anything she used to love or have fun doing: but be careful there might be some memories from her bf that you dont want to bring up: most of all just give her some time so she can relize that guys come& go but friends are forever___ corny but true :)
good luck!!! :)
and i hope i helped:)

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I have decided that it would be interesting to model, but im not sure if im 'worthy' enough haha.

Height: 5'5"
Weight: 115 pounds
Bust: A34 (ya, ya small boobs)
Waist/Hip: Not Sure (i'm size 3 in pants)

I know there are a lot of places in Toronto that i could try out, im new to all of this haha, if anyone has any info about modelling, let me know.

i dont have any info on it but i say GO FOR IT!
lifes short:be open to trying new stuff :)
best of luck!!

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alcohol?
why do so many people drink it. i've tried it && i hate it alot. do people just not like it and drink it anyways or do they actually like it?
jusst wonderrring :) thankss for readingg

some people drink because they think it solves their problems: which it doesnt! just makes them worse! lol

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Ok I'm a 14/f and this is my frist crush ever and I'm ssooo obsessed with this one guy who I barly know.Next month school will be starting agian and I made 2 promises for my self and my 2nd promise is how to be friends with him cuz if I just say if he wants to go out or somethin it might be tooo werid.Besides I wanna be friends with him frist and see if he really is a great guy for me.Any tips on how to get his attention?

well for starters: talk to him& get to know him!
but most importantly dont change for him!
once you guys are at least aqquaintences(however you spell it :p) ask him to hangout: but before its just you guys make sure its a few people: just so its not akward
best of luck :)

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Well i liked this guy for about 2-3 months but we knew each other since grade 2 but then i moved. so we lost touch and all of a sudden we start talking hung out and i started to have feelings for him. But then i stopped and then he liked me. He told me on the last day here. Since he's going on vacation for a month or two. But the thing is i found out i still like him but I'm just scared he'll forget me and like date a girl on vacation because he liked me on our first time hanging out. Meaning he's "easily" in love. What do you think? do you think he'll find another vacation chick in a month? (he didn't ask me out he said he's moving a little to fast)

well by the sound of it he might have always had somewhat of a feeling for you but never enough to tell you or to be sure of it: but if he really likes you he wont find anyone else of vk: i think you should just wait and see: maybe ask him when he gets back?
best of luck!

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I have a rash on my stomach/chest. It is bright red with white spots & very itchy. I had sunburn a week or two ago, but the rash isn't in every spot I had sunburn, only a few. Does sunburn healing give you a rash? Or is it from something else? Nothing else really changed. Same soap & same clothes. Also, I feel dehydrated. There's a cream I can use, but I have to make sure it doesn't give me an allergic reaction. Is it possible to have rashes while your sunburn is healing? Thanks!!

this might not be alot of help but i think you should get it checked out by a doctor
possiblity: it could be an allergic reaction to the stuff your putting on it
best of luck& healing :p!

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Well i like this boy and he knows i do right,but when we tlak on msn he goes i know who you like i go who? who ? and he names another boys name and he knows i love him and i go you know i love then he says sureee do you know why ?

well personally i think its because he wants you to say its him you like: but there might be more to it? you should ask him maybee____
"dont you know i like you?"
or
"hmm i thought you knew i liked you"
id put him on the spot to get an answer out of him :)
hope i helped!

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where can i learn the drums on my own? like what books and dvds would be helpful? or should i get an instructor? i am a beginner and cannot really read music so if anyone can help me with that too that would be great.

alright well im notsure where you can get help learning how to play but my music teacher was fabulous& he taught us alot of tricks:
SPACES/face
lines/ egbdf
& he had this story: there was a guy in his calss that was "challenged" and he asked if it was a word and Mr T said it was and he pronounced it (IG UH BUH DIFF) and well its more detailed but i cant remember: but it helped me alott!
hope i helped!!

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im having a sweet 16 and i was wondering if anyone knew of any unique things that i could have at a party. ex: charictures and tattoo artists.

top of my head: one of those guys who draws you animated
lol hope i helped

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my friend and i are freakin' bored out of our minds,and we were just wondering what we can do inside the house? (its thunderstorming,so going outside is't an option) we've watched probably every movie you can think of, we're broke, and house-bound. soo,what can we do thats fun inside?! we're dyingg, please help :]. thanks mucho.


ps. - happy 4th of july!

paint your nails? call someone? rearrange your room? Talk to me! :) nah im jk:
but aim in dear kaleighh
hope i helped!

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Ok I weigh 135 lbs and I want to lose atleast 10.
I'm 5'3.

Its mostly my stomache that bothers me,
what are really effective exercises that will help that, that I can do at home.

I'm also trying to eat right,
but no matter what I eat in a day, even if its healthy and not huge portions I always gain atleast 2 pounds, and yesterday I only had 1,000 calories.

I'm so confused, help?

well just for an exercise:
every day do at least one hundred:
put the bend of you knees on your bed then let yourslef hang off the side of the bed: best if you have someone hold ure legs down :)

hope i helped

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15/f

i'm kinda obbessed with khleo thomas [the kid from holes, zero] like i've watched holes 20ish or so times. i'm literally like inlove with him. no, obbessed, but whatever. its starting to like get annoying, like how do i stop?

have you tried meeting other guys?

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ok i have chronis depression and anxiety...and my bf doesnt know how to handle me...honestly all he would have to say is calm daow,dont worry, or tell me what hes doing and ill b fine...but he runs...and weve been together for almost a yr and he loves me to death when were with each other we have a blast n hes sweet lke yesterday we went to the taste of chicago and he was all over me and holding me and i fell asleep in his arms and he ran his hands along my cheek and kissed my forehead...i kno he loves me...recently he lost his lisence and kindof just wants to b with friends and try to get his life back...hes not shutting me out at all we still hang out we just talk less..thats when the anxiety comes in when i start to worry about nething i call him so he will reassure me and calm me down but lately he wont answer and ill keep calling...i know this is my fault its just i dont know how to calm myself down and stop worring about what he is doin..

helpppp!

all i have to say is get him face to face and talk to him about it.
best of luck!

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alright, so me and my boyfriend have talked about making out, and today we came really close to it, and then it didn't happen.. we talked tonight, and he said that he just doesn't have enough confidence, to make the move.
he said i should.
but i don't know if i should or not.
should i make the move, or let him?

if you think you are both ready to: and you both want to& he says that he wants you to make the first move.. i think you should. but if he decides to pull away then just let him. dont force him into anything he doesnt want to do.
best of luck!

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i have no love life and i like this guy...but i dont know who to get him to notice me! even if he doesnt notice me...i wish SOMEONE would!

hey. i can definetly help you out on this. but i need more info. try IMing me (AIM) dear kaleighh

thats the only way i can help!

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I want a drop down menu for my myspace profile but I want it with a black background and colored writing. (Just one fluroescent colour) What site can I use to do that or how can I do it?
Thankyou

try whateverlife.com it has EVERYTHING!!

best of luck!

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I go to the pool alot, and I know this is going to sound really stupid, but I don't like to go in the pool because when I do, my makeup gets all runny. I have this "waterproof" mascara thats kind of cheap so it still runs. and I can't find any cheap waterproof eyeliner. I know, your going to say just don't wear makeup. I really like to wear makeup though and I like applying it everyday and it just makes me feel nice, and I want to be able to swim underwater and have fun at the pool without worrying about makeup. So i'm asking, do you think I should invest in this expensive waterpoof eyeliner at Sephora called "Make Up FOrever Aqua Eyes" for $16 and mascara "Tarte Lights, Camera, Splash" for $18? I saw them in cosmogirl. Has anyone ever tried them? You can still answer my question though if you haven't. Thanks!

have you tried goggles?

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