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This previous year I was new to a school and made friends with all seniors. Now, that im a senior and they all graduated, i dont know ONE person. I'm not exactly good at making friends, i was lucky enough to meet them last year. (People at my school have already formed their cliques and dont really accept anyone.) I used to be extremely outgoing and have tons of friends at my old school, but im a completely different person now that im in an unfamiliar place. So now that school is coming up, im not sure what to do the first couple weeks of school. I know it'll take time before i make friends, because thats just me. So in the meantime, do I just sit by myself during lunch and hope that someone will come up to me? I'd rather be the one to go out and make friends, but it wont happen. Also, if you saw someone sitting by themself would you honestly go up to them? Any advice?

First off,i know how you feel. I was outgoing and popular in my old school and now that i moved im all shy and stuff. I hate it. Dont change for people either. Well,i think you should talk to the people in your classes often. Unfortunently[[sp?]], not everyone will go up to you and invite you to there table and they wont say "will you be my friend?" like in kindergarton. So i think you should sit at a table with people and maybe eat quietly and see what they're doing or talking about. Then after you think you no a little about them just go up to them at the table and talk about it. Jump into a conversation. They might think your being anoying,so dont be a blabber and go "yeah omg like omg ya and blahh" Just let other people talk and when they say something funny just laugh a little,and listen to them. In some school you have to be the one that takes charge,so i think you should really just go for it and give it your all! If someone was sitting by themself i would go up to them and invite them to my table for sure. You have to be nice also. Well i really hope you find good friends and i hope you dont end up the way i did good luck
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ok i have this thing about going back wards i get so scared to. and i a trying out for cheering and i go to gymnastics 2 times a week and my gymnastics trainer tells me that i am good and that i can do my back handpring by my self but i am to scared to. and like it weird like i taught myself how to do one before and i did it wiked good and then i fell on my head and now i am so scare to do anything backwords. and my trainer tells me that it is harder to do an arial then it is to do a bachandspring and i think that it isn't because i am notafrade to do anything front wards can any one help me or tell me a good way to get over my fear?

just try all you can! be a dare devil and think "if i get hurt,so be it" maybe pray befor you flip backwards,practice on a trampileen!give it your all! you have to believe you can do it to succeed! trust me i know its scary but after i did mine it was a piece of cake! dont thik about that fact that its scary going back wards think of the thrill and how happy you'll be after you land it!you just need to believe,practice,and go for it!!
good luck i know you can do it!
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ok so last summer i got a haircut rite? it came out HORRIBLE, too WAY TOO short! i was so embaressed. so i went to a professional place and it got even worse. i was ALWAYS getting made fun of and i hated it. well the past school year i whore my hair up every single day! now i want my hair to grow really long but since the last haircut i got was a year ago, i dont think my hair will grow. i dont want to "get a trim" cause i want it to grow! should i just snip a tiny bit of hair off myself? please help!

i gues get it cut A TINY BIT OFF PERFESSIONALLY!!! In the meantime,to grow your hair, take vitamin E pills. They dont harm you because there just a vitamin. Also ALWAYS keep your hair healthy. You could also get Byeton [[sp?]] [[its pronounced By-i-ton i think...or By-ton]] But its a source of protein and it doesnt exactly focus on hair but the more protein you have and calcium you have the faster it will get to your body and your hair is made by protein [[also your nails and toenails]]You could also just drink about 2-4 glasses of milk a day and make sure you got a lot of protein in your system :) [[peanut butter is a great source of protein!!]]

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does Fructis Long and Strong Shampoo really work to grow hair longer? any expeiriences? Thanks for any advice

It may :p

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I'm 15/F turning 16 in october. I'm desperate to get a babysitting job, so my cousin told me to make flyers to put around my neighborhood.

What should kind of information should I put on the flyer, like my name and phone number.

How should I decorate it and what additional information should I add?

Lastly, what SHOULDN'T I put on my flyer?

Thanks guys. ♥

BABYSITTING SERVICES
{your name} is starting a baby sitting service! Want a night out to relax or have fun? But are held back by your kids? No worries! I'll baby sit your kids for only {price}! I have had experience befor.I am 15 1/2.I know your kids will have loads of fun!! I'll ajust my hours to fit your sceduale!Please call me at {your phone #}. Hope to see you soon!!!
Sincearly,
{your name}
Thats what i think you should write.
Include- Phone #,Name,Age,Expeirence,Hours,Amount per hour/week/time...
DONT INCLUDE-this is ovious but dont include--That you have a boyfriend to help you,had problems with children.
I think you should put a bright pink or bright yellow for the color of the flyer [[the paper color]]So people will notice it. Post it in stores and notice boards and more. I hope you get to baby sit soon!
please rate
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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous.

Ahh i felt the SAME WAY!! just become friends with her friends and you'll be funny and cool. Do NOT try to turn her friends agianst her. Thats the worst. It will come back to you 10 x worse! Soon you wont be jealous. Get out there and give it all you got! Make plans and invite them to.Soon she'll be jealous ;). Wear make up it works great! Dont ever feel brought down by another person,especailly your best friend! Shes not a threat. And please stick with her! Your you and your pretty and funny and just awesome! You got to have confidence. If your playing a game think "im going to win!!" and most likely you will because thinking good things and thinking possitive will make you feel better and get closer to your goal!! Take your mind off of her and her friends.when you no her friends you'll all be friends!! You have to be outgoing to :).You cant go wrong with haveing a fun sleep over and inviteing everyone! Dont make anyone feel left out because you also have to be WICKED nice to people. Just think of these as guildlines to becomeing noticed :) They really work to! Get everyones phone number and dont be afraid to do risky things!Be a dare-devil :). Live on the Edge! Try not to think about the times she had with her friends,because those things already happend.Make new fun times that you can think about!!
Good Luck and i know your going to become popular wicked fast!!
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Is it possible to be drinking too much water???

Yes it is possible. And you could die. There was a kid on the news about this. I guess its just like that phrase " too much of a good thing can kill you"
well if your small [[maybe 4"11 and your 13..]] try haveing 4-5 glasses. And normally you drink 8 glasses a day. Dont try and force drinking 8 glasses at once,because then you'll have to go to the bathroom and your tummy will really hurt. It'll feel like you have to throw up !! [[i've tried and i will NEVER try again!!]]
Well i hope i helped you!!
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what are some good online prank websites? i want one where i can im someone through a robot or something to do with aim. or something really cool. thanx

like the other person be4 me make a screen name maybe. But some really good sites for pranking people are--
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.killsometime.com
http://www.strangereports.com/
www.bored.com might have some good websites.

thats all i could think of
good luck!

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My family wants to get another dog. We already have a Bichon Frise and we would like to get another small dog, maybe smaller that a Bichon Frise. Does any body know of any good dogs, that work well with children, are cute, arent that expensive, and would work well with another small dog? My Bichon Frise is very sweet if that matters for anything. Thanks!

Westies [[google them if you never heard of it]] are really awesome dogs! their medium length and they are active,cute,lovable and great protective dogs. Their a little more hyper when their yunger but when they get older their good to relax,but still play. My only dislike of these dogs is that their a little stiff [[in bone structure...there not "floppy ragitty-ann dolls"]] they work great with other dogs
Chiwawas are kind of obnoxsious[[sp?]] and have loud mouths for a small dog,but there SOO cute!! there tiny aswell. There an awesome cuddle dog! [[and to play]]but they might not work all that good with other dogs.[[but all dogs have a different personality]]
Try looking at dogs at the pound! im so sensitive and i cry when i see the dogs there but if you got one there you'd make that dog soo happy!!!
My dog is a mut. Shes half Bichon half Sheezoo[[sp?]] Shes so cute!! and shes playful,relaxing,lovable,not expensive [[because she is a mutt]] and she never sheds!! they're good protectors and about the same size of a regular Bichon. They would work well with another small dog no doubt about it.Sheezoo's are cool beacause you can to all this awesome stuff with their hair when they get older to!![[like put it in pony tails,braids,all that!!]]
Maltese's are soo adorible and would get along great with other dogs!!

well i hope i helped!!
try googleing this question to and maybe it could give you a better answer if mine didnt help!

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Ok so I am slim 13/f. And a pool party is coming up, i mostly shop at Abercromei Kids. I never really looked at it but I swa that they had a white and dark blue bathing suit. Does anyone have one and ould you tell me the cost, and if its a good batihng suit, also does it have padding



Thanks!!
5 4 everyone

well i think abercrombie kids might not have padding..but the regualr abercrombie & fitch might..go to the website and it should tell you the prices :) and abercrombie does have great bathing suits!!

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I am going on vacation in a weeks and I was planning on getting a mystic tan before I go but I'm not sure if I should...
I have very sensitive and I can't use some kinds of makeup and some lotions. I did a "patch test" with the lotion you put on before you go and my skin did not react to that. I was just wondering if anyone that has sensitive skin has ever tried ot or knows anyone, or if you think I should try it.
Thanks!

Well i use this Jergins tanning thingy..it works really well. At first it starts of lightish [[like some color in your skin]]. Then [[maybe ina couple days]] [[you put some on everyday]] it gets a little more tanner and a nice glow... then finally it give you a nice glowing tan effect. Its lotion, i have sensitive skin and fair skin and it works for me. I hope this helps!! [[also tanning at the beach.]] Dont just lay down and tan. I'd say 45 mins to 1 hour in the sun a day doing something active will really help and give you a nice tan!!
hope i helped!
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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size?

i think you are lucky to have mounds!! Be proud of what you gott!! You'll grow into them and people will be saying "dam...she's fiinnee!!" If its the case that people think your stuffing,you know thats not true. Their just jealous. But dont be self-conscience,just think,at least you have breasts! [[ your body is different,but when it grows more then you will be more confident]] I think you should show them off. Not to much,but maybe like.. a nice pink top [[kinda dressy..not too dressy...very casual yet a little dressy =P ]] and light blue jeans :) Are you over weight? nd by how much? If your over weight i wouldnt consider this idea..maybe if you are you should loose some weight. But if your normal/just right this will make your..mounds look flattering and hott! Just be pround of what you got..when you 15/16 they boys will LOVE you
good luck
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What's the ideal weight for a 16 year old girl that's 5'0"?

112-123 should be right...and for EXACT i would say 112-115 is ideal weight

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I put a post up on a penpal website looking for a Japanese penpal to correspond with so I could improve my Japanese and they could improve their English. I specified that I was looking for a Japanese penpal but still recieved two emails from non-Japanese speaking people. I am not interested in corresponding with them but don't know whether to send them an email saying, "Sorry, but I'm looking for Japanese friends only." which seems rather rude or to ignore their email and not reply.

What should I do?

hmm...i think you should open both emails and write something like--
"Hey how are you? im ____. Well i was really looking for a Japanese Friend so i could improve my Japanese while they could improve there English,sorry about this. But another person e-mailed me and i think you two could become penpals! her e-mail adress is _____@____.____ i hope you two get to know each other! And again,im very sorry about this
Sincerly,
___________ "

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Ok so i am thinking of dyeing my hair a redest-brownish color but i'm not sure that would look good on me i have brown eyebrows and brown eyes and also olvie skin. I had curly/frizy hair but i have a strigner and i do that alot. my hair color right now is brown with blonde underneath. SO would that color be good for me and is there any tips for doing my hair because i always have it down or in a bun. thanks also if you have pictures that would be great. oh and my hair is alittle long then sholder lenght and i want to get it cut any ideas?

THANKS SO MUCH (rate all)

Ok,i have the perfect thing!! Get your hair temperarily colored redish-brown..but go for more on the brown side. Get long layers in the back [[longer than your ear]] and dont take that much length off of it. [[you seem like you look like me..and i look good with that and yes my hair is cut a little longer than sholder length..the color would look very pretty on you]]

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I'm a hugeeeeeee tomboy. I always wear t-shirts and long shorts, my hair is always pulled back, and i dont wear makeup. I mean, im not fat, just bulky and muscular. I dont wanna change any of this. But i've never had a boyfriend, and maybe its cus i act too much like a guy. I really want a boyfriend, but i dont wanna change. What type of guy would i go good with? WHAT SHOOD I DO!!!

hmmm...i say...wear your hair down...try wearing some t-shirts with quoets or something cool on it,not boring stuff,you can still wear long shorts..but get bermuda girl shorts from old navy. You dont have to change though...meet people and meet the guys..i think you would go good with a skater guy or a football/sports player :)

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I have a friend and he is a marker this is the same person from the marker one the one when I said he died well his color came back and I just tried writing with him and he ran out again I have had this marker since I just started writing I mean I try to write a letter like h and it would come out like n I dont want to throw him away because I want to keep him for ever what should I do

uhh..keep the marker..in a glass box so you can cherish it and all the good times you've had together...seriously... just throw it AWAY!who really cares?

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I am the person who loves to be creative and unique. I like doing my own thing..as long as its different from everyone else. But A LOT of people tend to copy me. From buying the same outfits as me..to..copying my profiles, quotes, ideas, etc. I know it's supposed to be a compliment. But like i said, i just like being original and dont want anyone copying me or ripping off my stuff. Any suggestions on how I should deal with this?

Grr,that must be VERY annoying, well you no you are original and the people who copy you know your the original,they admire you and such,just think "they cant think of good ideas like me..." or just be flattered by it. Just change your outfits frequesntly,maybe go to a store that people dont know about..and maybe if you go on a vacation you could get clothes,so they couldnt possibly copy you!Unless they're obbsessed.. :-/. But yeah people used to copy me to try new styles and different things,and maybe keep switching around..some people will stick to others things and you can move on.
sorry if this dosent help much
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This friend I know started to hangout with the "popular girls" I feel like since she sarted hanging out with them we arent as close as we used to be what should I do?

just remember this quote
--if they havent made it in your future then they are not supposed to be there.--
i had a friend,kristen,she was MY BEST FRIEND. and i went into another crowd because she was kind of mean to me...we split up. I really do miss her i just wish we never split up. Maybe you should hang out and talk to her more and more...think of it as a new start and just maybe she'll make her friends be your friends,you might think she dosent want anything 2 do with you but she might be thinking about you everyday when she is with her other friends...(if you were close) i know i think about kristen a lot.. So yeah think of it as a new start and talk to her,tell her your sad and you mis your friend ship.

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I have a college induction day tomorrow, where they go through your subject choices and you get to meet people at the college... it's a private college (there was a test to get in and it costs alot to go there) and the dress for the day is "smart casual"... would it be okay to wear jeans? A pair that arn't ripped ect... lol I don't have trousers! But if it's not a good idea I can borrow something off my mum :S
What do you think?
16/f/UK

If you wear jeans,i think you should wear a some what formal and feminine[[sp?]] top.and maybe good heels and a nice looking purse.

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